As someone who has worked several years in the elderly healthcare system, I know it can be a tough choice for families to decide what’s best for their senior family members. I have worked in almost all institutions; independent living, residential care homes and care in the community and each has pros and cons. Here is how to help a senior living at home or thinking about it.
Having worked in all three institutions, I know personally I would advocate for independent living in whatever capacity. If my last remaining grandmother lived with us in the UK, I would love to install domestic lifts to support her mobility. I have seen many elderly people move to bungalow housing because stairs are frightful.

In this post, we hope to share a few tips to help a senior living at home to be more confident and happy. Simple changes to the house can make a world of difference to a senior person living at home.
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How to Help a Senior Living at Home
When I started working in care in the community, I noticed how more independent the elderly folks were. I personally believe in care settings that support independence and this is why I advocate for independent living in whatever capacity. Though it’s important to note this is not for everyone, often for the senior person’s safety, care homes are better.

Simple changes that can be made to help a senior living at home include;
- Hiring carers in the community to visit every so often
- Modify the home to allow for more movement e.g. installing lifts, handlebars etc.
- Purchasing special furniture like a recliner sofa
- Installing security lines
- Mobility scooters or walkers if necessary
- Organize medication
Every senior citizen is different from the next, my grandmother is able-bodied but she is getting slower. She can definitely do with simple home modifications to improve her mobility but still maintain her independence. Some of the simple things caregivers can do now include;
- Food shopping – this can seem simple enough but for the elderly, it can be quite tiring
- House cleaning – even dragging a hoover around the house can be draining
- Sorting medication – the elderly are often on a lot of medications so makes sense to help them sort medication
- Gardening – another tiring exercise
- Other handymen jobs

Though I am a great advocate for independent living, I know that it is not for everyone. Some of the cons of independent living are that it can be expensive, vulnerable and lonely. Whilst living in care homes there are other seniors living in the home, friendships can be made and might be more cost-effective.
If however, your elderly citizens choose to stay at home, certain adjustments have to be made whether they live with you or alone. Simple home changes can make a world of difference to their independence and mobility.




Nikki - Notes of Life says
My Nan & Granddad (in their 90s!) live independently in their own home, with visits from us to help with shopping and appointments once or so a week. They wouldn’t have it any other way.
Clare Minall says
I have elderly relatives at home and every single one of them is such an important guide. Thank you fro sharing this.
Wendy says
Really practical and useful advice here, my husband manages a residential care home and I think even he would advocate for independent living at home for as long as possible xx
Miranda says
I agree if it’s possible for independent living them its something that I know I would want to consider for my parents or grandparents.
Stephanie says
Some great advice here, my family members want to stay at home for as long as possible.
Anita Faulkner - Brazen Mummy Writes says
Some great advice here. My nan lives in a retirement home but in her own apartment. I agree independence can be so important.
Miranda says
I think her own apartment is still independence which I think if possible for them to have then they should.
lAURA DOVE says
Great advice here. My nan is 91 and she lives at home, I worry a lot about her and that her house isn’t safe. She really needs a stair lift!
Miranda says
I have the same fears for my Nan but I am still have she still has her independence
Jenni says
My parents live in a tall, narrow house with four floors and lots of stairs. They are both in their 70s now, though still quite fit, but I worry what will happen when they can’t cope any more. They love that house.
Miranda says
It sometimes can get hard when as they grow older the house becomes impractical for them but still love it to death.
tootingmama says
Some good advice here, especially more of us are having to look after elderly relatives. Thanks for the post.
Lyndsey O'Halloran says
I can imagine stairs being one of the biggest issues and a lift sounds like a great idea.
Jon | The Money Shed / Totally Blogging / CTMB (@themoneyshed) says
Some great advice here. I remember when we bought my Nan some adaptive furniture and it was totally life changing for her!