As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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{Lifestyle} Turn your bedroom into a boudoir in 5 simple steps

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Your bedroom should be a place where you can go to forget life’s stresses and strains. Whether you want to curl up with a book, enjoy a romantic evening with your partner or simply sink into peaceful sleep, your room must offer the ideal setting. If you think this space isn’t up to scratch and you want to make some changes, the following five simple steps could help you transform it into a stylish, luxurious boudoir.

1) Bring spa comfort levels to your bed

Everyone loves a little pampering from time to time, and what better way to release tension than to enjoy a relaxing massage? The best thing is, you don’t have to book a spa appointment to benefit from these treatments; if you have the right bed, you can enjoy them in the comfort of your own home. It’s now possible to get beds that feature built-in massage functions. For example, the models offered by Adjustamatic have an NHC Cyclo-Therapy system that is designed to improve blood circulation, offer pain relief and lower stress levels. Whether you have niggling aches or pains, an ongoing health problem or you simply want to unwind in style at the end of a hard day, these innovative furnishings could be just what you need.

2) Lower your lighting

A bright overhead light can be practical in a bedroom, but it’s important that you have the option of lowering the brightness levels in this space too. A couple of bedside lamps can help to create a cosy look and feel in these areas, and by installing dimmer switches on your illuminations, you’ll get even more control over your lighting. To add a magical feel to this room, why not embellish your walls with some fairy lights too?

3) Rethink your colour scheme

It could be time to reconsider your colour scheme as well. Even if you like the current look, refreshing your walls with a different hue could breathe new life into the space and help you fall in love with your bedroom all over again. If you’re not sure which colours to go for, get some tester pots and try them out. With winter fast approaching, perhaps you’ll fancy something warming like a rich red or burnt orange.

4) Kiss goodbye to clutter

Clutter is the nemesis of the interior designer. No matter how fabulous your furnishings and décor, if your room is covered in clothes, cosmetics and electricals, it will fail to impress. There are plenty of space-saving storage solutions available for bedrooms, including ottomans, under-bed drawers and boxes and full-height wardrobes and shelves. By making sure you have enough storage places for your possessions, you can make it much easier to keep this part of your property clutter-free.

5) Introduce soothing scents

Another top tip is to introduce some soothing scents. You can take your pick from wall plug-ins, reed diffusers, scented candles and potpourri. Meanwhile, when it comes to the fragrances themselves, lavender is a popular choice for sleeping areas because of its relaxing properties. Other enticing scents include vanilla, jasmine and valerian.

If you don’t have the budget or energy to make all of these changes at once, there’s always the option of staggering them. It may take longer this way, but you’ll still end up with the dreamy boudoir you desire.

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  1. Amanda @ Adorkablii says

    November 16, 2015 at 8:54 pm

    I need to fix my bedroom. Right now it’s being taken over by boxes due to lack of storage. =( It’s really annoying. Right now it seems to be clutter but once I get another dresser and some book shelves, i’ll be happy.

    Reply
  2. Marielle Altenor says

    November 16, 2015 at 3:26 am

    Great tips! My bedroom is currently being taken over with baby stuff! Can’t wait to fix it up better when the baby’s crib is out!

    Reply
  3. Penny Struebig says

    November 15, 2015 at 2:04 pm

    Great tips! I really need to focus on the getting rid of the clutter point.

    Reply
  4. coolchillmom says

    November 15, 2015 at 7:19 am

    You are right about decluttering. I think it is a great idea for the entire home. The lighting sets the mood in such a great way!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 15, 2015 at 7:38 am

      Thanks, the lights do indeed

  5. Amanda Tempel says

    November 15, 2015 at 6:21 am

    Awesome tips, that everyone could use! My room feels so packed lately – And this also sounds like a great way to get in the mood to tone things down a bit.

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    • Miranda says

      November 15, 2015 at 7:39 am

      Thanks, for me sometimes feels like everytime I declutter a few days later I need to do it again but practising these tips is helping

  6. Chantal says

    November 15, 2015 at 4:45 am

    This is a great post! Reducing the clutter makes the bedroom so much more relaxing!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 15, 2015 at 7:40 am

      Thanks.

  7. Wood Arts Universe says

    November 14, 2015 at 4:49 am

    It’s not easy to make your room clutter-free but with these tips that you shared here, I’m sure it will be easier to do it now. I’ll be bookmarking this too for future uses. Thank you! 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 14, 2015 at 12:06 pm

      Its never easy and sometimes feels like a never ending task but it can be done.

  8. Wood Arts Universe says

    November 14, 2015 at 4:23 am

    It’s not easy to make our room clutter-free but with these tips that you’ve shared, I’m sure it will be easier to do it now. 😀

    Reply
  9. Lisa says

    November 14, 2015 at 3:47 am

    These are all great tips. We need to get rid of the clutter really soon. Our bedroom has become the catch all.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 14, 2015 at 12:09 pm

      My bedroom was becoming the catch all room too but now slowly becoming my room again

  10. Cassie says

    November 14, 2015 at 12:37 am

    A lot of great tips here! I need to take several of them to heart, especially the one about reducing clutter

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    • Miranda says

      November 14, 2015 at 12:10 pm

      Clutter is the biggest one for most of us, sometimes I think I do it on purpose like its easier to clutter my bedroom than any room in the house

  11. Heather says

    November 13, 2015 at 11:25 pm

    Oh I agree with you. It needs to be an escape. We need to kiss clutter goodbye in a big way in our bedroom. Time to purge!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 14, 2015 at 12:11 pm

      Time to purge indeed

  12. Savannah Miller says

    November 13, 2015 at 9:42 pm

    I so need to declutter my room! I have stuff everywhere and it really is stressful, I may do that this weekend 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 14, 2015 at 12:22 pm

      I had a lot of stuff too and do not even know where half came from but slowly hoping to donate what I do not need

  13. Shell says

    November 13, 2015 at 8:16 pm

    Kissing clutter goodbye is so important. Especially if you have kids. It’s so hard to remember not be become the catch all for everyone else’s belongings. I love the clean, simple look.

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    • Miranda says

      November 14, 2015 at 12:24 pm

      I too love the clean and simple look but somehow I end up with clutter before I even know it.

  14. Scott says

    November 13, 2015 at 1:51 pm

    Clutter in the bedroom is one thing that really gets to me. I cannot sleep in a messy room!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 3:43 pm

      I would like to say its the same for me but looking around my room now I could do with some more decluttering

  15. Alli says

    November 13, 2015 at 1:21 pm

    I’m in the process of redoing my master bedroom and bath. Seems I always put it off to last, but I’ve bought a new bed and I’m waiting for my mattresses to arrive. These steps will come in handy.

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    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 3:45 pm

      Nothing better than a new bed and even better mattress, I love it to the pound.

  16. Megan Elford says

    November 13, 2015 at 12:54 pm

    This is perfect timing for me – I just finally decluttered our bedroom and got it back to looking like a bedroom again! Now you can actually see our fireplace, and we’ve got some comfy seating in there too. I be using these tips to complete the transformation!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 3:48 pm

      oh wow, i wonder who big your bedroom is to have fire place and seating. I would love to have a fire place in my bedroom too lol. Good luck with the transformation

  17. Jessica says

    November 13, 2015 at 12:27 pm

    I love these tips! Definitely need to work on my bedroom!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 4:19 pm

      Thanks, hope you make use of them one day

  18. Robin Rue (@massholemommy) says

    November 13, 2015 at 11:53 am

    The idea about lowernig the lighting is so smart. We have an over head fan in our bedroom and the light on that thing is SO BRIGHT. We definitely need to take it down a notch.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 5:04 pm

      I had to get a bedside lamp which has different levels of light that has helped me

  19. MissPond says

    November 13, 2015 at 9:00 am

    Great tips, we recently invested in a new mattress and cut the clutter from our room, it’s definitely helped 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 9:58 am

      I did the same a few months ago but looks like I need to declutter again lol

  20. Dana Andersen says

    November 13, 2015 at 8:54 am

    These are some really great tips that I’m going to be sure to follow! My room is still very ‘teenage girl’ and now that i’m living with my boyfriend i don’t either of us are fans!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      November 13, 2015 at 10:00 am

      hahaha, I think when you’re alone you can get away with a lot but once you start sharing with a partner well a few things need to go lol

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