As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
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Goals · August 8, 2015

2015 monthly goals {August}

Every time a new month rolls in I am feeling as if I did not fully enjoy the month that has ended but when I sit down and look at all my GBU posts I realise that I am in fact mistaken because so much happens every single month and my documenting my weekly happenings has helped me appreciate the good stuff more. This is not to say I did not have any bad stuff or ugly stuff happen in the month I just chose not to focus on it and only focus on what has made me happy. I will say this though, every good, bad and ugly stuff that happens in life shapes us but does not make us who we are, we all have free will to choose our paths.

Last month I shared a few goals which I will be honest have not looked at so not sure if I have completed them or not but let’s see what I shared last month.

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JULY GOALS

Weekend Getaways – July is my birthday Monday and it is also my blogavesary month, so instead of hosting a giveaway or detail my blogging journey I will be treating myself to TWO home weekend getaway and TWO abroad weekend getaway this month. PASS – I went to Brussels, a road trip across Europe and I visited Brighton and Dover.

Me Time – I know this is silly especially since my first goal for July is weekend getaways but I really need to make some time for me and I mean some much needed me time. It was awesome to find myself in Brussels, a city I had never been to and knew no one. Somehow it was liberating and I want to continue doing this. PASS – Whilst in Brussels, in Lithuania and in my own home.

Make time for Friends – Its crazy that I even need to write it down but honestly I am becoming the worst friend ever, apart from my BF in Korea who I chat with daily and M I hardly talk to my friends so I need to make time. PASS – I managed to stay in touch with some of my old friends which was nice but I can do better and started working on it already.

Blog Sponsorship – May and June saw me actually get back some profit from blogging, I want to continue this and I am making it my next goal for the blog. PARTIAL – July I spent more time traveling, looking after me that I neglected my blog. I did get some sponsorship but nothing compared to May and June.

T-25 – I am in week three of Alpha phase and I can already seem some change in my body, I want to make sure I complete Alpha and progress to Beta with noticeable results. FAILED – I completed ALPHA phase and has noticed results then I slacked and did not even start BETA and now am back to square one.

AUGUST GOALS

I am an advocate for ensuring that any failed goals from previous time you move them to the next month but I will not kid myself as I am not feeling T-25 so I will not put as a goal but will remind myself daily to do it for myself.

The goals for August are as follows:

  1. Read 4 books – I have not read a book since March, I have been slacking big time. I absolutely love reading but put this on a back burner for far too long.
  2. Spend time with family – funny that I even have to document this but I have not seen my parents for over a month now and we only live 2 hours apart. I have my many excuses handy but I need to make time.
  3. Reconnect with old friends – Again funny I have to document this but in this busy day and age I seem to need to be reminded of the norm.
  4. Blog schedule –  I need to recreate my blog schedule, I am not the greatest blog around but I functioned better when I had a schedule to go by.
  5. Blog posts – Do equal amounts sponsored and equal howto, tips, fashions etc. I am feeling as though I am losing myself in all these sponsored posts. Don’t get me wrong am grateful but I feel I am losing the reason I started blogging.

These are all the goals I want to achieve for the month of August, this is also another special month in my family. Today is my sister’s 23rd birthday, can not believe how grown she is but we thank God for another year and many more.

What are some of the goals you have for this month?

How did you do last month?

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Comments

  1. Katie Reed says

    August 16, 2015 at 5:03 am

    It’s so nice to meet your goals. Next month, my goals are to be more productive and focused. My kids will be back to school and it will give me more time for work and also for me.

    Reply
  2. Colette-JamericanSpice says

    August 14, 2015 at 7:17 am

    You did really good!
    I love the idea of journaling so we can remember our accomplishments. Sometimes they can get lost.

    And love your list for August! Go live!

    Reply
  3. CourtneyLynne says

    August 14, 2015 at 3:54 am

    Ahhh I hear ya about the getting lost in sponsored post! Happens to us all. I need more hours in the day so I can get more of what I want to write done lol

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 14, 2015 at 6:43 am

      I think I need more motivation on writing non-sponsored posts more than sponsored. I need the 50-50 balance

  4. Rebecca Swenor says

    August 13, 2015 at 9:01 pm

    These are awesome goals for the month of August. I love that you set time for your self too. My main goal this month is to get my trailer ready to sale and find a new place to live. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 14, 2015 at 6:44 am

      Thank you and good luck with your goal and hope you manage to sale the trailer

  5. Tatanisha Pitts-Worthey says

    August 13, 2015 at 12:25 pm

    Great goals! It’s very helpful to set goals no matter how big it may be. Good luck on your goals, hoping you would accomplish them all!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 14, 2015 at 6:45 am

      Thank you so much, big or small I love to set me some goals

  6. Stephanie of The TipToe Fairy says

    August 13, 2015 at 8:05 am

    These sound like great goals. I can’t imagine going to a place I’ve never been and didn’t know anyone.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 14, 2015 at 6:46 am

      Thanks, I never thought I could go anywhere I did not know anyone but I did and can not wait to do it again lol

  7. Angie says

    August 13, 2015 at 7:21 am

    I love reading and doing goal posts! You did a great job on July (Happy Birthday) and, Hello, Brussels? How cool. I’m a little jealous. Good luck on all your upcoming goals. I only picked 2 books and think that will be a challenge haha.

    Reply
  8. Franc Ramon says

    August 13, 2015 at 5:40 am

    Having a schedule really helps in your blog. It spreads out post evenly for your followers.

    Reply
  9. Mykidsguide says

    August 13, 2015 at 2:02 am

    Great goals! I need to work more on my blogposts, too as I have been slacking lately. I also need to catch up on my reading.

    Reply
  10. Liz Mays says

    August 13, 2015 at 1:25 am

    I need to follow in your footsteps and set some goals too. I’d love to do some more reading since my book queue has been growing.

    Reply
  11. Angelic Sinova says

    August 13, 2015 at 1:08 am

    Great goals! This month I definitely focused on having a solid blog schedule since I’ll be traveling nonstop until September and I didn’t want to have huge gaps between postings. Hope you reach all your goals this month <3

    Reply
  12. Vera Sweeney says

    August 13, 2015 at 12:05 am

    You have some amazing goals I am sure you will be successful at! Taking time for yourself is just as important as getting sponsorships since it refreshes yourself.

    Reply
  13. Heather says

    August 12, 2015 at 11:16 pm

    I tend to make too many goals and then fail at them because I wasn’t being realistic. So I tend to try to simply quite a bit, I’m just happier that way. But some obtainable ones I think are always good to keep!

    Reply
  14. Jaime Nicole says

    August 12, 2015 at 8:51 pm

    Hang in there – it sounds like you are doing great work! Being aware of your goals and writing them down is a huge step in achieving them. You got this!

    Reply
  15. Jacob Fu says

    August 12, 2015 at 7:47 pm

    Looks like you did a great job overall! The workouts are definitely hard to keep up with, but never too late to jump back on 🙂

    Reply
  16. Michele says

    August 12, 2015 at 1:47 pm

    I have no goals for this month–I generally go with the flow and am perfectly happy. Sure bad things happen but all in all I generally enjoy what I do and how I do it.

    Reply
  17. Maureen says

    August 12, 2015 at 11:01 am

    Happy belated birthday! Awesome attainable goals for August. I wish you luck with each one of them. I ditto you on the blogging part 😀 It’s been awhile since I neglect the blog.

    Reply
  18. Joanne T Ferguson says

    August 12, 2015 at 10:47 am

    What great goals and I am always curious what goals other people set and achieve! I will wish you the best in completing this month’s goals too!

    Reply
  19. Sacha says

    August 9, 2015 at 11:52 pm

    I enjoyed the month of July (birthday month) but I slacked on some of my goals. However, back on track this month, one of my goals is to complete a blog series I’m putting together.

    Reply
  20. Izabela says

    August 9, 2015 at 10:05 am

    Hope you meet your goals this month. Time flies too quick every month so don’t be too hard on yourself if you don’t tick all the boxes.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 9, 2015 at 5:52 pm

      Thank you Izabela

  21. mummy ms memories says

    August 8, 2015 at 5:00 pm

    I find when I spend more time on me my blog suffers to from it. I still need to find that balance. Good luck with trying to find your happy medium for August.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 9, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      I am the same, I am trying very hard to find the balance. Wishing you a wonderful August

  22. hannah says

    August 8, 2015 at 4:32 pm

    It’s good you have all these goals to pass. Wishing you all the best x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 9, 2015 at 5:54 pm

      Thanks

  23. Stella says

    August 8, 2015 at 9:46 am

    Great to have goals in place. Keeps you focused.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 8, 2015 at 4:16 pm

      Indeed

  24. Leighanne M says

    August 8, 2015 at 8:50 am

    My goals this month is to continue on my weight loss journey and go on a road trip. Fingers crossed you get to see your parents this month

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      August 8, 2015 at 4:17 pm

      Thank you Leighanne, I wish you all the best on your journey and the road trip too.

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