As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Home · May 28, 2021

How to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary

‘Your home is your sanctuary’, I always loved this statement and this is why I am sharing tips on how to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary. As someone who has worked from home for many years, I has always been important to me to ensure that my home doesn’t just become another work-base but rather a sanctuary. I am fortunate to be able to work from home and have a choice on whether I should visit the office or not so I created a home office that resembles my office outside my home. So much that whenever I leave my home office into my others rooms I feel a sense of calm and relaxation because the rest of my home is a sanctuary.

So, if you are someone looking for tips on how to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary then look no further because in this post we share some nuggests that we love everyone will appreciate. I recently decorated my bedroom with a beautiful wallpaper mural that has completed turned my bedroom into my very own sanctuary. Most of us spend a lot of time in my living rooms, kitchen and bedroom, so it makes sense that you invest in them to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary where you want to spend all your time.

'Your home is your sanctuary', I always loved this statement and this is why I am sharing tips on how to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary. As someone who has worked from home for many years, I has always been important to me to ensure that my home doesn't just become another work-base but rather a sanctuary.

Disclosure – this is a collaborative post.

How to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary

After spending so much time at home, I am sure like me many people have formed a routine that promotes relaxation. Even though I work from home doesn’t mean I start work early because that is the fastest way to burn the candle from both ends. I have incorporated some relaxation routines from that make me happy from the time I wake up until I go to be. These routines start with getting up early, making a cup of coffee and sitting where the sun is shinning and read my book for the first hour of the day. This often sets the tone for the rest of the day.

In the past year, our work and home lives have seamlessly blended into one. It’s estimated that 45% of us now work from home. Whilst it’s nice to be able to roll out of bed and be at your desk without sitting in rush-hour traffic, it’s important to be able to separate your home and work life. To help you create a sanctuary where you want to spend time after 5pm, we’ve put together our top tips to create a peaceful home. Let us know in the comments section your tips for how to turn your home into a relaxing sanctuary especially how you did it.

Choose colours that make you feel good 

Much like wearing clothes that make us feel good – your home is no different. When considering how to decorate your home, opt for colours that promote calmness and tranquility. For bathrooms, going for a green or blue bathroom paint will have a soothing effect. Similarly, whilst a little bolder, yellow is a mood booster and can raise your energy levels, making you feel happy and cheerful.

Use candles and aromatherapy

No spa worth its salt would be seen without delightful smelling candles and aromatherapy, so why should your home? 

To replicate the just-been-to-the-spa sense of calm, fill your home with well-chosen scented candles. Scents can have positive effects on your mood, reduce stress and even improve sleep and cognitive performance. So, if there is ever a better excuse to splurge on candles, this is it. 

If you’d prefer something a little different, you can even invest in an oil diffuser to burn essential oils and lift your mood. 

Adopt some plant-friends 

Over the past year, plant sales have boomed by up to 500% – and for good reason. Having plants in your home can help reduce stress and anxiety. They also clean and purify the air, which is good news for allergy and asthma sufferers. Don’t forget to regularly water and mist them though – there’s nothing tranquil about a dying house plant. 

Personalise your décor 

Having uplifting décor throughout your home can make you feel cozy, safe and comfortable. When the stresses of modern get tough, it’s important to be able to sit back and relax in a home that you love. Consider hanging pictures of your family or artwork that nods to your favourite movie. 

For an extra dose of coziness, why not hang some string lights to create a warm, relaxing atmosphere?  

You can even accessorise with your favourite textures and fabrics, perfect for sinking into after a long day. 

Working from home definitely has its perks, but it’s important to be able to separate your home and personal life for your productivity and mental health. By keeping to a strict working schedule and making some small changes to your home to promote calmness, you can continue to enjoy the best of both worlds. 

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Comments

  1. Prajakta says

    July 26, 2021 at 11:11 pm

    I love the idea of personalizing the house with candles and plants. Making it relaxed and cozy.

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  2. Aditinona says

    July 26, 2021 at 5:49 am

    Love the ideas.. this season I really tried to work on making my room my fav place in the home and chose colours that I loved and did so many decor things on my own.

    Reply
  3. Renata Green says

    July 25, 2021 at 8:03 pm

    It’s so important that your home is the one oasis you love to return to. After remodeling my home, I’m so much more comfortable and relaxed.

    Reply
  4. aisasami says

    July 25, 2021 at 2:27 pm

    What amazing tips to turning your living space something relaxing. I will try them as I am seeking for a change!

    Reply
  5. Lyosha Varezhkina says

    July 25, 2021 at 1:59 pm

    great guide! I do want to feel as if my home if my relaxing sanctuary

    Reply
  6. Roshanna21 says

    July 24, 2021 at 3:59 pm

    I agree to everyone of your points ! Adding really soft and comfy funriture, adding the right candles and loads of plants works like a charm.

    Reply
  7. Michele @ ourredonkulouslife says

    July 24, 2021 at 3:14 pm

    I have been working on creating a cohesive look. But my house always looks like a mish mosh of crap. LOL I need to get Mr. Kate to design my whole house. If I close my eyes I can pretend I am somewhere else LOL

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  8. Cynthia Nicoletti says

    July 24, 2021 at 2:49 pm

    I love the look of your room, it looks so nice and comfy and relaxing. For me dimming the lights and having a super soft blanket to cuddle with is my sanctuary.

    Reply
  9. Knycx Journeying says

    July 24, 2021 at 8:09 am

    This is my latest project and you have given me some good tips. I think one think that really help me elevating my “zen” at home is adding some plants, the green really helps to create a nice environment.

    Reply
  10. Fransic verso says

    July 24, 2021 at 4:51 am

    Adding plants is awesome and make the air fresh if it’s real plants. That’s something I would want to do

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  11. Solace by Rhea says

    July 23, 2021 at 8:18 pm

    i started to adapt some plants recently – initially with some bamboo sticks, It definitely brighten up my space

    Reply
  12. risalopez says

    July 23, 2021 at 4:51 pm

    I love light colors, it makes the house bright and neat. I also use candles and aromatheraphy to help me feel relaxed.

    Reply
  13. Just Juan says

    July 23, 2021 at 4:23 pm

    For me, decor has always been a pride point in making my home my sanctuary. I love dark and bold colors so a lot of my furniture and paintings and accents follow that scheme.

    Reply
  14. MELANIE EDJOURIAN says

    July 23, 2021 at 10:29 am

    I do like to dim the lights and place candle around. It can really help you relax and looks pretty too.

    Reply

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