As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
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Goals · July 1, 2016

Monthly July 2016 Goals

The month that I was both excited and dreading to arrive has arrived. I am excited because this month is my birthday month and also my blogaversary month too. Whilst my blog will be turning a mere 3 years old, I will on the other hand be turning 29 😳😩🙄. I have shared before my feelings towards turning 29 and feeling as though I am not accomplished yet.

Academically I can always improve, financially I can always improve and mentally I can definitely improve but these are things that I have reached what I consider level 1 of success so success I have experienced but now aiming higher. The one thing I feel unaccomplished in is being settled down with a husband and 2.5 kids (😂😂🙈) but I have also come to realise that things will happen in their own time. I should stop hoping that, that time will be before I am a certain age.

July 2016 goals
Yes I am human and will always think of this but I am learning the beauty of letting go and enjoying the present as that’s all I have and that’s all I can control. With that being said, I want to share some of the July 2016 goals I have planned for this month. As usual before that can happen, we have to recap of the goals I made last month and review to see what I managed to accomplish and what I will be moving forward to July 2016 goals.

{2016} JUNE GOALS

  • Car Theory Test – Since I didn’t pass my test last month, I want to re-try but this time prepare fully and then going to take the test. FAIL
  • Blog improvements – This one is an ongoing goal, I want to put in more effort into my blog but I need remember this is my hobby which I work really hard for and should not overtake my take job. FAIL
  • Holiday – Most people know I am participating in the #take12trips travel challenge and though I have not planned anything for August I am hoping to book Dublin for July and hopefully Budapest too. PARTIAL PASS, I just returned from Dublin but not booked Budapest yet.
  • Schedule posts – I have been slacking lately and I need to wake up and change the scenery here. I want to use my free weekend this month and schedule blogs for the month. FAIL.

July 2016 Goals

  • Improve organisation skills – I have been lacking in this department for most of last month and a bit the month before. I somehow can’t seem to get organised enough. I used to have a process, a routine if you like, but somehow that got thrown to the waste side and now I am drowning in commitments. I need a new strategy to work on this both personally and otherwise
  • Plan and schedule – this goes in line with the above. My blogging life is suffering which in turn is starting to affect my work life and that can not continue to happen. I need to go back to utilising one weekend a month to seat, brainstorm and schedule the usual weekly posts and only use daily for urgent posts.
  • Social media detox – I have not done this in a while and I need to unplug at least one day a week. It’s hard since I spend almost 10+ hours online but I need to cut myself off after work or use one Saturday and not be online for anything.
  • Declutter: Home and Closet – I aim to declutter my closet every 6 weeks but I forgot to do it since January so I am in need of a good decluttering session.
  • Grad School – I am headed back to university (part-time) this September and I need to allocate some time this month to prepare the documentation and finances ready for September.
  • Celebrate – as mentioned above, this month is very special I will be celebrating my 29th birthday (7th)and my 3rd blogaversary (8th). I am not doing anything special but it would be nice to celebrate it even if it’s alone in my apartment with a glass of the good stuff.

And these are my July 2016 goals. 2016 so far has been such a crazy year and I hope the rest of the month and year are a lot more calmer.

What are some of your goals?

Do you set weekly, monthly or yearly goals? How you doing so far?

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Comments

  1. Mel says

    July 23, 2016 at 12:07 am

    Happy birthday and blogiversary! I also fail miserably at scheduling anything!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 24, 2016 at 6:26 am

      Thank you Mel and here is to us working on scheduling

  2. Claire says

    July 18, 2016 at 8:21 pm

    I so need a social media detox! Good luck with your goals this month!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 19, 2016 at 4:22 am

      Thanks Claire, I need one too

  3. Harriet from Toby & Roo says

    July 18, 2016 at 11:44 am

    I’m forever trying to schedule more posts – rarely manage it!!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 18, 2016 at 12:01 pm

      Tell me about it

  4. Laura says

    July 18, 2016 at 1:11 am

    Scheduling a social media detox in sounds like a great idea but I’m not sure I could manage it! Something I’ll challenge myself to do I guess. Good luck with your goals 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 18, 2016 at 4:43 am

      Thanks Laura, its something I definitely need to try and achieve even if it’s just one day

  5. Hannah says

    July 17, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    I have been trying to schedule more posts too – feeling productive! x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 17, 2016 at 9:28 pm

      I am working on it now too

  6. Jess says

    July 17, 2016 at 2:49 pm

    Good luck with your goals, it sound like you’re gonna be busy! Getting organised makes such a huge difference, I always find 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 17, 2016 at 2:51 pm

      Thank you Jess, it will be busy indeed

  7. Fashion and Style Police says

    July 17, 2016 at 9:35 am

    Congrats on your Blogiversary. And your birthday. Wishing you the very best.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 17, 2016 at 12:39 pm

      Thank you Stella

  8. Jessica says

    July 17, 2016 at 8:40 am

    I believe you can slowly achieve each. I like how you balance work and leisure with these goals.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 17, 2016 at 12:39 pm

      Thanks Jessica

  9. melissa zia says

    July 16, 2016 at 10:54 pm

    such a great idea to have a monthly goals post, I really need to start doing them myself 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 17, 2016 at 4:27 am

      Thanks Melissa, 90% of the time they help me stay focused

  10. Lynette says

    July 16, 2016 at 6:13 pm

    I don’t really have weekly or even yearly goals, I am just happy to survive with a smile on my face.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 16, 2016 at 6:38 pm

      That’s definitely one way to do it Hun, I prefer to have goals in place

  11. Julie Wright says

    July 16, 2016 at 3:59 pm

    it is definatly worth while setting goals for yourself, otherwise, like, me i just flap in the breeze!
    I hope you the best for all your plans 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 16, 2016 at 5:45 pm

      Thanks Julie, having goals usually help me stay organised but of late it’s been a struggle in it self

  12. kara says

    July 16, 2016 at 10:45 am

    I love goals posts in general I always gain a bit of inspiration from them. fab goals a pleasure to read k x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 16, 2016 at 10:57 am

      Me too Kara
      Thanks

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