As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
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I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Lifestyle · August 29, 2019

SUPPORT YOUR SMALL BUSINESS FRIEND

As a small business owner, there is nothing I appreciate more than my closest friends and family supporting, encouraging and recommending my small business to others. I know for some of my friends, they struggle to think of ways they can support me whose small business is blog-centric and I have often shared with them some of the simple ways you can support your small business friend. As a blogger, I know it can seem like there is no way for you to support my business but in fact, there are plenty of ways. You can support your small business friend by simply reading their blog, tweeting, sharing on your social platforms, liking blog posts or pinning their content.

Stats have shown that over the last decade or more, women owned businesses have tripled in numbers, girl power at its best. Thanks to the advancements in technology and various platforms, many women are starting side hustles or small businesses in order to either support their family or fulfil a life long dream. And I know that for most of these business owners there is nothing like having the support of your family and closest friends. When I started blogging, I had have some pushbacks from both families and friends, it was disheartening but I kept at it and now I have the support of both. Most of us have families and friends who run small businesses, we can show our support in so many ways.

support your small business friend

7 WAYS TO SUPPORT YOUR SMALL BUSINESS FRIEND

Tesco nailed it with their company motto, ‘every little helps’ because as a blog owner, I can definitely tell you, your support in every form is welcome. You might think just reading my blog is not really supporting me but in reality it truly is. You reading my blog not only delivers my message to one more reader but increases my page views which in turn I can monetise or use the blog stats to negotiate a collaboration with a brand. To you on the outside it might not seem like much but to me as a blog and small business owner it means a lot and might translate into revenue. 

So, if you want to support that friend, that family member, that colleague or acquaintance, here is how you can support them and how your support makes a big impact overall.

READ|LIKE|COMMENT ON THEIR CONTENT

As a blogger, I share a lot of content and maybe not all are relevant to you but it doesn’t mean that you should not support my content. I have had friends tell me, but I don’t know what I am meant to say in my comment, I don’t want my comment to seem weird! This is perfectly normal but what I say is, don’t overthink it, share what you thought of the content even if it did not appeal to you, maybe just end at reading. If you found it useful then how about liking it, sharing it on your social networks {Facebook, Tweeter etc}, you never know they might find it helpful too.

SUPPORT THEM & THEIR DREAMS

When I started blogging, it was hard for my family to support me because it seemed like I was just sharing a lot of personal information online. With the advancements in technology comes the need to be protective of your personal information which is very understandable but when I explained to them my dream, they supported me. Everyone’s dream is different and because of that, it makes us unique, you might be sceptical about your friend’s business but support them anyway.

ENCOURAGE THEM

We live in a Betty downer kind of world which is a shame, your small business friend wants constructive criticism that will help their business not discouraging words. When I started out as a blogger, I already had enough self-doubt within me to last a lifetime but hearing encouraging words from my family really helped me stick to my resolve. There are a lot of bloggers out there and maybe I won’t stand out but if I work hard and mind my own business, I am sure to succeed. *Remember success is subjective*

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RECOMMEND THEM

As a blogger, it can be hard for my friends and family to recommend me to their friends but you never know until you try. If your small business friend makes stuff to sell, I am sure there is at least one person in your contacts whom you can recommend them to. We are quick to buy things from strangers but slow at recommending our friends who might be selling the same things.

REVIEW THEM

In this digital age, a review is worth its weight in gold, small businesses rely on others to spread the word and a review is a great start. Before I buy anything from Etsy or even Amazon, I always read the reviews first and get a consensus on whether I should spend my hard earned cash or not. Your small business friend would appreciate a {good} review that highlights the best features of whatever they are selling without fibbing too much.

BUY FROM THEM

In my family, we have three small business owners and we all love to support one another, both my mother and sister are creatives and handmade stuff to sell. I know of a few other friends who make stuff to share and I support them, every little helps. When you buy from the small business, you became and walking/talking advertisement which I know they will appreciate.

STOP ASKING FOR FREE OR DISCOUNTED STUFF

THIS IS A BIG ONE. Everyone loves a good discount BUT unless the small business has an offer going, its plain rude to ask for discounts. If they have to give discounts to every single person, they would barely make any returns and it would be better not to be in business. Families as usually the biggest culprits in wanting free stuff but know that you getting the free stuff takes away from the profit they would have made. Support them, don’t leech from them. 

No matter how you support your small business friend, they will appreciate it but don’t forget to ask them the best way to support them as well. As a blogger I know I would appreciate, content shares, comments, tweets, like and pinning, any one of these would be greatly appreciated.

SMALL BUSINESS FRIEND {S} THAT I SUPPORT

It is all well and good me as a small business sharing ways that you can support your small business friend but it is important I practice what I preach. I am sure we all know someone who runs a small business, I know a few and below I am listing the few that I support.

  • Towela J’s Crochet – this is my mother’s shop, she sells various knitwears for both babies and adults as well as patterns, African prints and turbans.
  • Kit Me Good – this is my little sister’s shop, she sells knitted bookcases, handmade bags and more
  • Travel Eat Slay – my girl Caroline selling apparel for travelling millennials, I love her t-shirts and dresses plus she has African prints too
  • Nyina Baking Mixes – this is run by a Zambian babe {Chikumo}, she just recently launched it but its the place to be.

There are a few other small businesses that I support which are mostly blogs which I think is important since I am a blogger myself. I hope the few tips I have shared in this post are insightful and will aid you as you look to support your small business friend.

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Comments

  1. Chikumo says

    September 11, 2019 at 3:47 pm

    I absolutely loved this blog. As a blogger and business woman sometimes I feel like people don’t understand because it’s not a “normal job” so thanks for all of your support!

    Reply
  2. Jenni says

    September 9, 2019 at 9:17 am

    It’s so important to support small businesses, with the amount of competition they get from bigger companies and like you said it doesn’t need to cost anything, it can be sharing and commenting for others to see

    Reply
  3. Playdays and Runways says

    September 8, 2019 at 3:25 pm

    Lovely post. i love supporting family run businesses or local shops rather than buying from big department stores.

    Reply
  4. Boo Roo and Tigger Too says

    September 7, 2019 at 8:48 am

    It’s so important to interact with small businesses. They are invaluable to our society and are more likely to value you as a customer, follower etc than the big corporations

    Reply
  5. Kaz & Ickle Pickle (@IcklePicklex) says

    September 5, 2019 at 2:15 pm

    This is such a great post with really good tips. I have several mum friends who have their own small businesses and we all try and support each other. Kaz

    Reply
  6. Rhian Westbury says

    September 5, 2019 at 10:16 am

    I think reviews and positive feedback is so important as people are quick to complain but we’re less likely to sing praises about great things x

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  7. Lyanna Soria says

    September 5, 2019 at 4:59 am

    It’s important to show love and support to your small business friend to help them out. Those are some great tips especially the don’t ask for freebies one since most people think just because it’s their friend they can ask something for free which doesn’t help the friend at all.

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  8. Rebecca Smith says

    September 4, 2019 at 9:05 pm

    These are some great tips! I always aim to support small businesses in my area, especially those run by my friends.

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  9. Kara (@ChelseaMamma) says

    August 31, 2019 at 7:13 pm

    I co-run a networking group for small businesses and it is so lovely to see them do well and thrive

    Reply
  10. Miss Claire M Roach says

    August 31, 2019 at 7:04 pm

    As a blog owner I totally dig this post, I sometimes feel resentment that my friends and family don’t support me at all.

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  11. Jenny Kearney says

    August 30, 2019 at 10:08 pm

    It’s a lovely idea to support people who run a small business – every little helps!

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  12. Steph @ Renovation Bay-Bee says

    August 30, 2019 at 7:33 pm

    It’s when my friends ask me to get them something gifted that annoys me, it doesn’t work like that!!! It’s lovely to be supportive though and I appreciate every like my friends and family do

    Reply
  13. Angela Ricardo Bethea says

    August 30, 2019 at 7:23 pm

    Those are some great ideas. We bloggers should help each other, big or small. It’s really good to have people encouraging you for doing the things you love.

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  14. MELANIE EDJOURIAN says

    August 30, 2019 at 10:27 am

    We don’t really have any family business owners in the family although a few friends have them. We try to support them as and when we can. It can really make a difference.

    Reply
  15. Valerie Gray (@valmg) says

    August 30, 2019 at 5:12 am

    Sharing is a great way to support a blogger that doesn’t cost a cent. Respecting the time of anyone self-employed is also a great way to help.

    Reply
  16. Wince.EATS says

    August 30, 2019 at 12:39 am

    I didn’t know your family and friends weren’t as supportive at the beginning of your journey, my family dislike how descriptive I get when describing a restaurant, or what they thought of the food. :/

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 30, 2019 at 7:13 am

      Girl, because it’s been so long ago I even forgot until writing this post but yes they hated it that I had the blog talking about my personal stuff. It took a while for them to understand what my vision was and now as you know they even help out.

  17. Michelle Twin Mum says

    August 29, 2019 at 10:10 pm

    You are so right, it is really easy to support each other when we take a little time and thought to do so. I’m going to see who I can help now. Mich x

    Reply
  18. Jaime Oliver says

    August 29, 2019 at 10:04 pm

    my family ask about discounts all the time and it drives me crazy

    Reply

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