As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
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I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Sponsor Roundup · December 4, 2014

Kick the habit ~ The Habit Calculator

The habit calculatorOver the last couple of years especially after finishing university I have some what needed a social event of some sort a few times a month to make me feel a little bit like I am human not just a working machine. How many of you find or found that you were working to have a better life but actually never had the time to enjoy that life because you were busy working for it? So in hopes of actually wanting to enjoy my life I called upon different friends and every month once or twice we get together for a good old catch-up and this has now become part of my life and don’t get me wrong, I do love it but I did not really think about how much this ‘habit’ was now costing me because I just wanted to spend the money I was earning at least on things that made me happy.

 

A job is a job. It’s a way to pay for a living, but that’s it. Don’t let it define your happiness. Y http://t.co/bpUVYJJq4e

— Myrabev (@MyraBev) November 30, 2014

#habitcalculator on the blog this week check out Legal & General

A photo posted by A July Dreamer (@myrabev) on Dec 12, 2014 at 1:32pm PST


Today I had the opportunity to review the habit calculator and let me just say ok I so need to change my spending habits. Obviously I am working towards becoming debt free after all the debt I racked up during my university days and I share these money issues on The Myrabev Life. But even though I working towards becoming debt free I didn’t really put much thought into my habits other than the beauty boxes that I used to get money and now cancelled 3/4 of them. The habit calculator has opened  my eyes to other areas of my life that I could do with cutting back on and possibly adding that money towards saving for a mortgage and/or a car for the future. I was shocked at some of my results so much that I want to see how conscience I will be during the month of December in how much I feed my habits and maybe find other avenues of satisfying those habits without sacrificing an arm and a leg. You can do a self calculation of your habits on the Legal & General webpage.

 

I’ve just used the L&G Habit Cost calculator and I’ve found out that I spend £6083.33 every 5 years on Eating out! http://t.co/dNPVyFKVC9

— Myrabev (@MyraBev) November 30, 2014


I do like the idea of this habit calculator and the initiative behind this is to get us thinking about our futures by putting our habits into perspective. I am glad I have checked how much my habits affect my use of money, and it’s not just on night’s out but on other things like alcohol and makeup. Obviously it been the festive season we want to keep hold of all our money to get the best presents for our loved ones so you could do the following to ensure you get the best of both worlds; good presents and saving for the future.

  • When out and about bring along your favourite drink and since it’s cold carry a flask of your hot drink, it may seem like an inconvenience but is saving you from spending money
  • Make lunch at home instead of buying food when out and about
  • For a night out, doesn’t always have been be out and about on the town it could be a night at a friends house and cook the food you already have. Or each contribute to the meals by bringing something from home.
  • Don’t go shopping hungry, this is always a bad idea so pack some food like fruits and also eat before leaving.
  • Make personalised gifts, I am not DIY savvy but home made cards or even using the photos you have online and printing them and there a lot of companies who do them for cheap with wonderful frames.

I hope you find these tips helpful and once you have used the habit calculator you can determine where you can cut back and where you can substitute completely.

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  1. Camesha says

    December 8, 2014 at 4:57 am

    I love the tweet about not letting your job define your happiness! Great tips!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 8, 2014 at 9:48 am

      Thank you it’s important to have life outside work

  2. Aneta Alaei says

    December 7, 2014 at 5:20 am

    Oh I am totally agreeing with you on these tips and they are a wonderful reminder too!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 7, 2014 at 10:58 am

      Thank you Aneta

  3. Geanine says

    December 6, 2014 at 6:03 pm

    I agree! I tell the hubby all the time, we spend so much time doing this that and everything else we forget that our babies are only young once.

    Reply
  4. Geanine says

    December 6, 2014 at 6:03 pm

    I agree! I tell the hubby all the time, we spend so much time doing this that and everything else we forget that our babies are only you once.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 7, 2014 at 10:57 am

      Absolutely babies are only young once, invest in there future and spend time with them now

  5. Shari Von Holten says

    December 5, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    you are right – it isn’t all about work. you need to stop and smell the roses.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 6, 2014 at 9:11 am

      Absolutely

  6. Margarita Ibbott says

    December 5, 2014 at 5:37 pm

    Those are some great tips. It all adds up very, very quickly.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 6, 2014 at 9:11 am

      It absolutely does and when you realise like i did its so shocking

  7. Franc Ramon says

    December 5, 2014 at 3:51 am

    I guess we should really learn to balance having a job and having a life. We can develop good habits that can come a long way in balancing life.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 5, 2014 at 6:04 am

      Absolutely agree

  8. April @ Everyday Fitness and N says

    December 5, 2014 at 2:41 am

    It’s always a good idea to have a budget to follow. That allows you to enjoy life without frivolously spending. That’s allowed us to get out of debt and save for our future while enjoying our life.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 5, 2014 at 6:03 am

      I think though I have a budget I could do with managing it better.

  9. Eileen says

    December 4, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    Great post, i like how it puts into perspective how little things add up. It’s a great financial planning tool. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 5, 2014 at 6:03 am

      Thank you ans yes great planning tool

  10. Echo (The Mad Mommy) says

    December 4, 2014 at 7:37 pm

    Great concept to help you budget and save! Very handy!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 9:37 pm

      Absolutely

  11. Mama to 5 Blessings says

    December 4, 2014 at 1:13 pm

    Wow that is a really great concept. It would definitely make you stop and think about buying something without using this 1st!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 9:37 pm

      I think that is so the idea behind this. Thanks

  12. Robin Rue says

    December 4, 2014 at 11:59 am

    That is a great app! I know I am terrible about spending.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      You and me both

  13. Amby Felix says

    December 4, 2014 at 11:53 am

    This is a pretty cool app. It’s great to be aware of how much you’re spending. It would be great for me since I keep a budget on blogging expenses! ^_^

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      It’s always important to be aware of expenditures to stay on top of these things

  14. Penny @ pennyspassion.blogspot says

    December 4, 2014 at 11:41 am

    Interesting app! This could really help with budgeting.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      Glad to hear it

  15. Vicki W says

    December 4, 2014 at 11:22 am

    Many people do not even realize what their habits are costing them. I love how this app can put show ways to cut back and/or cut them out completely! I know I have many habits that need nipping in the bud.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 9:36 pm

      I realise too that there are habits but need nipping in the bud big time.

  16. Fiona Naughton says

    December 4, 2014 at 9:53 am

    The habit calculator sounds great for putting spending into perspective. It’s amazing how much money you can save when you change small habits and save money for things you’d really enjoy like holidays.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 10:39 am

      I couldn’t agree more, small habits seem to rack up when put into perspective.

  17. Angelic @ SimplySinova.com says

    December 4, 2014 at 6:44 am

    I really love the concept behind having a habit calculator! When you see how much you spend on things on paper it’s crazy. I completely agree with the ‘Don’t go shopping hungry,’ that’s gotten me (and my wallet) in trouble a couple of times <3

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 7:04 am

      It does really put things into perspective it doesn’t it? I included this dont go shopping hungry because boy oh boy have I gotten me in trouble or what lol

  18. Michelle F. says

    December 4, 2014 at 6:43 am

    That looks like a pretty handy too. Spending gets really bad during December because of Christmas. I am glad I got most of my shopping out of the way. Now I have to pay it off smartly.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      December 4, 2014 at 7:05 am

      Good for you I am yet to buy anything for my family and friends, I am so behind

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