As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
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Goals · October 1, 2018

{Monthly Series} October 2018 Goals

October 2018 goals are part of the monthly goal-setting series where I share my plans for the month. At the start of each month, I take some time to think of things I want to accomplish. As a go orientated person, I love planning out the month to have direction and purpose.

October 2018 goals are part of the monthly goal-setting series where I share my plans for the month. At the start of each month, I take some time to think of things I want to accomplish.

Anyone can set goals, but how many take the time to set smart goals and accomplish them. It is not all about ticking off the box, it is about giving oneself some structure. Before I share the October 2018 goals, it is important to review last month’s goals.

Recap of the September 2018 Goals

I am a stronger belief in that, you can only move forward by learning from the past. By reviewing the past, you can learn and not the make the same mistakes in your future. This is why I make a point of reviewing my past goals to prepare for the new month’s goals.

  • Schedule in personal time. SUCCESS – spent 2 weeks in Seoul taking care of me
  • Start saving again for a mortgage. PARTIAL – using a new app to save money little by little
  • Find ways to overcome the blogging slump. SUCCESS – shared over 30 posts 
  • Creating a new blogging schedule. FAILED – no schedule to follow, posting whenever
  • Schedule more content throughout the month.  PARTIAL – wrote posts on the day
October 2018 goals are part of the monthly goal-setting series where I share my plans for the month. At the start of each month, I take some time to think of things I want to accomplish.

Looking through the past month’s goals, I realised I did better than last month. There are some goals that I will need to re-look at and take a different approach. That is what goal setting is about, learning from the past. Seeing that last month’s strategy did not work, for the October 2018 Goals, I will take a different approach.

October 2018 Goals

Every new month is an opportunity to try again, look at what worked and what didn’t. Throughout September, I found myself is motivation to do lots of blogging commitments. I am not sure why but I am glad to have my blogging mojo back and hope its here to stay.

  • Monthly personal time and Self-care
  • Continue to save little by little for the mortgage
  • Share more local adventures
  • Reach out to more brands for possible collaborations
October 2018 Goals

One thing I truly enjoyed in September was to take time to take care of me. Personal time and self-care are so important, I feel more rejuvenated and happier. I don’t want to overwhelm myself, therefore, I am only setting a few tasks as part of my October 2018 goals.

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Comments

  1. Laura Dove says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Well done you! Sounds like you are right on track!

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  2. fashionandstylepolice says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Well done on smashing your September goals. I hope you do even better this month.

    Reply
  3. Louise says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    I think I need to take a leaf out of your book and take some time for myself. I stress out about my blog way too much, and I think it shows. I need to relax and look after myself more and then I think I’ll start writing better posts etc. Good luck with your October goals 🙂

    Louise x

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  4. Bella at Dear Mummy says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    30 posts is amazing! We need to stick to a schedule- that’s why we’re trying #Vlogtober x good luck with your October goals x

    Reply
  5. Jon says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Looks like you did great with your goals! I always find September such a hard month to reach my targets as you feel you are constantly chasing your tail once the Summer is over!

    Reply
  6. Kara says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    I am terrible for scheduling content, I need to be more organised

    Reply
  7. Cat (Yellow Days) says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Well done! I’m sure you’ll smash your October goals.

    Reply
  8. Schilly Construction Inc says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Great goals. One of mine is to get 300 followers on instagram account that I just started. It’s always inspiring to see what other people’s goals are. Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
  9. Melanie williams says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Sounds like you are all set for October! Good luck with saving up for the mortgage hun x

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  10. Rim says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Well done with your September goals! It is great that you managed to take some time for yourself as I’m sure it will help with your mojo.
    I just decided to start setting monthly goals as well. I often get distracted or carried away (Oh why not start this awesome unrelated training!). I’m wishing that my October goals will help me stay a bit more on the path!

    Reply
  11. Kara says

    October 4, 2018 at 6:13 pm

    I am terrible for scheduling content, I need to be more organised

    Reply
  12. Louise says

    October 4, 2018 at 11:33 am

    I think I need to take a leaf out of your book and take some time for myself. I stress out about my blog way too much, and I think it shows. I need to relax and look after myself more and then I think I’ll start writing better posts etc. Good luck with your October goals 🙂

    Louise x

    Reply
  13. Schilly Construction Inc says

    October 3, 2018 at 8:04 pm

    Great goals. One of mine is to get 300 followers on instagram account that I just started. It’s always inspiring to see what other people’s goals are. Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
  14. Melanie williams says

    October 3, 2018 at 11:16 am

    Sounds like you are all set for October! Good luck with saving up for the mortgage hun x

    Reply
  15. Bella at Dear Mummy says

    October 3, 2018 at 7:57 am

    30 posts is amazing! We need to stick to a schedule- that’s why we’re trying #Vlogtober x good luck with your October goals x

    Reply
  16. Laura Dove says

    October 2, 2018 at 7:41 pm

    Well done you! Sounds like you are right on track!

    Reply
  17. fashionandstylepolice says

    October 2, 2018 at 1:15 pm

    Well done on smashing your September goals. I hope you do even better this month.

    Reply
  18. Rim says

    October 2, 2018 at 11:34 am

    Well done with your September goals! It is great that you managed to take some time for yourself as I’m sure it will help with your mojo.
    I just decided to start setting monthly goals as well. I often get distracted or carried away (Oh why not start this awesome unrelated training!). I’m wishing that my October goals will help me stay a bit more on the path!

    Reply
  19. Cat (Yellow Days) says

    October 2, 2018 at 11:14 am

    Well done! I’m sure you’ll smash your October goals.

    Reply
  20. Jon says

    October 1, 2018 at 11:03 am

    Looks like you did great with your goals! I always find September such a hard month to reach my targets as you feel you are constantly chasing your tail once the Summer is over!

    Reply

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