As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Money · April 9, 2021

How to Fix your Finances | Book Review

Budgeting is one of the first steps to learning how to fix your finances and as a budgeter and financial enthusiast, I love nothing more than acquiring knowledge from those with the know-how. Bola Sol is a mathematics and finance graduate who is passionate about getting women together to discuss money matters. She is the acclaimed writer of ‘How to save it, fix your finances‘ book in which she shares her knowledge on money from changing your money mindset, budgeting too investing and wellness.

Regular readers will know that I share tips on how to fix your finances both here on the blog (category: Money) and on my YouTube Channel (Budget with A July Dreamer). Everyday I am connecting with women who are financial savvy and I am enjoying learning from them as well as sharing some of my ‘know-how’ with budgeting and investing. I recently shared a post and video on Emergency Funds and how to build one for your family because emergency funds should be custom made for your particular needs.

Disclaimer: I am not a financial advisor, what I share in this blog is my own opinion.

Budgeting is one of the first steps to learning how to fix your finances and as a budgeter and financial enthusiast, I love nothing more than acquiring knowledge from those with the know-how. Bola Sol is a mathematics and finance graduate who is passionate about getting women together to discuss money matters.

How to Fix your Finances

Since reading ‘Black Girl Finance‘, I have been obsessed with finding fellow black women who write about money because there doesn’t seem to be many of the in the financial world. So stumbling upon ‘how to fix your finances aka how to save it’ by Bola Sol was just short of amazing, I can not wait to read all of her books. I want to mention that whilst the topics mentioned in her book those who are financially equipped (knowledge wise) will think of this as a great refresher, I did and loved reading someone’s take on the issues of budgeting, saving, debt and the like.

Each section in the book is clearly written and explained and what I loved is this book is only a 125 pages which made for the quickest read ever but I still re-read it for good measure. I always find that when I re-read books that I enjoyed, little nuggets of knowledge stay in my mind longer than would have if I only read the book once. So as not to spoil this book for others, I will share high level information for each of the 7 sections in her book and recommend sharing this book with anyone from 10/12 and older and for those who are not money savvy but are willing to learn.

Mindset

The mindset section always speaks the unspoken truth and gives us reminders to not speak ill to ourselves, instead of say ‘I am not good with money’ change it to something like, ‘I am learning to manage my finances better’. Other mindsets that we often posses especially those of African and Caribbean heritage is ‘its rude to talk about money’ because no one talks about it so we develop this phobia towards money and never learn from young how to manage it best.

Budget

Everyone manages their income differently, I, like many others prefer to have a budget to make sure we are telling money where it needs to go and not the other way round. There are different ways one can budget and you don’t need to stick to just one. I follow a ‘zero-based budget‘ which just means every single one of my pennies has a job in my budget whether its paying the mortgage or going into the fun pot. I also follow the 50-30-20 rule of managing my money where by 50% goes towards my living needs (mortgage, utilities), 30% towards my wants (holiday, Netflix) and 20% goes towards my savings (for those with debt, it would go towards debt).

Saving

When it comes to saving, people often struggle with this but following the 50-30-20 rule or just budgeting in general will help you see where you can save some money. In most cases if there is no money in the budget it is time to downsize or find a side hustle that can help you bring in more income. This is my personal take on saving but Bola teaches you how you can save from cash back schemes to discounts and much more. Because I budget, I know how much I can afford to save and every single month, I pay myself first before any other bills are paid.

Budgeting is one of the first steps to learning how to fix your finances and as a budgeter and financial enthusiast, I love nothing more than acquiring knowledge from those with the know-how. Bola Sol is a mathematics and finance graduate who is passionate about getting women together to discuss money matters.

Debt

As someone who has been in debt before and felt like the world’s biggest failure, I know how people feel when they are in debt. It can be such a struggle to get out of it but I managed to and so can you. I personally followed the Snowball method of paying off debt whereby you pay off the smallest first and so on. Others follow the Avalanche Method which calls for paying off the highest interest first. Bola in her book she breaks down types of debt and shares some debt reduction strategies that you can implement to become debt free.

Credit

The most common type of credit that many people are familiar with is credit cards, loans and the like. Obviously we all know that if you are in debt, it becomes harder for you to get good credit and you will need to work hard to repair your credit score to be in the lenders good books again. Bola discusses a lot about the pros and cons of credit cards, I think a lot of people could do with being educated about using credit cards and also improving their credit scores.

Invest

When it comes to investing, I know a bit but I am always eager to learn from others, Bola covers investing from investing on yourself to investing in the stock market and diversifying your investment portfolio. I personally invest in the stock market via mutual funds, single stocks and real estate. I have still got a long way to go but it truly pays to be knowledge or at least gather some knowledge on investing for your future.

Wellness

I love that Bola included a section on wellness, after the year we’ve all had we could all do with taking care of ourselves, protecting our peace and focusing on things that matter to us. Money can be such a stressor especially when you don’t know how to manage best what you have or when it is always short no matter where you pinch. Make sure to take a minute to just breath, go outside for some fresh air and come back to it once your brain cells have been rejuvenated.

I really enjoyed reading Bola’s book on how to fix your finances and recommend it highly for those wanting to brush up on personal finance management or don’t know where to start when it comes to managing money.

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Comments

  1. IceCreamnStickyFingers says

    April 12, 2021 at 8:09 pm

    I’ve been fairly money smart since I was a teenager. I’m glad my parents made me pay for my own car expenses, like car insurance, gas, and maintenance. It allowed me to practice budgeting for real life. I have attempted to pass my smart money tips to my kids or at least tried to. Paying off any loans and saving money on interest is my biggest suggestion. My 20 year old followed this advice. Even, my 9 year old knows that mama pays for what we need before we buy any of our wants.

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  2. Heather Seeley says

    April 11, 2021 at 8:43 pm

    Sounds like a wonderful book! Mindset is super important with finances and a great way to keep positive and focused when it comes to your money.

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  3. Kira says

    April 11, 2021 at 5:42 pm

    I really love kind of books . Like a self help book to help the areas of your life that need a little nudge 🙁

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  4. Sofie says

    April 11, 2021 at 1:57 pm

    Thank you for this super informative post! This would really help me in managing my finances and investing one of the things that I am currently learning.

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  5. Lynndee says

    April 11, 2021 at 1:38 pm

    I would love to read that book. Sounds a great and helpful book.

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  6. Catalina says

    April 11, 2021 at 1:29 pm

    This book sounds perfect for me. I love that it’s a quick read too. And the Wellness section is very welcomed!

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  7. Paula Richie says

    April 11, 2021 at 4:11 am

    I hope that, with the mess made due to the pandemic, people will begin to take fixing their finances seriously.

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  8. A Nation of Moms says

    April 11, 2021 at 2:30 am

    We have been saving more than ever because of Covid and doing less (travel, sports, etc). These are great tips to help keep things going!

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  9. Beth says

    April 11, 2021 at 1:15 am

    I am going to share this post with my niece. She graduated from college a few years ago, so I think she’ll learn a lot!

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  10. Kathy says

    April 10, 2021 at 2:42 pm

    These are some really good tips. I’m all about saving. I try to be really careful with my money too. If I don’t need it, I won’t get it.

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  11. Kelli A says

    April 10, 2021 at 2:26 pm

    This past year has definitely made my take a different look at our finances and investing options may need to check this book out myself!

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  12. Loril Bosworth says

    April 10, 2021 at 2:25 pm

    I completely agree with the idea of having a positive mindset about money, which should increase the flow of money into our lives.

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  13. Gervin Khan says

    April 10, 2021 at 6:08 am

    Great tips! This will be a big help to those who are struggling in managing their finances. I am happy that I am in a zero debt and now I am more on budgeting and saving my money and thinking to invest soon for extra income.

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    • Miranda says

      April 10, 2021 at 7:52 am

      I am glad to hear that and good luck on your journey with investing. I have been investing for 8 years now and its great.

  14. Nikki Wayne says

    April 10, 2021 at 4:00 am

    I agree. Sometimes it’s about the mindset. Great tips you’ve shared.

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  15. Tara Pittman says

    April 9, 2021 at 8:30 pm

    This is a book that I need to get for my son. He is working on staying out of debt.

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    • Miranda says

      April 10, 2021 at 7:51 am

      And this book will be a great start for him

  16. Catherine says

    April 9, 2021 at 8:10 pm

    A lot of great tips here. Budgeting is super important…all of these steps are important! Thanks for sharing.

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  17. Ben says

    April 9, 2021 at 8:02 pm

    I need to get this book. I’m doing okay with my finances, but I could definitely use a bit more help. This sounds like a great resource.,

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    • Miranda says

      April 10, 2021 at 7:51 am

      Definitely grab a copy it has some really good insights and can definitely help

  18. forkwardthinkingfoodinista says

    April 9, 2021 at 6:09 pm

    Love this! The finances book sounds like a great way to get family finances on track to make sure of a sound financial future x

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    • Miranda says

      April 10, 2021 at 7:50 am

      It sure can help kick start one’s finances.

  19. Mosaic Murals says

    April 9, 2021 at 5:02 pm

    Super love the insights! And i love that you started with mindset because that is the cause of the problem! Awesome share, thank you!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      April 10, 2021 at 7:50 am

      Thanks for your lovely comment and agree the mindset shift needs to happy for change to occur.

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