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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Africa · October 13, 2014

First Time Visiting Zambia Trip | Solo Travel

Zambia, my motherland and first home is a landlocked country in Southern Africa, not South Africa – Southern Africa. I left the only home I had ever known when I was 15, leaving behind all my friends and extended family. Since our move, I have only been one once and that was with family but this trip, I was alone. I have just started solo travelling and though I am enjoying it, its absolutely terrifying no matter the destination. Most of my friends assumed because I was born in Zambia, I should know how to get around forgetting I have not been for over 10 years.

Travelling to Africa in particular travelling to Zambia is not like travelling around Europe or America. It took me a long time to be confident enough to give solo travel a try but visiting Zambia is a whole new ball game, one I fear I am not yet equipped for. But I was excited to see my family, school friends, former neighbours and many other people including my former headteacher. The part I was not looking forward to was sharing a taxi and riding rusted hazard-prone buses (not all are bad)whilst someone invades your personal space. But, as they say, home is home no matter what it looks like.

First Time Visiting Zambia Trip

First Time Visiting Zambian Trip

It has been quite on here over the last 3 weeks because I was too busy enjoying life, catching up with family and there was no Wi-Fi. Either way, it felt great to reconnect with my cousins, make new friends and just switch off from everything for a while. Though the heading of this post is a little misguiding, it’s true that it was my first time visiting Zambia after many years abroad.

  • First Time Visiting Zambia
  • First Time Visiting Zambia

For the longest time, I have wanted to go back home and visit using my own hard-earned cash and finally, this year managed the dream and went to Zambia. I can’t explain how happy I was to be able to make my own money and buy my own ticket home to visit my extended family and friends. The last time I was in Zambia, mum took us and we had such a tight schedule there was no room for spending this with friends. This is why when I bought my own ticket, I made a decision to spend as much time seeing old friends as I could.

Zambia holds half of my life’s memories and it was surreal walking in the streets in played in, seeing the people I knew and eating the foods that I am only too familiar with. I felt for a moment like I was having an out of body experience and it felt great walking down memory lane. Visiting my old home and school was probably the most emotionally charged visits ever.

Things to Know Before Going to Zambia

Are you thinking of exploring Southern Africa any time soon? Well, if it’s your first time visiting Zambia, I want to share a few tips from a former local so you can have an enjoyable trip. Please remember like any country there are pickpocketers so be mindful of your belongings and keep everything out of sight. Below I have listed a few things to know for those visiting Zambia for the first time.

  • There are no beaches but we have rivers – Zambia is a landlocked country meaning we are enclosed by other countries and have no access to the seaside. We have plenty of rivers in Zambia and one I would recommend checking out is the origin of the Zambezi river.
  • Book hotels or Lodges than B&B and if you book a B&B then make sure it has the highest reviews possible. Don’t both booking taxis if your hotel provides airport transfer, book that instead.
  • Change your mum at the bank, Bureau or at the airport, this is to avoid being ripped off and have an understanding of how our currency works and compares to your country.
  • When you hire a car, make sure you take lots of peoples and report any damage beforehand otherwise you shall pay for what you did not cause.
  • Carry wipes and tissues for hygiene purposes as well as comfortable shoes, there can be a lot of walking depending on where you are in the country.
  • Tipping is not a thing in Zambia but it is generally accepted in most places
  • Travelling within the country via public transport can be tricky but is doable, I would hire a car to save time.

I was so happy to have visited my home and seen my friends as well as the extended family. One most memorable thing about this trip was reconnecting with my cousins and spending time talking about everything that has happened in the last 10+ years.

Have you ever been to Zambia?

In: Africa · Tagged: Travel

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Comments

  1. Astrid says

    October 29, 2014 at 9:15 pm

    Can’t wait to read about your trip. And it is always nice when you pay for it yourself 🙂

    Reply
  2. Jennifer Pilgrim says

    October 23, 2014 at 1:50 am

    Yay. Can’t wait to read all about it! Bring on the photos…

    Reply
  3. Brittney Embree says

    October 17, 2014 at 7:23 pm

    It’s so great you got to go visit home, how fun!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 21, 2014 at 6:24 am

      Thank you

  4. Anita says

    October 17, 2014 at 7:53 am

    How wonderful you got to visit home after so long – looking forward to seeing more photos!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:44 am

      Thank you, it was really wonderful x

  5. Michelle Chouinard says

    October 17, 2014 at 12:49 am

    The pics were squished on mine, too…but you looked very chic and it must have been a great time!

    Reply
  6. Glamour-Zine says

    October 16, 2014 at 6:39 pm

    what a fun experience for you!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 21, 2014 at 6:25 am

      Thanks x

  7. Laura Milroy says

    October 16, 2014 at 6:35 pm

    That sounds like a great opportunity! I tried to look at the photos but they were a little squished… Maybe it’s my computer?

    xoxo
    The Accidental Mama
    http://www.theaccidentalmama.com

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    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:45 am

      No they somehow got squished don’t know why but now put them in slide so can see better

  8. Ayana Pitterson says

    October 16, 2014 at 2:15 pm

    Looking forward to your posts with more pictures. Congrats on being able to save up for such an awesome goal.

    Thrifting Diva
    http://www.thriftingdiva.com

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:45 am

      Thanks a life long dream x

  9. French Robin Designs says

    October 16, 2014 at 4:19 am

    What a great story! Congratulations on going to visit your family. You look very very happy!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 21, 2014 at 6:25 am

      Thanks Robin

  10. Kristine Foley says

    October 16, 2014 at 1:32 am

    Love that you were able to go!!! What an awesome experience!

    Reply
  11. Jessica at Team Wiking says

    October 16, 2014 at 12:58 am

    Welcome back, you look fabulous! Can’t wait to see the rest of your trip. 🙂

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:45 am

      Thanks Jessica x

  12. India Benjamin says

    October 15, 2014 at 10:02 pm

    What a gorgeous dress! I bet you had such a lovely time visiting everyone 🙂

    India / Touchscreens & Beautyqueens

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:46 am

      Thanks India, I did have a time of my life x

  13. Andi Fisher says

    October 15, 2014 at 8:55 pm

    You look happy! Can’t wait to see the future posts and Bravo for the blog hiatus, sometimes we really need it!

    Reply
  14. Candace says

    October 15, 2014 at 6:15 pm

    Love your hat! Looks like an incredible trip!!

    Reply
  15. Katie says

    October 15, 2014 at 4:50 pm

    I adore that dress! Can’t wait to see how you got on! Congratulations for finally being able to go home 🙂 What a trip!

    Katie <3

    Reply
  16. Brenda Lawrence says

    October 15, 2014 at 4:43 pm

    Aw! Looks like you’re having a ton of fun! That dress is gorgeous!

    Reply
  17. Ashley says

    October 15, 2014 at 3:56 pm

    Love that dress! Excited to see the rest of your trip!

    Reply
  18. Rebekah says

    October 15, 2014 at 3:14 pm

    Oh my gosh that dress!! You look gorgeous! Can’t wait to see more pics from your trip 😀

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:46 am

      Thanks Rebekah!

  19. Fiona Naughton says

    October 15, 2014 at 12:05 pm

    Such an amazing trip and always so great to visit home again. You look beautiful by the way, gorgeous outfit in the top two pictures 🙂

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:46 am

      Thanks so much Fi, I appreciate that x

  20. Mandi Kane says

    October 15, 2014 at 7:30 am

    What an incredible opportunity. Your dress is beautiful, and you look so happy. Really eager to see how this went.

    Reply
  21. Heather says

    October 15, 2014 at 6:48 am

    Sounds amazing!!!!

    Reply
  22. corisbigmouth says

    October 15, 2014 at 3:17 am

    Sounds like you had a great trip! Can’t wait to read more about it.

    Reply
  23. esther julee says

    October 15, 2014 at 2:54 am

    hope you had a wonderful time back home!! i love the hat. 🙂

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:47 am

      I did Esther It was unbelievable going back home as an adult x

  24. songbirdsandbuttons says

    October 15, 2014 at 1:41 am

    Sounds like you had an amazing trip! Can’t wait to hear more!

    Reply
  25. Nancy says

    October 15, 2014 at 12:58 am

    Omg the print on your dress is so gorgeous!

    Reply
  26. Lindsay says

    October 15, 2014 at 12:47 am

    Oh wow a vaction sounds amazing right about now!

    Reply
  27. Ruthy T. says

    October 14, 2014 at 11:50 pm

    ohhhhhh!! how wonderful for the break!

    Reply
  28. Karissa Ancell says

    October 14, 2014 at 11:20 pm

    Lucky you be on a fun trip! I’m going on vacation so I’m trying to plan some posts and get them ready so I can take time off.

    Reply
  29. Frenchell Hampton says

    October 14, 2014 at 10:11 pm

    Sounds like you are a great trip! Love the hat by the way.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:48 am

      Thanks Frenchell, this hat is a life saver – saved me from that lovely heat and didn’t get too much heat rash x

  30. Carolann says

    October 14, 2014 at 9:38 pm

    So great that you could make the trip! Can’t wait to see more about it!

    Reply
  31. Annie Montgomery says

    October 14, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    ack! such a great destination. plus you’re rocking that hat like whoa.

    Reply
  32. Caroline says

    October 14, 2014 at 6:57 pm

    SO FUN! THANKS FOR SHARING!

    Reply
  33. Nayna Kanabar says

    October 14, 2014 at 7:46 am

    I look forward to coming back to read more about your trip.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 14, 2014 at 6:51 pm

      Thank you Nayna

  34. Choclette says

    October 14, 2014 at 7:40 am

    It must have been fabulous for you to go home. I had a friend who used to live in Zambia and loved it.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 14, 2014 at 6:51 pm

      It really was fabulous I can’t even describe in words how wonderful it was missing it already

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