As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Lifestyle · March 4, 2017

Bedtime Routine

Bedtime routine differs between individuals and situations, this post comes with a disclaimer; make your own bedtime routine. Prior to having a bedtime routine I struggled hugely with getting up in the morning and doing these 10 things. As a self-declared insomniac I used to get up several times a night sometimes only getting an hour worth of sleep. This caused me to be real grumpy in the mornings and often would prefer to be left alone. Setting a night routine can make a huge difference in people’s lives.

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Recently I shared 10 things to do before 10am and how you can achieve that. Today I am sharing a bedtime routine that has helped me enjoy a good night’s sleep. For those with kids I salute you for even attempting a routine for yourselves.

 

{MY} Bedtime Routine 

As mentioned above, having a night routine has really improved my quality of sleep. It has also improved how I feel in the morning and helps me get off bed without much complaint.

Set an Alarm {for when to sleep} 

Setting an alarm is your best thing to start off your night routine. I set an alarm for when I should drop everything and go to bed. It sounds weird to set alarm for bed instead of for waking up.

10 things to do before 10am 

 

 

Cleaning and Writing 

I normally finish work around 4.30 and home by 5/5.30, then I continue to work until 20.30/21.00. After this I set an alarm to be in bed by 11pm meaning I have two hours to clean my home, do my blogging and review my to-do list. There are days when I don’t have to work until 9pm and will set an alarm to sleep by 10pm.

Take a shower 🚿 or bath 🛀 

Having a bath or shower before bed helps finalize my day and I sleep fresh and relaxed. I know some friends who complain a shower only wakes them up even more so they don’t shower before bed. For me it’s a difficult concept to digest but we are all different, I know personally it’s better to shower than not. I take pleasure in using relaxing oils or shower creams like lavender certainly sends me to bed faster.

Nightly Face Routine

Cleansing my face before bed is a huge part of my bedtime routine. I take pride in looking after my skin and ensuring I have cleansed it thoroughly. Though I do wish I did take the same pride in caring for my inside.

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Meditate and relax your mind 

This is easier said than done and most days I practically collapse in bed after my shower. But on days when I am tired but not sleepy I meditate and sometimes just listening to relaxing music helps. Others would do bedtime yoga which are also great for relaxing and sending you to sleep fast.

Sleep

This is easier if you’re one of those people who falls asleep as soon as your head hits the pillow. I am not one of those people, hence why I need to meditate or count to 100 or something. Because once I am finally in bed my mind starts remembering all the things I forgot which gets on my nerves. Hence why it’s so important for me to have a routine and stick to it. Obviously on holiday some things are skipped (time I sleep) but I practically stick to the routine.

Do you have a bedtime routine?

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  1. beautykinguk says

    March 8, 2017 at 6:41 pm

    I have no bedtime routine what so ever, I tend to lay and wait for sleep to come.

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  2. Hannah Bailey-Churcher says

    March 7, 2017 at 4:36 am

    This is a great bedtime routine! I always light a candle and cover myself in my favourite moisturiser 🙂 xo

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  3. none says

    March 7, 2017 at 2:27 am

    I recently started using my diffuser with lavendar oil. It’s been a nice addition to my bedtime routine and has helped my husband with his insomnia. (Shan Epstee)

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  4. Rachel Nicole says

    March 6, 2017 at 11:58 pm

    Routines are so important no matter how old you are! I do the same things every night before bed! xo

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  5. Michaele says

    March 6, 2017 at 8:04 pm

    I agree with all of this! And I think it’s important to have that rutine because that helps you sleep well too!

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  6. Elizabeth Brico says

    March 6, 2017 at 6:12 pm

    Well I am one of those people with kids, haha, so bedtime routines are hard to follow. I wish I could wake up late, but by mama standards I do: 7:45 on weekdays, 8-9 on weekends. I have trained my kids well! They are NOT 6am-ers!

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  7. Tanya Brannan says

    March 6, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    Fabulous post! I am terrible with my bedtime routine and find myself getting over tired or lying reading until the early hours, Maybe if I had a better routine this wouldn’t happen as much xx

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  8. dramrita says

    March 6, 2017 at 3:45 pm

    I have a best time routine too.It helps me unwind .But some days I me as up.Meditation before a leering us an excellent idea.Like that you mak this a priority

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  9. Jessi Joachim says

    March 6, 2017 at 3:37 pm

    It’s funny, I have a bed time routine for my kids, but not one for myself lol I should probably get on that.

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  10. Shane Prather says

    March 6, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    I need to get into a more structured nightime routine so I don’t end up scrolling through my phone for hours in bed. Great tips!

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  11. Troy says

    March 6, 2017 at 1:35 pm

    Mine is quite similar to your routine. Although some nights Im so tired that I skip right to the sleep part.

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  12. Blair Villanueva says

    March 6, 2017 at 10:00 am

    Mine is also similar to yours. Also I did a strict skincare routine before bedtime which I use the 10-steps Korean skincare routine. 🙂 It was beneficial to me!

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  13. Rhian Westbury says

    March 6, 2017 at 9:57 am

    I don’t have a strict bedtime routine but I do always try to be in bed by 11pm (this doesn’t always work though). I always take my make up off and do my skincare routine just before bed though x

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  14. Sarah Louise says

    March 6, 2017 at 9:50 am

    The only bed time routine I have is to go upstairs at 9am. Wash and brush teeth with my daughter. Get her to sleep then sleep myself until I’m woken up by her countless times in the night. Roll on when she sleeps through.

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  15. Jemma Andrew-Adiamah says

    March 6, 2017 at 6:37 am

    I really love having a bedtime routine. It really helps to prime my body for sleep.

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  16. David E says

    March 6, 2017 at 6:17 am

    It’s important to be able to relax your mind before you can get to a place of sleep. Meditation certainly does help with that.

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  17. Melissa Joy Patiño says

    March 6, 2017 at 6:08 am

    I like your routine. I usually read a book before going to sleep, but it makes me stay up way too late if the book is good. Haha.

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  18. Ola Broom says

    March 6, 2017 at 12:39 am

    It always helps to have a bedtime routine. As kids, we always had one, but adulthood changes that. I really have to embrace this again. It makes the week go by smoother.

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  19. Deimarys Colon says

    March 5, 2017 at 11:23 pm

    I have a similar bed time routine. the only difference is.. I try to get to bed by 9pm LOL! I try!! I will check on that bed time yoga though.

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  20. Mia Gorrell says

    March 5, 2017 at 9:57 pm

    Having a bedtime routine is essential for children and adults alike. Getting your body prepared for a good night’s sleep is essential! This can really benefit people who struggle with insomnia.

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  21. Sarah Bailey says

    March 5, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    I have to admit I have very little bedtime routine, I do always try of course have a wash, brush my teeth and I try and have a read for a little bit. x

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  22. Architect of free time says

    March 5, 2017 at 4:14 pm

    For me removing my make up is enssential, i couldn’t go to sleep whit make up on. When it comes to shower I prefer taking one in the moring to wake up.

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  23. Jennifer Eastwell says

    March 5, 2017 at 3:15 pm

    When I read this I thought it was a children’s bedtime routine! I think it’s important for adults to have one too – well me personally. I can lie there in bed some nights unable to switch off and sleep!

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  24. Em says

    March 5, 2017 at 2:41 pm

    These are great ideas for someone who struggles to shut off, luckily I have no problem in doing so! Getting into bed is the favourite part of my day.

    Em

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  25. Chloe Griffiths says

    March 5, 2017 at 11:15 am

    i love having a routine, some nights I’m just so tired though and its a case of straight to bed haha xo

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