As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
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Goals · August 7, 2019

8 Ways To Stay Accountable with Your Goals

As a goal orientated person, at the beginning of each month I spend time writing down goals that I wish to accomplish within a defined period. Then at the end of each month, I dedicate as much time reviewing the goals to ensure I am still on track. Like most people, I am a big dreamer {it is in the name} but struggle with being able to stay accountable with your goals. But we all know that dreaming alone is not enough to achieve our goals, It is important to stay accountable with your goals. 

Goal accountability means taking responsibility but this is only as good as the goals that have been set. When setting goals, it is important to have clear, conscious and defined goals, this makes it easier to stay accountable. Often people ask me why I share my personal goals, the simple answer is, this is my way of staying accountable. It’s not always easy but there are simple ways to follow in order to stay accountable with your goals. Below I have compiled 8 simple ways to stay accountable with your goals and shared some examples.

8 WAYS TO STAY ACCOUNTABLE WITH YOUR GOALS

Why do people set goals? Why should you set goals in your life? These are some common questions that people often ask others and themselves. Personally, I set goals because it helps me plan my future and reminds me to stay focused on the bigger picture. This is why I think it is important to stay accountable with your goals as accountability helps me stay on track to achieving my goals. Others set goals because they have specific dreams they want realised and setting goals allows them to follow a certain plan.

Our current generation is lucky in that we live in a technologically advanced era where we can access information at the tip of our hands. There are many articles, magazines and even books dedicated to helping people stay accountable with their goals. The few tips I am sharing in this post are some of the ways that you can stay accountable with your goals. Over the last couple of years, this is how I stay take responsibility for the goals that I set.

stay accountable with your goals

Be Honest and Be Realistic

I am a dreamer by nature but I am also a to-do list focused person, these two often collide when it comes to goal setting. Over the last few years I have learned that if I am honest and realistic about my goals, I am one step closer to accomplishing them. When setting goals, do not just shoot in the dark and hope for the best because this rarely ever work. Remember, whatever goals you set, you will have to put in the work to ensure they are accomplished in the chosen timeframe. 

Example: At the beginning of the year I set goals to the effect of ‘…earn £500 a month from the blog’, this was based of precious six months earnings and rounded off. This was me being honest but sometimes reality can be a little different but I still strive for that goal.

Set Specific Goals

This ties in well with being honest and realistic about the goals that you set, you want to be specific. There is nothing worse than a vague goal, vague goals are not measurable therefore it is hard to stay accountable to a fluctuating goal. An example of a specific goal I set was to the effect of ‘… save 50% of the monthly blog earnings’, this goal is very specific, it doesn’t matter what I earn, 50% should be saved.

Track Goals Regularly

I am a strong believer in tracking goals regularly not only does it keep you aware of your progress but it also allows you to celebrate small win. For most tracking goals can act as motivator to ensure that they accomplish their goals or a chance to re-strategise. Every month I share monthly goals, this allows me an opportunity to review previous goals and plan accordingly. 

Set Up A Reward System

Like most people I often work harder when there is a reward to be hard at the end of it all. When I set goals I also set equally worthy rewards, if I accomplish a goal in a period that I defined then I reward myself a flight. Because I love to travel, I reward system is fair but it also means I am more focused on my goals to ensure I can get the reward. 

Commit to a Schedule

Whenever I set goals, I ensure to stick the the schedule, that way it is easier to track the progress and how much work I need to put in. Whilst not all goals need a schedule, most goals do, it makes it easier to plan things that support the accomplishment of the said goal.

Have the right mindset

Anyone can write goals, but not everything accomplishes their goals because not everyone has the right mindset. Everyone lives such busy lives that at times it’s difficult to plan time to accomplish your goals but the with the right mindset it can still be done. We all have different priorities in life and our goals should be reflective on that hence why it is important to have the correct mindset when setting goals.

Write Goals Down

This might seem intuitive but unfortunately, it is not, at least not for everyone. There are some many people who have a million and 1 ideas buzzing in their heads but more often than not, they don’t write them down. These days you don’t have to rely on the paper alone, there are other ways to write goals down.

Manage your time well

It is still shocking to me to see people in workplaces who still struggle with time management, an important life skill. When you have a goal or deadlines, time management skills play an important role in how well you deliver on your deadlines. Every month end I make time to review my goals, track progress and allocate necessary time to accomplishing other goals.

There are several ways to stay accountable with your goals, it all depends on your priorities and your appetite to accomplish your goals. 

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Comments

  1. Stephanie says

    August 18, 2019 at 12:33 pm

    I find writing down my goals is a great way to make me focus on what I really want to achieve x

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  2. Mellissa Williams says

    August 15, 2019 at 7:13 pm

    I think SMART goals are the best. They must always be specific, measurable and achievable and realistic. You have some good points here!

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  3. rockabillyspoonie says

    August 15, 2019 at 3:45 pm

    I really struggle with goal setting and sticking to them so will try your suggestions out as it is something I do want to work on.

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  4. Kara (@ChelseaMamma) says

    August 15, 2019 at 8:36 am

    Breaking them down is the best tip as they feel so much more manageable when you have small tasks

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  5. Elizabeth Williams says

    August 14, 2019 at 11:19 pm

    I am a dreamer but have never really set myself goals but can see the benefits of doing so. Fantastic tips and think setting specific goals and writing them down rather than being vague would really help me.

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  6. Valerie Gray (@valmg) says

    August 14, 2019 at 4:54 pm

    You make great suggestions here. If you don’t write down a specific goal and actually pay attention to how much progress you have made you won’t know if you’re actually progressing.

    Reply
  7. Rebecca Smith says

    August 14, 2019 at 3:33 pm

    This is a really handy post. I often set goals but I could definitely do with staying more accountable.

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  8. Lianne says

    August 14, 2019 at 2:00 pm

    This is great, I’m a big goal setter and I do very similar to you!
    Some great tips, thanks for sharing

    Reply
  9. kacielmorgan says

    August 14, 2019 at 11:39 am

    This is something I have been thinking about a lot lately. I think I need to re-assess my goals and set myself some new targets.

    Reply

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