As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
:
:
:
:
:
 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me

A July Dreamer

A Travel & Lifestyle Blog

Guest Post · September 21, 2017

How to combat stress on vacation

Most of us plan our vacations either home or abroad to try to escape the stresses at home. And not specifically problems in your home, it could be work stresses or even family. I know when I go on vacation the idea is to relax and enjoy my destination and forget about work. But I can confess right now, I suck at forgetting about work so much that I travel with my work phone.

Many of us are guilty of checking out work emails instead of just enjoying the vacation and F all. It is the current culture but it should not be the norm by any means. We should be able to distinguish between relaxing and working and set boundaries. Today I am sharing a guest post that has the resource on how we can combat stress on vacation.

combat stress on vacation

How to combat stress on vacation

As the evenings start to get darker and the temperature slowly dropping, the reality of winter creeps up on us. Summer may be over, but it’s never too late to book that last-minute getaway for some sun. That’s the thing about holidays, you can pack up your suitcase and grab your passport at any time of the year. Whether you want to relax in the sun or go on a fun-filled trip in the snow with friends.

The possibilities are endless, there are so many different destinations you can choose from.  Being open-minded about the destinations you want to visit makes it easier to find quirky places all year round.  As much as beach or pool lounging is fun. try not to always go for the places that are boiling hot. You should aim for something more adventurous and spontaneous like going on road trips.

combat stress on vacation

That being said, life can often get in the way of the desire to travel and see the world. Family or work commitments are enough to keep your feet firmly on the ground for most of the year. It’s also enough to make you feel stressed, so make sure that you are putting yourself and your health first. Unfortunately holidays aren’t like magic (might feel like it), there are times when the stresses of life will follow you. To help combat stress on vacation, Hayes and Jarvis have created ‘The Four Pillars of Holiday Relaxation’. Their online tool is a handy way to learn how to make the most of your trip, and leave your stresses at the airport.

Take some time for yourself, and relax

Holidays are often a great way to unwind for most of us, but not everyone is able to switch off completely. Hayes and Jarvis also commissioned a survey that found that a third of the nation are unable to unwind from work worries while on holiday. That is a considerable portion of the population, if you’re in that third, then have a little read of their expert advice. Whether you have already been on vacation this year or have a trip upcoming have a read of this document. It will help you to reflect on how to combat stress on vacation and plan better for future vacations.

In: Guest Post

You’ll Also Love

heatingIs Your Heating on in September?
housewarming partyOrganize a Memorable Housewarming Party
Dress wishlist{Guest Post} Dress Wishlist

Comments

  1. LaShawn Wiltz says

    September 23, 2017 at 11:24 am

    Good points. i really try to unplug on vacation, but it’s hard with social media begging you to share!

    Reply
  2. A.L. Gibson says

    September 22, 2017 at 10:48 pm

    You make some good points. What really helps me is taking some time for myself to de-stress. That helps a lot.

    Reply
  3. Pam says

    September 22, 2017 at 7:31 pm

    I really try to unplug on vacation by avoiding social media as much as possible. I may post things but try not to get caught up in following everyone else.

    Reply
  4. Amanda says

    September 22, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    I get so stressed and anxious while traveling so this article is right up my alley. I have also learned to just leave my blog alone every time I go on vacation!

    Reply
  5. Rosemary Anderson Palmer says

    September 22, 2017 at 10:09 am

    As my work is my blog, I don’t stress over it. I try to be caught up and just work as I want.

    Reply
  6. Emily, Our house now a home says

    September 22, 2017 at 6:13 am

    It is so hard to leave the stresses of life and work at home when on vacation. I have found that just staying unplugged helps a lot. So no phone, tablet or computer. It allows you to focus on the moments and not any notifications coming from a device.

    Reply
  7. Rachel Akers says

    September 22, 2017 at 1:45 am

    Stress on vacation is the worst, it is supposed to be stress free. But when we are used to always being on the go, switching can be tough.

    Reply
  8. Liz Mays says

    September 21, 2017 at 9:41 pm

    Sometimes I do have a hard time switching off when I’m supposed to be on vacation. The four pillars are really helpful!

    Reply
  9. Cheryl Vivian | neurotic baker says

    September 21, 2017 at 8:52 pm

    I used to pack so many activities into my vacation that it became very stressful as I never really have time for week long vacations. Now when I take my long weekends I may identify one thing I need to do or see and spend the rest of my time exploring and relaxing.

    Reply
  10. Jenn Padgett says

    September 21, 2017 at 7:10 pm

    This is some great advice. I have a real hard time letting go of stress while on vacation.

    Reply
  11. Candy Kage says

    September 21, 2017 at 3:23 pm

    Stress and vacation do go with each other at all. We plan our trips and expenses and book ahead of time if possible. I just book as much ahead of time as possible and get it over with.

    Reply
  12. Terri Ramsey Beavers says

    September 21, 2017 at 3:10 pm

    Thank you for the post, I’m going to use your tips. I always try to load up on our activities and it ends up becoming a stressful time. I need to learn to relax.

    Reply
  13. Jeanette says

    September 21, 2017 at 2:36 pm

    When I go on vacation I try to unplug as much as I can. I mean you’re paying to enjoy the place you chose to go on vacation. So for me I am able to relax but it does take a few days. Great tips.

    Reply
  14. Tomi_C says

    September 21, 2017 at 1:46 pm

    I really, really, really try to focus on savoring every single moment of my vacations. No time to worry about what goes on at the office. I have to trust everything will be just as good as it was when I left.

    Reply
  15. Julee says

    September 21, 2017 at 1:23 pm

    i love this. I am guilty of not “letting it go” when on vacation. It makes for regret on the return. Thank you for these tips. I have printed these to make a reminder to myself to enjoy a vacation.

    Reply
  16. Amber says

    September 21, 2017 at 1:15 pm

    I try to always relax on vacation. For the most part I am able to do this, unless a member of my family gets cranky. This is why I don’t mind traveling alone.

    Reply
  17. Jaime Nicole says

    September 21, 2017 at 1:13 pm

    Planning a vacation can be so stressful, and for me sometimes there is pressure to do everything and see everything. Just taking time to relax is a great thing!

    Reply
  18. Heather @ Kraus House Mom says

    September 21, 2017 at 12:53 pm

    If I’m not with my kids I have no problem with stress but if they come forget it.

    Reply
  19. Sarah Bailey says

    September 21, 2017 at 12:17 pm

    these are such great ideas, it can be such a stressful time going on holiday, with having to remember all sorts and making sure you have everything scheduled.

    Reply

Leave a ReplyCancel reply

Next Post >

Things to do in Bath 

About Me
I'm Miranda. Travel-Addict. Blogger. Moscato Addict. Weekend Escapist. Homebody. Countryside dweller residng in Oxfordshire.

Search the archives

My 5 Year Plan to become a millionaire

https://youtu.be/rzpyQrO3BLY

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

The Categories

The Archives

  • Home
  • About
  • Privacy Policy

Copyright © 2026 A July Dreamer · Theme by 17th Avenue

This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish. Cookie settingsACCEPT
Privacy & Cookies Policy

Privacy Overview

This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are as essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience.
Necessary
Always Enabled
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
SAVE & ACCEPT

Loading Comments...