As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Goals · May 1, 2018

{Monthly Series} May 2018 Goals

Goal setting trend has been on the rise in the last few years for various reasons. The aim of the May 2018 goals Regardless of whatever sector you work in, there is always a need to set goals. But why do we set goals and what are we trying to achieve by setting goals?

Goal setting is a skill that many have but only a few stick with and even less than implement it. There are many reasons why setting goals is important and in this article we aim to share a few reasons.

May 2018 Goals

Why do we set Goals?

I guess I should start with explaining why I set goals and what I get from it. For as long as I can remember I have always been a goal setter in everything I do. It is more like a habit that I picked us on quite early on and have continued into adulthood. I set goals because it holds me accountable and allows me to have something to work towards. Other reasons why people set goals include:

  • For many setting goals allows them to stay focused on the end goal
  • It provides direction and works like a compass
  • Others helps people feel like they are in control of their lives
  • For some it is out of personal satisfaction to know they have set goals
  • And for many of us, it provides motivation to work towards our goal

Now that we’ve established why people set goals, it is time to review last month’s goals. Setting goals is as important as taking the time to review the previous month’s goals. I am a strong believer in reviewing the past, learning from it and creating a new mode of action. With that being said, here are the April 2018 Goals in review.

Recap of the April 2018 Goals

  • Review the vendor contracts  to understand the requirements and if they are being adhered to. SUCCESS
  • Prepare for the audit adequately, ask questions or prepare in advance. SUCCESS
  • Stick to work schedule 9-6 and no more. SUCCESS
  • Schedule posts – this has been tough but with a busy month ahead, need to restart. FAILED
  • Prepare for next course. In Progress
  • Start scheduling posts a week in advance. FAILED
  • Start new posting schedule. FAILED
  • Resume Saturday and Sunday as rest days. SUCCESS

I must admit, April was rather a business month and I barely had time to review my goals. Often I make it a point to check up on my goals to monitor my progress but still not too badly done. Now it’s time to set the May 2018 Goals.

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May 2018 Goals

Whenever I set goals, I like to take into account all the planned happenings in the new month. During the month of May I have a couple of  trips planned which should be interesting. I am looking forward to returning to Korea and seeing my besties plus relaxing. With relaxing on my mind, here are the May 2018 Goals;

  • Schedule posts in advance for the week and start a new posting schedule
  • Submit pre-course assignment before the deadline
  • Resume Local adventures and visit National Trust properties
  • Budget for the trip to Seoul
  • Book a surprise trip for my parent’s 30-anniversary coming up
  • Make time for OH and arrange a romantic getaway

I have a lot of other goals I wish to accomplish this month but won’t be writing them all done on here. As someone whose to-do list orientated, my note books is already full of things I wish to accomplish. At the end of the day, setting goals is good for one’s personal development.

Do you ever set goals?

May 2018 Goals

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Comments

  1. Trina says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

    I love that you do this type of post, it really lays things out and holds you accountable in a way by putting the goals out into the world. I may have to start doing something like this because writing lists in a random notebook isn’t doing it for me anymore.

    Reply
  2. Laura says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

    Goal setting (and sticking to them) are so important in life! It keeps us accountable and helpful in our success. Love it!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      It sure does, I love it too as it’s something useful in my life

  3. Tomi C says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

    Writing my goals down and putting them in a place where I can reference them several times throughout the day helps keeps me focused on them. Good luck with reaching your goals for the month. Keep us posted.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      Thank you, it is the same for me. I refer to them often so I can stay on track

  4. Heather says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

    Great job! Recognizing your goals and holding yourself accountable is a great step to accomplishing them. Even when you “fail”, you have a bigger picture and clear view of the things you might need to spend more time on. I’m a goal setter too and when I write it down I stick to it so much more.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      Thank you so much Heather, accountability is important as accomplishing the goals. As you said failing is also an important to view the bigger picture and continue working hard towards it

  5. Alison Rost says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

    It’s so nice to have goals for the month because it keeps you on the right track towards your dreams!
    I think it’s awesome that you were able to reach most of your goals! I hope you reach this month’s as well!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      Thank you Alison, I like to work hard for my dreams to come to flourishing

  6. Jeanine says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

    you know I get so proud when I sit down, set goals for myself and then I just never follow through… ever. I need to work on this. So wonderful that you’ve accomplished yours. Very Inspiring!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      I am glad to have inspired you Jeanine, it is touch keeping track but sometimes its as easy as downloading an app that reminds you daily

  7. chubskulit rose says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

    It is very important to recognize the failure as much as the success. It gets you straighten out and figure out how to be better at it.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      That is so true, I believe in reviewing the goals I did not accomplish and making a new plan of action to achieve them

  8. Jeanette says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    Sounds like you have some pretty good goals here! Hopefully your parents to read this and know that you’re going to give them a surprise trip LOL.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      LOL, I am hoping they do not so I can definitely keep it as a surprise for them

  9. Ricci says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    I love making goals and listing them! That really makes me want to accomplish them even more! Good luck this month!!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      Thanks Ricci and to you too, I am the same. Listing them is half the job

  10. Terri Steffes says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    It was fun to see what goals you made and ones that are “not yet.” I am impressed! Keep up, tell us for accountability and share your secrets! 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      Hahaha my secrets lol, I just know what I want o work on and work on it until I achieve or even change strategy

  11. robin rue says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    It looks like you got some of your goals accomplished and that is great news. Hope you get to the rest of the things you wanted to do soon 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

      Thanks Robin, I want to work on my new goals and any that I did not manage last month

  12. Melissa Chapman says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    You are so well organized to set goals and review your results. Your trip should be amazing and congratulations on the anniversary.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      Thanks Melissa, I try to be organised otherwise things fall through the cracks

  13. Ashley says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    Way to keep yourself accountable. I need to do something like this for my May goals.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      I being in being accountable and love having somewhere I can check on my goals regularly

  14. Candy says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    It does bring satisfaction when setting goals. Glad to see more people are learning all about goal setting

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

      It sure does, I find it such a therapeutic way to live life

  15. Laura says

    May 4, 2018 at 3:36 am

    Goal setting (and sticking to them) are so important in life! It keeps us accountable and helpful in our success. Love it!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 4, 2018 at 1:17 pm

      It sure does, I love it too as it’s something useful in my life

  16. Trina says

    May 3, 2018 at 8:03 pm

    I love that you do this type of post, it really lays things out and holds you accountable in a way by putting the goals out into the world. I may have to start doing something like this because writing lists in a random notebook isn’t doing it for me anymore.

    Reply
  17. Heather says

    May 2, 2018 at 5:43 pm

    Great job! Recognizing your goals and holding yourself accountable is a great step to accomplishing them. Even when you “fail”, you have a bigger picture and clear view of the things you might need to spend more time on. I’m a goal setter too and when I write it down I stick to it so much more.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:36 am

      Thank you so much Heather, accountability is important as accomplishing the goals. As you said failing is also an important to view the bigger picture and continue working hard towards it

  18. Jeanine says

    May 2, 2018 at 4:05 pm

    you know I get so proud when I sit down, set goals for myself and then I just never follow through… ever. I need to work on this. So wonderful that you’ve accomplished yours. Very Inspiring!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:34 am

      I am glad to have inspired you Jeanine, it is touch keeping track but sometimes its as easy as downloading an app that reminds you daily

  19. chubskulit rose says

    May 2, 2018 at 12:19 pm

    It is very important to recognize the failure as much as the success. It gets you straighten out and figure out how to be better at it.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:30 am

      That is so true, I believe in reviewing the goals I did not accomplish and making a new plan of action to achieve them

  20. Ricci says

    May 2, 2018 at 6:19 am

    I love making goals and listing them! That really makes me want to accomplish them even more! Good luck this month!!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:26 am

      Thanks Ricci and to you too, I am the same. Listing them is half the job

  21. Alison Rost says

    May 2, 2018 at 2:54 am

    It’s so nice to have goals for the month because it keeps you on the right track towards your dreams!
    I think it’s awesome that you were able to reach most of your goals! I hope you reach this month’s as well!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:25 am

      Thank you Alison, I like to work hard for my dreams to come to flourishing

  22. Terri Steffes says

    May 2, 2018 at 1:13 am

    It was fun to see what goals you made and ones that are “not yet.” I am impressed! Keep up, tell us for accountability and share your secrets! 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:24 am

      Hahaha my secrets lol, I just know what I want o work on and work on it until I achieve or even change strategy

  23. Tomi C says

    May 2, 2018 at 12:19 am

    Writing my goals down and putting them in a place where I can reference them several times throughout the day helps keeps me focused on them. Good luck with reaching your goals for the month. Keep us posted.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:23 am

      Thank you, it is the same for me. I refer to them often so I can stay on track

  24. Ashley says

    May 1, 2018 at 11:30 pm

    Way to keep yourself accountable. I need to do something like this for my May goals.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 3, 2018 at 5:22 am

      I being in being accountable and love having somewhere I can check on my goals regularly

  25. valmg @ Mom Knows It All says

    May 1, 2018 at 8:24 pm

    Congratulations on reaching a number of your goals. Goals can be super helpful to set because without them you have nothing to measure growth.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:45 pm

      Thank you, that is one of the reasons I set my goals

  26. Melissa Chapman says

    May 1, 2018 at 7:01 pm

    You are so well organized to set goals and review your results. Your trip should be amazing and congratulations on the anniversary.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:45 pm

      Thanks Melissa, I try to be organised otherwise things fall through the cracks

  27. Alli Smith says

    May 1, 2018 at 5:12 pm

    Yay for all your successful goals! I never hit every single goal, but knowing I’m at least trying works for me. It’s so sweet that you are planning a trip for your parent’s anniversary.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:46 pm

      Thanks All, I want them to enjoy there day and just relax. I rarely hit all my goals and reviewing them allows me to focus and try those I wasn’t able to do again and maybe with a different approach

  28. valmg @ Mom Knows It All says

    October 8, 2018 at 4:47 pm

    Congratulations on reaching a number of your goals. Goals can be super helpful to set because without them you have nothing to measure growth.

    Reply
  29. Sarah Bailey says

    May 1, 2018 at 3:56 pm

    It sounds like you have some awesome May goals to be achieving. I am glad you have managed to get Saturday and Sunday as rest days I really need to think about doing that myself.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:47 pm

      Thanks Sarah, they are the only days which I feel like belong to me

  30. Tasheena says

    May 1, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Congratulations on the goals that you completed in April. Wishing you a success and productive month with accomplishing your May goals.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:47 pm

      Thanks Tasheena, much appreciated

  31. Jeanette says

    May 1, 2018 at 2:53 pm

    Sounds like you have some pretty good goals here! Hopefully your parents to read this and know that you’re going to give them a surprise trip LOL.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:48 pm

      LOL, I am hoping they do not so I can definitely keep it as a surprise for them

  32. Amber Myers says

    May 1, 2018 at 1:23 pm

    Woohoo, it looks like you hit most of your goals, which is always a plus. I tend to have Saturday and Sundays as rest days as well.

    And yes, do set goals! Sometimes I reach them, other times it takes me longer, but that’s okay.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:49 pm

      Thanks Amber, I have the same attitude. Sometimes I hit all my goals and other times I don’t and that’s fine too.

  33. Alli Smith says

    October 8, 2018 at 4:47 pm

    Yay for all your successful goals! I never hit every single goal, but knowing I’m at least trying works for me. It’s so sweet that you are planning a trip for your parent’s anniversary.

    Reply
  34. Candy says

    May 1, 2018 at 1:03 pm

    It does bring satisfaction when setting goals. Glad to see more people are learning all about goal setting

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:50 pm

      It sure does, I find it such a therapeutic way to live life

  35. robin rue says

    May 1, 2018 at 12:59 pm

    It looks like you got some of your goals accomplished and that is great news. Hope you get to the rest of the things you wanted to do soon 🙂

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 1, 2018 at 9:51 pm

      Thanks Robin, I want to work on my new goals and any that I did not manage last month

  36. Sarah Bailey says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    It sounds like you have some awesome May goals to be achieving. I am glad you have managed to get Saturday and Sunday as rest days I really need to think about doing that myself.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      Thanks Sarah, they are the only days which I feel like belong to me

  37. Amber Myers says

    October 8, 2018 at 4:47 pm

    Woohoo, it looks like you hit most of your goals, which is always a plus. I tend to have Saturday and Sundays as rest days as well.

    And yes, do set goals! Sometimes I reach them, other times it takes me longer, but that’s okay.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      October 8, 2018 at 4:47 pm

      Thanks Amber, I have the same attitude. Sometimes I hit all my goals and other times I don’t and that’s fine too.

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