As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
:
:
:
:
:
 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me

A July Dreamer

A Travel & Lifestyle Blog

Money · September 23, 2021

How to use Credit Cards Responsibly

DO NOT TAKE OUR A CREDIT CARD IF YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO USE CREDIT CARDS RESPONSIBLY. This should be the warning placed on every credit card application form and also there should be a competency test on how to use credit cards but we live in a capitalist world so the only thing left is to educate yourself on money management. I have 2 credit cards at the moment and in my lifestyle I have had 8 in total (includes the current 2) and in the past I did not know how to use credit cards responsibly. Educating yourself on how credit card companies many their money back, how you can ensure they never make money off you and how to make it work for you is the first step.

Before we jump into educating ourselves on responsible use of credit cards, let’s get one thing out of the way. Are credit cards inherently bad? The simple answer is, NO – credit cards are financial tools and just like any financial tool, you can use it for your benefit and if not used correctly then it can work against you. One of the biggest money myths out there is credit cards are bad when actually all we need is an education on how use credit cards responsibly. Financial literacy is a big part of personal finance management because if you understand the basic concepts of money management then you are half way there. The next step is to understand how to make each financial tool can serve you best and that is the aim of this post

DO NOT TAKE OUR A CREDIT CARD IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO USE CREDIT CARDS RESPONSIBLY. This should be the warning placed on every credit card application form and also there should be a competency test on how to use credit cards but we live in a capitalist world so the only thing left is to educate yourself on money management.

*Disclaimer – I am not a financial advisor, please contact a qualified financial advisor for your specific needs.

How to use Credit Cards Responsibly

When I was 18-years old, I got offered my first credit card and I was so happy, why? because the credit card advertised it as free money and you didn’t need to pay anything back for the next 3-months. As an 18yo with next to zero money literacy this sounded like a dream come true and boy did I go on a spending binge or what. At first, I was fearful because I firstly didn’t have a job, I was still in school and didn’t understand how this ‘free money’ situation worked. But then I got a taste of it and funny enough I spent on something that I had to because I had no available funds but when my first statement came, of the £300 I spent, I needed to only repay £15 back to the credit card company, I didn’t look at the interest box at all.

So, the first lesson in how to use credit card responsibly comes in the form of, ‘how do credit card companies make money‘. I want to make this clear, credit card companies don’t lend you that money out of the goodness of their combined hearts but rather, they are hoping one of these days you will fall on hard times, use their card and only pay back the minimum required payment and once you do, they will be happy to apply the interest on the balance you owe. If you have a credit card limit of £1000, you use £700 and they inform you the minimum is £25, what they don’t tell you is this £25 will consist of principal and interest charge and in 90% of the time the interest is something like £13.45. This means, you have repaid only £11.55 towards your balance of £700 and not £25 and that is how credit card companies make their money.

The second lesson in how to use credit card responsibly is ‘how to ensure the credit card companies don’t make money off you‘. Firstly let’s start with a disclaimer, if your credit card comes with annual fees then they will always make money off you but you can always balance it out if its a cash back credit card or card that saves you money. So, how do you ensure that the credit card companies don’t make money off you? Well, the easiest way I have found is to only spend what you are confident you can pay off before the next statement (not the end of the month). People often think it would be find if they paid off the balance before the end of the month and wondered why they were still charged interest, this is because your ‘cut off date’ night not be the end of the month but another day. Personally I have two credit cards with different cut off date, for the AMEX, I make payments before 19th of each month and for the Lloyds I pay off the balance before the 9th of each month.

The third lesson in how to use credit card responsibly is ‘how to make credit cards work for you‘ at least how I make the credit cards work for me. First thing to understand is my statement above, ‘only spend what you are confident you can payback before your next statement date’. This is because there are times when you know you will have money (e.g. from salary) in a few weeks time but need to spend now and can not wait until you get paid. If you can spend within your statement window then I think it is ok to spend then but if it outside your statement window then use your emergency fund or other savings that you can replace soon after you receive the money. One thing I must reiterate is putting yourself in debt because of FOMO (fear of missing out) is not smart, because you really want that dress, those shoes or that trip is not worth going into debt.

I only use credit cards that I can earn something back from, my AMEX I earn AVIOS points from everyday and these AVIOS points can lead to me getting a free flight, free hotel room or free experience and more recently I can convert into nectar points and I utilise at my local supermarket. For my Lloyds cash back credit card, I use it to earn money back on everyday spending and this money I can use to purchase other things in the future.

I personally do not believe credit cards are bad, I think people lack the education on how to best utilise credit cards so you don’t see them as evil but rather as a tool you can use to your advantage.

In: Money

You’ll Also Love

5 streams of income to pursue in the new year5 Streams of Income to pursue in the New Year
how to set up sinking fundsHow to set up Sinking Funds
Bad habits keeping you poorBad Habits Keeping You Poor

Comments

  1. katrina m kroeplin says

    September 29, 2021 at 4:21 am

    these are great tips. i always think that this type of thing needs to be taught in school as welll

    Reply
  2. Lea Luminarias says

    September 28, 2021 at 6:36 am

    Been looking for tips about this matter since I’ve been thinking of getting a new credit card, and this is the best one yet.

    Reply
  3. Autumn says

    September 26, 2021 at 7:05 pm

    I love this. I just sent this to my daughter as she just got her first credit card. I knew some of this information, but not in this detail. Thank you.

    Reply
  4. Emman Damian says

    September 25, 2021 at 12:55 am

    Make sure you only use it for emergency or for those “controlled” spending. Hide it somewhere! hahaha! Kidding aside, have a reasonable spending.

    Reply
  5. Fransic verso says

    September 24, 2021 at 11:27 pm

    That’s awesome you can stop companies to make money out of me. Thank you for sharing!

    Fransic

    Reply
  6. Milton Coyne says

    September 24, 2021 at 9:44 pm

    This is true.. That’s why i am quite scared to get a credit card because i don’t know if i have that power to resist buying things lols.. It all started when i watched the movie The confession of a Shopaholic..
    Thank you for the tips.. While i do scare of getting it, i think having a credit card has some notable advantages too

    Reply
  7. Kira Hutt says

    September 24, 2021 at 9:11 pm

    I have never had a credit card , I’ve always been worried about going crazy with one but I know they do when for your credit score too

    Reply
  8. Sarah Howe says

    September 24, 2021 at 8:45 pm

    I now still hate using mine but I know they can be more secure and you can earn points on them! I use but carefully. Great tips x

    Reply
  9. Matt Taylor says

    September 24, 2021 at 4:07 pm

    These are great tips! I make it a point to always pay my balance off every month, so I never incur the interest. I don’t like paying more for something that I bought.

    Reply
  10. Talya says

    September 24, 2021 at 1:06 pm

    Great tips. I think the main thing is to control your credit cards not let them control you.

    Reply
  11. linda says

    September 24, 2021 at 11:06 am

    Thats so good advice and important article to ready for everyone. Thanks for sharing with us.

    Reply
  12. Stephanie says

    September 24, 2021 at 2:31 am

    I wish some of this was taught in school. My husband and I do really well with our cards and never carry a balance. We have cards that earn us points and airline miles since we travel often.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      September 30, 2021 at 7:15 am

      I too wish it was in schools as it would save so many people.

  13. Sarah Bailey says

    September 23, 2021 at 8:39 pm

    This some really good tips, I think anyone who takes on a credit card needs to do so responsibly as they can so easily get out of hand.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      September 30, 2021 at 7:14 am

      Exactly, thanks so much for stopping by.

  14. yoursundayguide says

    September 23, 2021 at 3:34 pm

    Thank you very much! I have never used a credit card, but if, I would definitely follow your tips. Very helpful.

    Reply
  15. Jen Schreiner says

    September 23, 2021 at 2:24 pm

    This is a much needed post. I really wished when I was younger I understood all of this. As college kid credit cards were my lifeline, but what I really needed to understand was planning and not to hold a balance. I dod plan to teach my kids better.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      September 30, 2021 at 7:13 am

      I know exactly what you mean, I wish I knew this as well before I went into debt over it.

  16. Becky, Cuddle Fairy says

    September 23, 2021 at 12:56 pm

    That’s really sage advice, and valuable for anyone to follow your golden rule of only spending what you know you can pay back each month. Otherwise it is a slippery slope!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      September 30, 2021 at 7:12 am

      Definitely a slippery slope. Thanks for stopping by.

Leave a ReplyCancel reply

Next Post >

5 Things to do immediately after you get paid

About Me
I'm Miranda. Travel-Addict. Blogger. Moscato Addict. Weekend Escapist. Homebody. Countryside dweller residng in Oxfordshire.

Search the archives

My 5 Year Plan to become a millionaire

https://youtu.be/rzpyQrO3BLY

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

The Categories

The Archives

  • Home
  • About
  • Privacy Policy

Copyright © 2026 A July Dreamer · Theme by 17th Avenue

This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish. Cookie settingsACCEPT
Privacy & Cookies Policy

Privacy Overview

This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are as essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience.
Necessary
Always Enabled
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
SAVE & ACCEPT

Loading Comments...