As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Lifestyle · February 11, 2016

What I want for Valentine’s Day 

What I want for Valentine’s Day

To the lovers who celebrate it, I am sure you’re all fired up and ready to get on with the celebrations, to the singles out there who do not give an F and will be humming it with either good friends or a good book and nice accompaniment I say kuddos to you and to the mummy who had no idea what today is or when V-Day is or even bother to attempt doing something for it I say – wine anyone?

Valentine’s Day is so over commercialised that it is kinda hard to actually see the ‘romance‘ that it is meant to be about. I am not against going to a restaurant and having a meal with my dude because it is something we would have done anyway given we could find the time. I am not against presents because my dude has this thing about making sure all my gifts are personalised and you know what I love it. Every Christmas card he’s given me in the last 8 years has had a poem in it (how sweet it that?). There are so many things that you can do on Valentine’s Day that doesn’t require the materialistic things but if you had to have them many jewellery stores have the best deals around this time.

I have decided for this year, what I want for Valentine’s Day is YOU (ok not you you but boo you 😂😂😂 or not boo you as in booing you but my man lol) and

  • Cuddling – if there is one man I know who loves to cuddle as much as me is my boo. We can spend many hours in front of the telly watching documentaries or Ace Ventura just cuddling and laughing like tomorrow don’t matter
  • Cheesey lines – I am a sucker for sweet nothings. Boo is very good at whispering sweet nothings to me and then he will crack a joke that is totally unrelated (lol) but I love that about him, 8 years on and I am still laughing at he’s (silly) jokes
  • Breakfast in bed – yes ladies I am making you jealous, it doesn’t have to be Christmas, Valentine’s Day, my birthday, he’s birthday or anything special he just makes me breakfast in bed any day because I love it and I hope (think) he loves it too. It does keep me quite for a long time so I think he likes doing it even more (😂😂😂)
  • Chatting – So the dude and I are very talkative people but I think I overshadow him in most instances but when the boy starts oh good lord it takes me falling asleep to stop him (looool). When boo and I are chatting it’s about simple things about life, he lives for today and I live for today with a foot in a future plan.

This is what I want for Valentine’s Day. If I get anything more for me it will be a bonus but in totality this is all I want.

What do you want for Valentine’s Day?

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Comments

  1. Louise Mensah says

    February 13, 2016 at 2:41 am

    Awww and yes you did make me jealous. Breakfast in bed an cuddles- sounds like a keeper to me. Hope you enjoy Valentines with your boo.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 13, 2016 at 6:33 am

      Thanks so much Louise and I hope you have an equally amazing Valentine’s Day

  2. Ickle Pickle says

    February 12, 2016 at 9:43 pm

    Aaww I hope you have a lovely Valentines Day – I will be spending it with my children – couldn’t ask for more 🙂 Kaz x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 12, 2016 at 11:19 pm

      Sounds awesome and thanks

  3. Mudpie Fridays says

    February 12, 2016 at 11:50 am

    We are actually going away this weekend, it was a present from my inlaws for Christmas – Monkey is staying with them so it will just be us which will be lovely. Although at 29 weeks pregnant I suspect I will do a fair amount of sleeping in lol. Hopefully the odd afternoon at the pub with a good book and cards and trying to stay off the social media xx

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 12, 2016 at 12:43 pm

      Awwww that’s so sweet and hope you have an amazing time

  4. Jolene Cox says

    February 12, 2016 at 9:06 am

    great ideas.. and as the cook in the house breakfast in bed is always heaven

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 12, 2016 at 9:28 am

      It must be, I love it

  5. Ana De- Jesus says

    February 12, 2016 at 7:32 am

    I don’t celebrate Valentines Day but I do want to treat myself because it is about time that I scheduled me time. I am so drained and it would be nice to relax for once although I know that is not going to happen!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 12, 2016 at 7:59 am

      It would be nice if you managed to schedule some me time as it’s very important to schedule that time in.

  6. Kara says

    February 12, 2016 at 7:04 am

    I am so looking forward to this years as we will be abroad!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 12, 2016 at 7:29 am

      That’s awesome, have fun

  7. Idaintyit says

    February 11, 2016 at 10:21 pm

    such a cheesy post! lol I won’t tell you what I will be getting up to this valentines as i’m married to your brother! hahahahaha only joking we don’t celebrate it

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 12, 2016 at 7:01 am

      Hahahaha you too nuts sis but I hope you two can have a meal at home with monkey sleeping or something lol

  8. oana79 says

    February 11, 2016 at 3:12 pm

    We have stopped celebrating as such as it is such an overcomercialised occasion and it can all feel very false with the kinky decor in some shops…etc. We exchange cards and try to have a meal out but not on the day so this would be lovely this year and no more.xx

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 3:55 pm

      I feel the same

  9. Michaela Britton says

    February 11, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    Some great suggestions. I have been with my husband for 11 years so we don’t really do ‘proper’ gifts, I would be happy with all you have said also 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 3:54 pm

      Thanks Michaela

  10. Charlotte says

    February 11, 2016 at 2:09 pm

    haha yes I am definitely up for some cuddling and chatting in bed – honestly just spending some time together out of our busy lives is what we are after for Valentines this year!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 3:54 pm

      And I hope you get it as well

  11. Joanna says

    February 11, 2016 at 2:04 pm

    We don’t do much for valentines normally just watch a dvd and have takeaway.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 3:54 pm

      How about you cook together and watch dvd?

  12. Kizzy says

    February 11, 2016 at 10:10 am

    We don’t celebrate Valentines Day but I like the your idea.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 10:18 am

      Thanks

  13. Leah Miller says

    February 11, 2016 at 9:52 am

    I absolutely love this!! Me and my hubby don’t do Valentines Day as a rule, but I love your idea about just doing those simple things, things we would normally do anyway, but maybe just making it extra special.

    The only thing I can’t do myself is the ‘breakfast in bed’… Too many crumbs…!

    Leah xx

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 10:18 am

      Hahaha lol crumbs or not it will be cleaned by him after 😂

  14. Lisa (Travel Loving Family) says

    February 11, 2016 at 9:26 am

    Aw a great wish list! I also think Valentines Day is very commerical but breakfast in bed sounds great to me!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      February 11, 2016 at 9:30 am

      Thanks breakfast in bed is always great

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