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Lifestyle · August 23, 2017

Back to school items should have

Last week I shared back to school items your forgot about and many seemed to be on top of things. An odd item here or there missing but mostly up to scratch. So if you’re one of those parents who think they have everything then use this post as a checklist. Back to school time can be such a stressful time if you’re not prepared for it. I know some people work best last-minute but not all kids can cope. To save your sanity and that of your family it pays to be organised.

Being organised should not only be restricted to the mums running around like headless chickens. But to the entire family, ensure that you involve the kids in every process to ensure they are ready. I remember as a kid my mum always ensured we helped choose our own school schools and backpacks. We felt very involved and wanted to do more, including going to bed earlier to wake up early.

Another thing that helped was having a Back to School checklist, we are all different so these will be too. Customize the check it to each individual kid and make them responsible for it. Whatever is common for all put somewhere they can all see and utilize. Now that we have that handled, here are the back to school items should have already.

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Back to school items should have 

 

Uniforms or labelled clothes

Apart from senior high, all the schools I went to I had to wear a uniform. In a way it saved my parents money on other clothing but that was no easy feat either. Luckily for my siblings and I my mother is a talented woman who can do anything. If it wasn’t mandatory to buy uniforms, she made them herself and often were better than the school offered.

I remember my brother went through a growth spurt where each term he needed a new uniform. Can you imagine how much that would have cost my parents if they had to buy them. Luckily mother made them for him all sized up and he surpassed them by the end of the third term.

For those who are {un}lucky not to need specific uniforms it calls for being creative. Especially for the young kids whom losing clothes is a vocation and happens regularly. My young sister always managed to lose her gym shirts and come home with someone else’s kits. It drove my mother insane until she started labeling her clothes and it almost solved the problem. Somehow some kits still managed to get lost so mum always had spared somewhere.

Winter clothing {Wellies, coats and umbrellas}

I mentioned wellies {winter boots} and coats in my previous post especially in the UK. Our weather leaves nothing to be desired and if you want to ensure your kid’s school shoes lasts, wellies are it. I know it can be a nuisance having to dress them in wellies as they leave the house then at school back into normal shoes. But better that than having to spend money every single term on school shoes which is not cheap.

Winter coats are a no-brainer, you need your child to be warm and comfortable at school. There are many companies out there selling the best winter jackets and coats for kids. Whilst I don’t have kids I know my SIL loves Frugi – a company that sells amazing organic clothing. The likes of Matalan, George Asda always has a great range of back to school products at affordable prices.

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Stationery {Books, Pens or Pencils, sharpeners, markers, crayons and stickers}

I remember when I was in grade school I went through pencils like a sharpener. Not sure how I managed to lose so many in a space of one week I needed a new pack. My mum couldn’t understand it even my teachers had not clue either. Up to this day I have no clue what I did with those pencils but probably the play area can enlighten me. Make sure you stock up on as many pencils and pens as you possibly can. Crayons where another stationery I managed to lose quite often. These days you have cute stickers that can be put on all your stationery so it doesn’t get lost.

Birthday lists and invites

Yes I am including birthday lists, because as soon as school starts it is some kids birthday or even your own. Are you prepared for that? Are you looking for tips on how to celebrate a birthday like a celebrity that you are? Or maybe this year you just want something low-key for your kids.

I have been seeing a lot of ads on Facebook about birthday registries which I am not sure about. Obviously we want our kids to get something they will love and need but registries? Ain’t we going just a tad bit too far on this, it should always be about celebrating another year. It shouldn’t be about adding more presents to your kids collection unless it’s books.

Lunch Box check list

As a kid this was one of the most exciting things about being back to school. Mum is a genius, a creative one at that and made our lunches so much fun. We don’t come from a rich family, we are middle class family but we had it all. Mum can bake and she can whip up delicious meals so our lunch boxes where the envy of the playground. I hope one day when I have kids I will be able to offer up the same if not more.

I have nothing against school dinners but most often don’t meet parent’s expectations. Not all parents are fussy, they just want their kids to have the best food and snacks for nourishment. Not eating for the sake of eating, which for many schools is the case.

Even though some schools offer school lunches, you can still have a lunchbox checklist. You can pack different snacks that your child loves and will enjoy after the school dinner is polished off.

I hope you will find this post useful and for some a checklist of what you should have already.

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  1. Adrienne says

    August 26, 2017 at 10:50 pm

    Great list! Definitely forgot about wellies that’s for sure, those are a must!

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  2. Melanie says

    August 25, 2017 at 6:13 pm

    Such a fab checklist and saves the whole thought process of having to make a list 🙂 x

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  3. Rani Bruyns says

    August 25, 2017 at 5:23 pm

    Great tips for the back to school rush, I’m lucky to not have to worry about these things hihi

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  4. Newcastle Family Life says

    August 25, 2017 at 3:48 pm

    I am fairly organised with back to school, I get all the uniforms in before the summer. I just need new shoes for my three children and winter coats ( but there is none in the shops yet) plus a few little stationery bits for my eldest as she is going into year ten x

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    • Anosa says

      August 25, 2017 at 3:52 pm

      You’re definitely on top of your list, well done you.

  5. Cherri Littleton Megasko says

    August 24, 2017 at 10:08 pm

    Birthday registries? Oh my goodness – no thanks! Here in the US a lot of schools have really strict rules on birthday parties. Some will not allow the distribution of invitations at school (because if someone doesn’t get invited it hurts their feelings) and some say if you invite one classmate you must invite them all (although I don’t know how they can enforce that). Anyway in some areas it’s a major point of contention.

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  6. Kita Bryant says

    August 24, 2017 at 7:00 pm

    I can always use a list to help me remember. Lord knows it’s easy to forget everything the kids need!

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  7. Melanie Edjourian says

    August 24, 2017 at 5:04 pm

    Great check list, I need to check my children’s labels and make sure I have all their stationary labelled too.

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  8. Karen Gough says

    August 24, 2017 at 4:24 pm

    I’m saving this so I can read it again next week when I sorting through the girls school stuff

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  9. Baby Isabella says

    August 24, 2017 at 3:31 pm

    Great checklist! I start BIG school for the first time in September and will definitely be following this!

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  10. Jaime Nicole says

    August 24, 2017 at 12:31 pm

    This is a fantastic checklist! I love the lunchbox checklist – I’m always forgetting what I have or don’t have. Awesome idea!

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  11. Melissa Zia says

    August 24, 2017 at 11:12 am

    What a brilliant check list! very helpful. My kids went back to school last week but its so important to label everything.

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  12. Rhian Westbury says

    August 24, 2017 at 10:19 am

    I used to love going into Partners as it was called then and buying all my stationery for the new school year, it made me so happy x

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  13. Jenn @ EngineerMommy says

    August 24, 2017 at 10:15 am

    I like the idea of a lunch box checklist. I’m always struggling to remember what to pack and trying not to forget something. A check list is a great idea.

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  14. Attachment Mummy says

    August 24, 2017 at 10:04 am

    Great check list, and advice. I’m sure it must be a nightmare getting everything together ready for the start of school.

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  15. Our Family World says

    August 24, 2017 at 9:37 am

    Great list! I always loved buying stationery. The smell of new paper made me excited to go back to school. A birthday list is something new to us. I will have to start on that this year with the kids.

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  16. Kara says

    August 24, 2017 at 7:53 am

    I am really disorganised this year and I normally have it all sorted. Most of the kids uniform still fits luckily but it’s the stuff that sells out that I need – ties and jumpers

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  17. Gareth Torrance says

    August 24, 2017 at 7:47 am

    I am dreading the day my daughter goes off to school… At the moment, she won’t be my little baby anymore…

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  18. Angela Ricardo Bethea says

    August 24, 2017 at 6:13 am

    Thanks for sharing this helpful tips! For me I think I’d probably go for the stationary first and clothing since kids these days grow up so fast.

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  19. Ana De Jesus says

    August 24, 2017 at 2:55 am

    Aw yes stationary is a must. I would always lose pens so I always had to keep buying new ones at the new start of a new term x

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  20. Marysa says

    August 24, 2017 at 2:28 am

    I am just starting to plan for school! We just got our school supply lists on Saturday, and I am starting to feel overwhelmed. These are definitely items that tend to get overlooked, and it is nice to be able to plan ahead.

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  21. Christie Campbell says

    August 24, 2017 at 1:47 am

    These are excellent items that are usually overlooked. The stationary definitely! And the lost art of thank you cards and birthday cards.

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  22. Lynn White says

    August 24, 2017 at 12:24 am

    I don’t have kids, but I’m sure parents find it super helpful!

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  23. Mayah Thomas says

    August 23, 2017 at 10:56 pm

    Great list of things to remember! I used to hate going back to school! The highlight for me was buying a new school bag and colourful new stationary sets. I was one of those girls that had a gel pen in every colour lol

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  24. Laura Dove says

    August 23, 2017 at 8:58 pm

    I thought I had a pretty thorough list but I hadn’t even thought of a birthday list! I’m not looking forward to all of the parties starting again!

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  25. Stephanie says

    August 23, 2017 at 8:58 pm

    Great list of things to remember, I am in denial that they are going back to school soon!

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  26. Mummy Times Two says

    August 23, 2017 at 8:48 pm

    Wellies are definitely something I always forget and then panic when winter shows up and we need them.

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  27. Joanna @ Everyday Made Fresh says

    August 23, 2017 at 7:47 pm

    This is a great little list of things that parents may not think about. We homeschool and don’t have to worry about these things, thankfully.

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  28. Candy Kage says

    August 23, 2017 at 7:20 pm

    I know your did this for getting organized for back to school. Really finding it very helpful in my everyday to day home life. Just need to get everyone else on board.

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  29. Healthy & Psyched says

    August 23, 2017 at 6:44 pm

    I always loved buying new stationary when it was time to go back to school!

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  30. Sarah Bailey says

    August 23, 2017 at 6:40 pm

    I can’t believe how quickly bad to school has come around and how it really is almost time to make sure those winter clothes are at the ready.

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  31. Tori says

    August 23, 2017 at 6:10 pm

    Haha, as a teacher my biggest tip is to label everything…! It would make my life after a PE lesson so much easier, haha!

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  32. Cheryl Vivian | neurotic baker says

    August 23, 2017 at 4:34 pm

    I feel like I have ocd when it comes to back to school! At least two to three weeks out, I’m buying supplies, checking to see if my son needs a new backpack and checking all his sizes. He’s growing so quickly now as a teen!

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  33. lisa prince says

    August 23, 2017 at 3:24 pm

    im homeschooler mum to 8 and so i dont need to worry about uniforms but i can enjoy the stationary part of things as im what you would calla little of an addict , i love the awesome collections , i do remember the nightmare of losing items often and having to pay for more because the names washed out and thy got lost or taken from an other child , the labels are a great idea

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  34. Tomi_C says

    August 23, 2017 at 2:31 pm

    We found some personalized fabric labels and they really came in handy for labeling items for our kids when they were in day care and elementary school and even Summer Camp. The labels were specially created to adhere to fabric and stay.

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  35. Jeanette says

    August 23, 2017 at 2:26 pm

    School just started here so I have just about everything I need. The one thing that always gets me is how soon my kiddos birthday is for when school starts. I have to have invites out the day school starts so that people can plan.

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  36. Lucie1979 says

    August 23, 2017 at 1:55 pm

    Great post! I’d never have thought to include birthday lists!! Amazing idea!!

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  37. Amanda says

    August 23, 2017 at 1:47 pm

    You are so right to include birthday lists. I am always scrambling when party planning and being prepared right off the bat would make my life so much easier!

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  38. Alli Smith says

    August 23, 2017 at 12:43 pm

    I’m with you when it comes to birthday registries. Really? That’s going a tad too far. Schools started back here last week. I wish they waited until after Labor Day like we did when I was in school.

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  39. Super Busy Mum says

    August 23, 2017 at 12:22 pm

    My kids start back to school next week – the summer holidays has FLOWN by. I did all of my back to school shopping quite early – thankfully!

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  40. Sarah says

    August 23, 2017 at 11:51 am

    We just went back to school yesterday! This year we did all the back to school shopping early and it made is totally stress free!

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  41. Robin Rue says

    August 23, 2017 at 10:58 am

    We actually aren’t allowed to pass out birthday invites at our school. Kids have to sneak them to each other LOL. It’s so no one feels excluded and I totally get it.

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  42. Stephanie Merry says

    August 23, 2017 at 9:56 am

    I used to love getting to pick my new stationery ahead of the new school year x

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  43. Hannah Anderson says

    August 23, 2017 at 9:34 am

    Ah I can still remember the ‘back to school’ annual moments when I was a kid! I loved the stationary shopping ha

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  44. Helen Jacob-Lloyd says

    August 23, 2017 at 7:08 am

    I can’t believe it’s already time to talk about winter clothes! I used to love getting new stationary before going back to school 🙂

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