As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
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Money · April 5, 2021

The Total Money Makeover By Dave Ramsey

The total money makeover by Dave Ramsey is one of the best financial books I have read in a long time. I had mentioned in the 7-baby steps that Dave Ramsey speaks about in the total money makeover book when I posed the question, ‘should you save money when you are in debt?‘. And whilst I think Dave Ramsey answers it best, I think when it comes to money management, it is personal decision whether to pay debt and save money at the same time. Reading through the total money makeover book and reading the various testimonies it gave me a great feeling that I was on the right track financially.

Over the last 3-months, I had been debating with myself whether I should pay off my car now or wait until end of the year when I was due to make a decision to either buy the car outright or trade for a newer model. For many years I had considered ‘car-debt’ as a good kind of debt to have but in reality it’s not really, cars are items that depreciate in value meaning that every single year I am losing money. It took me reading this book cover to cover to realise, its better for me to raid my emergency fund now, pay off my car and apart from my mortgage become debt-free.

The total money makeover by Dave Ramsey is one of the best financial books I have read in a long time. I had mentioned in the 7-baby steps that Dave Ramsey speaks about in the total money makeover book when I posed the question, 'should you save money when you are in debt?'.

Disclaimer – I am not a financial advisor, all opinions shared are my own.

The Total Money Makeover By Dave Ramsey

Dave Ramsey is the American Money guru that we love to hate, he is brutally honest but sometimes his advice cuts deeper than a hot knife thru butter. But I realised that if I truly wanted to achieve financial freedom and build my wealth, I needed to look past so pre conceived notions I had about money and about debt. Reading the total money makeover was totally an eye opener and I am recommending this book to anyone who wants to be serious about their finances. Maybe the testimonies in the book will spark a flame in you also to start working on your finances and become debt free.

When I finished university about 8+ years ago, I left with ~£12000 in debt but I was fortunate to start work immediately after university. For the next 18+ months, I followed the principles of the Snowball Method by Dave Ramsey and I cleared all my consumer debt and became debt free for the first time in my life. Because I did not consider a car loan debt, I bought my first car via finance and I have been paying car repayments ever since. A year later into owning my first car, the dealership offered me a deal I couldn’t refuse and I got a brand new EcoSport which I absolutely love.

Four years after becoming debt-free, I went into debt with my car finance and a mortgage, both of which I did not think of as debt and it took a lot of myth busting for me to see debt is debt and I need to work on getting rid of that debt. The only debt Dave Ramsey recommends is your mortgage but even then he speaks of getting a 15-year fixed mortgage than a 35 year mortgage which is what I have. I don’t know if the UK offers 15-year fixed mortgages but in any case, I plan to pay off my mortgage early by making small but consistent extra repayments every single month.

The total money makeover by Dave Ramsey is one of the best financial books I have read in a long time. I had mentioned in the 7-baby steps that Dave Ramsey speaks about in the total money makeover book when I posed the question, 'should you save money when you are in debt?'.

The total money makeover by Dave Ramsey covers his 7-baby steps in debt whilst at the same time busting money and debt myths. I found myself re-reading some of the myths he covers in his book, some of the myths like credit card myths I believed for many years – that you need a credit card to build a credit score. There are many others that have been shared overtime by lenders that they are now in the fabric of our society as truths. The 7-baby steps he shares in his book are:

  • Step #1 – Fund your initial Emergency Fund with £1000: For most of us we understand emergency funds to be ‘financial safety nets’ that protects us from the unforeseen future so £1000 ($1000) does not make sense but how he explains it does. Many people paying off debt can not scrape more than that amount to keep in their savings but overtime you can put a little in the account to amount to £1000 ($1000) to act as a buffer so you don’t fall into more debt as you are working on paying off your debt.
  • Step #2 – Pay off all your consumer debt (except your mortgage): This is something I achieved recently, I decided to raid my emergency fund, cleared the balance of my car and now I own it 100%. This is something that may take you 3-4 years to do but I think it is such an important step on your journey to build wealth. I think it is hard to build wealth when a big chunk of your money goes to paying off debt, by reducing debt you reduce how much money leaves your bank account and instead can be saved or invested.
  • Step #3 – Fully fund your emergency fund with 3-6 months worth of expenses: I am currently on step #3 and working on re-building my emergency fund after I removed £8000 to pay off my car. I intend to fully fund my emergency fund with at least £15,000 which will cover over 6 months worth of expenses. Dave Ramsey recommends for single income households you save 6 months worth of expenses and for multiple income homes you can get away with 3-months. I want to fund my emergency fund with at least £50k in the next 18months for various reasons.
  • Step #4 – Invest 15% of your annual income into retirement: When I was in my early twenties, I often laughed when someone talked about saving for retirement because I thought I was too young to think about retirement. Although later in my twenties I started matching my employer’s contributions, I still wish I had started earlier. Although not recommended, I am doing both step #3 and #4 at the same time because the earlier you start with investing the better even if its just a #100 a month. I am investing 7.5% of my annual income at the moment.
  • Step #5 – Save for your kid’s college fund: Until I heard those words, you can’t go to uni this year because we can’t afford it, I didn’t understand the importance of saving up for your kids future until then. I was gutted that I had to wait a whole year of working full-time before I could go to uni but everything worked out in the end. I don’t yet have kids so for now I will be funding my emergency fund 3 times what I need instead of adding to a kid’s college fund.
  • Step #6 – Pay off your mortgage early: the feeling of owning your own home 100% is one that I can not wait to experience in the near future. I don’t wish to be repaying my mortgage for another 30 years, I want to work hard now at repaying the mortgage than later when I should be enjoying my retirement.
  • Step #7 – Build Wealth and Give: When you have zero debts to pay, not even a mortgage, you can start to truly build your wealth because apart from your utilities, you will have 80% of your income for saving. But, don’t only just save, you need to also learn to give, as a Christian this is important to me and right now I do my tithe and it makes me happy.

Reading the total money makeover by Dave Ramsey was a total eye opener and I am ready to build wealth for my future. I am glad to be completely debt-free (again) and now I can focus on re-funding my Emergency Fund, invest 15% of my annual income and pay off my mortgage, these are my 3 financial goals I will be working on for the next 3-5 years.

Have you read the total money makeover yet? Which of Dave Ramsey’s 7-baby steps are you on?

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Comments

  1. Laura Side Street says

    April 11, 2021 at 1:55 am

    Wow this sounds super useful and some really good doable advice here – I really need to sort out my finances more so I’m going to look into this, thanks for sharing

    Laura x

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  2. Kira says

    April 7, 2021 at 11:26 am

    These are really great tips . We still rent but can’t wait until we have mortgage and can pay it off

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  3. Catalina says

    April 7, 2021 at 10:32 am

    These advice are not always easy to follow, but it’s the first step to start to make money.

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  4. emman damian says

    April 7, 2021 at 8:46 am

    Great insights! I should really look into my finances more. We should know how to save up.

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  5. abzstylz says

    April 7, 2021 at 4:58 am

    Definitely would love to read this book! So many great tips especially in these times.

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  6. swathiiyer says

    April 7, 2021 at 3:51 am

    I will check it out Dave Ramsey book. Sound like really useful. one. My hubby is one take care of the finances. I will discuss with him.

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  7. A Nation of Moms says

    April 7, 2021 at 2:29 am

    I have Dave Ramsey’s book, and it has so many awesome tips in it. He really is a great source of financial tips.

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  8. A Nation of Moms says

    April 7, 2021 at 2:22 am

    My friend follows Dave Ramsey and is always sharing good money saving tips. He really has so much great advice!

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  9. Eileen M Loya says

    April 7, 2021 at 1:57 am

    Very sound advice. I am currently working on building our emergency fund. I did so two years ago, but it got depleted when this pandemic struck. Thanks for this wonderful guide to achieve financial stability.

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  10. Sarah Howe says

    April 6, 2021 at 7:36 pm

    Sounds like some amazing tips here. I’m so keen to pay off my mortgage and we are saving for the uni funds!!!

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  11. Lyndsey OHalloran says

    April 6, 2021 at 7:18 pm

    We’re currently working on clearing our debts so we can do some of the other things. We do have a small emergency fund but not as much as I would like though.

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  12. Claudia Blanton says

    April 6, 2021 at 7:08 pm

    The emergency fund thing is so important! One never knows what will come up – and things will come up – just see the pandemic as an example. Great tips, always have been a fan of Dave Ramsey.

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  13. Lynndee says

    April 6, 2021 at 4:59 pm

    Thank you for these great tips. They would be very helpful, for sure.

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  14. Emily Michelle Fata says

    April 6, 2021 at 3:52 pm

    I’ve gained so much information from reading this! Thank you for sharing and enlightening all of your readers. 🙂

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  15. Sabina Green says

    April 6, 2021 at 3:28 pm

    This is great, I think following a plan to pay off your debts is so worthwhile and books like this are a game changer.

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  16. Ivan Jose says

    April 6, 2021 at 3:26 pm

    Thank you for sharing these! I’m trying to adopt a frugal lifestyle so any money-saving tips would be appreciated.

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  17. Rose Ann Sales says

    April 6, 2021 at 2:24 pm

    I’m doing well with our finances but it’s also great to learn more especially from people like him.

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  18. Gunel Ibadova says

    April 6, 2021 at 1:59 pm

    I found yout tips helpful and will take a note. We have to save money for the future, but sometimes we forget about it. Thanks for sharing it and your experience.

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  19. Nikki Wayne says

    April 6, 2021 at 1:55 pm

    I have heard of him and I can’t wait to learn more of his tips .

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  20. Gervin Khan says

    April 6, 2021 at 1:53 pm

    Definitely a great and helpful tips to become a zero debts person in the future. I agree with everything most importantly in extending your hands in helping others.

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  21. Angela Ricardo Bethea says

    April 6, 2021 at 11:16 am

    Those are some great points to keep in mind. Thanks for the great tips and this is such a helpful post.

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  22. angela says

    April 6, 2021 at 8:38 am

    This book gonna be extremely useful!Thanks sharing!

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  23. Olivia Robins says

    April 6, 2021 at 6:18 am

    i am still working on my own finantial freedom so your post really helped me to actually see the steps i need to take kind regards Pati Robins @ style squeeze blog

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  24. Jessica Collazo says

    April 6, 2021 at 3:31 am

    I need to gwt my hands on this book. I love Dave Ramsey aprouch to money.

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  25. Dr. Elise Ho says

    April 6, 2021 at 2:56 am

    Great tips for proper financial management. Really being aware of the best use of your money is extremely important to your entire future.

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  26. Bryan Carey says

    April 6, 2021 at 12:27 am

    There are lots of good financial plans out there- Ramsey is one of many. Some steps are easier to achieve than others. The important thing is to get started and not wait!

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  27. Tasheena says

    April 5, 2021 at 11:29 pm

    This post is really informative. I just love his concept.

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  28. Tara Pittman says

    April 5, 2021 at 7:36 pm

    Dave Ramsey has good money tips. I am wise with my money and love these tips

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  29. Amber Myers says

    April 5, 2021 at 7:07 pm

    I will have to keep these tips in mind. I always want to pay off things earlier if I can. I hope we can do this with our mortgage!

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  30. melissa chapman says

    April 5, 2021 at 6:01 pm

    My husband takes care of our finances and has done well thus far. Listening to Dave and his team is a great idea and his steps are helpful.

    Reply

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