As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
:
:
:
:
:
 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me

A July Dreamer

A Travel & Lifestyle Blog

Lifestyle · December 3, 2021

5 Things that made November Epic

I am still relieving the many things that made November epic for me, I spent half of the month in paradise and can not wait to share all about it. I decided many months ago to start sharing a few things in my life that either made me smile or make the month epic in my eyes. Sometimes we get boggled with the world that we forget to appreciate the small but significant things that happen in our lives. Take a moment every single month to think of this that made you smile in that month and gives you the good vibes feeling when you recall them.

For the month of October, I shared the 5 things that made me smile and this ranged from small business wins to big financial wins and I am still beaming from that. Whilst the month of November is severely low scale in comparison, it still had so many things that made November epic and I can not wait to share the epic-ness that was the ended month. I truly encourage anyone struggling to start looking for small joys within your life and document them, it will surprise you just how many incredible things happen in your life.

I am still relieving the many things that made November epic for me, I spent half of the month in paradise and can not wait to share all about it. I decided many months ago to start sharing a few things in my life that either made me smile or make the month epic in my eyes.

5 Things that made November Epic

The first few days of November I spent it avoiding people because I did not want to catch the rona which would have sucked and pump a damper on my plans for the rest of the month. I am so glad that I continued to stay away from people and only left the house when absolutely necessary. The main reason for doing that was because of the major trip that I had booked back in February and had been looking forward to it for 10 months already.

Solo Trip to the Maldives

So yes!! I went on a solo adventure to the Maldives and I am still in awe of that incredible paradise and highly recommend it. I will share a post on the cost of travelling to the Maldives as a solo traveller because I have been asked if I would consider a trip there affordable for a solo traveller. Personally I found it very affordable, I had planned a budget of £800 and I spent less than that. If I wanted to, I would have spent £0 on the island and only covered the cost of rona tests and nothing else.

Achieved all financial goals for the month

Even with a trip abroad I still manage to achieve my financial goals for the month, I call this a win because normally when we travel we spend more money than necessary. I call this an epic win because I was still able to stay on top of my finances even when the temptation to spend money lavishly was high. If you want to learn how I manage my money and always step on top of my finances even when I am travelling then check out my YouTube channel.

Spent time with Family

One of the things that I have been enjoying a lot of recently is spending time with my family and for the month of November, I spent time with my mother. I love spending time with my mum and this time I drove to her house, we went out to dinner, did some shopping and spend way too much time chatting. We did a lot of things that make me giddy even thinking about it now.

Avoided Black Friday Shopping

I consider this an epic move because I was able to avoid shopping on Black Friday even though I spent the majority of November saving for it. What I did instead is spend the Black Friday money treating my mum, her friends and myself to something that we love and enjoy. I watched a lot of videos and read articles that exposed a lot of companies who inflated the prices and called them ‘sale’ prices when they weren’t so I am glad I avoided shopping on Black Friday.

I hired a cleaner

Yes! I am that millennial that needs someone else to clean their house whilst I focus on more important things that generate more income for me. I love my home and I love cleaning it big time, the problem is I spend at least 3 hours cleaning either upstairs or downstairs. It takes a lot of my time on the weekend so I decided to outsource this work so that I could focus on more important things in my life. This little act employed someone but also gave me some freedom to focus on things that matter more to me.

And that’s it, these are some of the things that made November epic for me, I had unexpected tax bill that just about broke the bank, my roof got damaged and so many things just started happening which would have killed off my joy if I let it. This is why I focus on sharing the small wins that I experience in my life to remind me even when big bad things happen I still have a reason to smile.

In: Lifestyle

You’ll Also Love

{Christmas Series} Saving Money ~ Fabyouless.
outdoor lighting3 summer outdoor lighting ideas
celebrate youCelebrate you

Comments

  1. khoingn | The Broad Life says

    March 23, 2022 at 12:35 pm

    November is also my month. I hope to have something great in that month too.

    Reply
  2. Mijia Eggers says

    March 23, 2022 at 10:35 am

    Maldives was my plan a few years ago when I had got a good offer from the travel agency. However, things changed due to private reasons and I could still not make the trip. I hope after all these situations, I can still make it one day. Wish you a wonderful March!

    Reply
  3. Ntensibe Edgar says

    March 23, 2022 at 8:58 am

    Whew! You really had a time of your life, I see! I wanna go to the Maldives!

    Reply
  4. Cinny says

    March 22, 2022 at 11:18 pm

    You hired a cleaner! Wow, I think that would make my life so much easier.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:41 am

      Yep and I am glad I did, she is a great help.

  5. Kelly Bolen says

    March 22, 2022 at 6:52 pm

    Congrats! That is fabulous way to do November! To many more months of meeting your goals!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:41 am

      Thank you Kelly.

  6. Fransic verso says

    March 22, 2022 at 6:06 pm

    Great things, congrats on having a great month in November. Cleaner is not wrong when you have a lot of things to do.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:42 am

      Thank you, I had to convince myself of this too, it’s not wrong.

  7. Ramil Hinolan says

    March 22, 2022 at 5:08 pm

    I like that you achieved your financial goals. Controlling finances is a struggle to some, including me.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:42 am

      Managing your money can definitely be a struggle but every day we try.

  8. Angela Ricardo Bethea says

    March 22, 2022 at 2:19 pm

    Sounds like you had a wonderful month of November. Congrats on the financial goals and hope you reach your other goals as well soon.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:42 am

      Thank you so much Angela, I appreciate that.

  9. TweenselMom (@TweenselMom) says

    March 22, 2022 at 1:40 pm

    I’m happy that you had a great November! That trip to the Maldives sounds absolute fun.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:43 am

      The Maldives was epic, can not wait to return.

  10. briannemanzb says

    March 22, 2022 at 5:55 am

    What a great month you had. Great job on the financial aspect of yours. I hope I can achieve all my financial goals this month too!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:44 am

      Thank you, I am sure you will achieve all your financial goals

  11. Alita Pacio says

    March 22, 2022 at 5:55 am

    What a splendid month for you. Ive been dreaming to visit Maldives but never had the chance last year!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:44 am

      Thanks Alita and hope you are able to visit the Maldives

  12. Bryan Carey says

    March 22, 2022 at 12:35 am

    Any one of those would have been epic, but all 5? I think the trip to the Maldives would be the top event for me.

    Reply
  13. Talya says

    March 21, 2022 at 6:48 pm

    Wow you had me at solo trip to the Maldives. You lucky thing!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:45 am

      Hahaha, thank you. I am pleased to have accomplished all 5.

  14. Beth says

    March 21, 2022 at 6:38 pm

    It sounds like November was a great month! I know if I hired a cleaner it would be a great month for me. LOL

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:45 am

      Lol, I totally feel you with the cleaner, she is a life saver.

  15. Elise Ho says

    March 21, 2022 at 2:42 pm

    It sounds as if you had a wonderful November. I hope you are having an equally wonderful March

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 23, 2022 at 6:46 am

      Thank you, March is shaping up to be another incredible month as well.

Leave a ReplyCancel reply

Next Post >

Personal Finance Books that changed my money mindset

About Me
I'm Miranda. Travel-Addict. Blogger. Moscato Addict. Weekend Escapist. Homebody. Countryside dweller residng in Oxfordshire.

Search the archives

My 5 Year Plan to become a millionaire

https://youtu.be/rzpyQrO3BLY

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

The Categories

The Archives

  • Home
  • About
  • Privacy Policy

Copyright © 2026 A July Dreamer · Theme by 17th Avenue

This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish. Cookie settingsACCEPT
Privacy & Cookies Policy

Privacy Overview

This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are as essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience.
Necessary
Always Enabled
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
SAVE & ACCEPT

Loading Comments...