As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
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Writing a will: what you need to know

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 Between planning your next holiday and restocking your wardrobe, you might not have much time to think about the serious topic of financial planning. But if you want to protect your money, there are certain steps you’ll need to take. For example, although it might not be the cheeriest topic, it’s a good idea to make a will. This will ensure that if the worst happens and you’re not around anymore, your money and possessions will be allocated as you would like. Creating a will may be much easier than you think. To give you a head start, here’s a brief guide to drawing up one of these legal documents.

You can go it alone or seek expert help

If you feel confident enough, you can draw your will up yourself. However, you should only do this if your will is straightforward and you’re sure you won’t make mistakes. Also, if you do create this document yourself, it’s a good idea to get a solicitor to check it over afterwards. After all, it’s easy to make mistakes during this process. For example, you might not take account of all the relevant money or property and you may not be aware of the formal requirements you need to meet. The good news is, it’s easy to access expert help. Specialists like the Law House solicitors have dedicated teams of lawyers that can take the hassle out of drawing up one of these documents.

It’s especially important to seek guidance from legal experts if you share a property with someone you’re not married to or in a civil partnership with, you want to make provisions for dependents, a business is involved or there are a number of family members who might make a claim.

There are certain essentials you must include

 What you include in your will is up to you, but there are certain essentials you won’t want to forget. These include details of all your money, property and possessions, including insurance policies and shares, and the beneficiaries you want to leave these things to.

Bear in mind that in order to be considered valid, your will must be created without pressure from any other party, it must be made in writing and it has to be signed by you in the presence of two witnesses. These witnesses must sign the document too, and they or their spouses cannot be among the people who will benefit from your will. It’s also advisable to make sure the document contains the dates on which it was signed.

You will have to identify executors

As well as specifying the property, money and possessions you want to leave behind, your will has to identify executors. These are the people who will have the task of sorting out your estate in accordance with your wishes. It’s recommended that you select more than one executor and you can choose from family members or friends, banks, accountants or solicitors.

Writing a will might not be your idea of fun, but it’s an important part of responsible financial planning. Once you’ve completed the document, you can keep it at home, in a bank or with your solicitor or accountant. You’ll only need to think about it again if your circumstances change in a way that might affect your will.

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  1. Ana says

    March 7, 2016 at 9:13 pm

    Very informative post! Thanks a ton for sharing all the valuable information with us!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 7, 2016 at 9:29 pm

      Sure thing

  2. Elizabeth O says

    March 7, 2016 at 5:51 pm

    As much as some might find this to be a morbid topic, it is important that we address it at some point in our lives. Without a will, an estate can end up being decided by the government or outsiders who might not follow the desires of the deceased.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 7, 2016 at 9:01 pm

      Exactly, that’s why it’s so important to do it early on

  3. Amanda says

    March 7, 2016 at 2:23 pm

    Great tips! I’ll have to show this to my family and save it for future reference.

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    • Miranda says

      March 7, 2016 at 4:03 pm

      Thanks

  4. Kiwi says

    March 7, 2016 at 5:32 am

    Wow writing a will is not a convo we ever what to have but it is needed. Thanks for the info it is a convo that is necessary to help in inevitable circumstances.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 7, 2016 at 7:10 am

      Absolutely especially since us youngers think we too young for the discussion

  5. Julie Syl Kalungi says

    March 4, 2016 at 11:31 pm

    This post took me right back to my legal practitioner days. And you covered all the basics. People need to know that its possible to actually gift your life possessions to others while you live and if God blesses you with 7+ years after the gift, its free of All the hassle of going through courts of law at your passing at least in common law. So why wait til you pass on, gift otehrs now while you live and leave the rest to charity. The best life lived. 🙂

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    • Miranda says

      March 5, 2016 at 12:04 am

      I couldn’t have said it better myself, thanks Julie

  6. Angela says

    March 4, 2016 at 3:04 pm

    Yes, this is a sensitive subject and I must admit it hit close to home. I lost my sister January 12, 2015. I really wish we had created some type of document or will because there was family issues after her passing.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 4, 2016 at 3:24 pm

      Awww bless so sorry for your loss, it’s hard enough losing a family member but having to worry about heir estate and stuff is another

  7. [email protected] says

    March 4, 2016 at 2:54 pm

    Great post and information! My parents juuuuust had their will drawn up last month and it has brought them so much peace just knowing all of that is taken care of. I need to do mine next. It’s never a fun thing to think about, but there’s no denying it’s going to happen one day, so we might as well make it as easy as possible for the ones we leave behind.

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    • Miranda says

      March 4, 2016 at 3:22 pm

      Absolutely I hate the idea of thinking about it but like you said it’s better to do it now to make it easier for the ones we live behind

  8. Five Marigolds says

    March 4, 2016 at 2:52 pm

    One of the first things we did when we had kids was draw up a will. There are so many horror stories of what can happen when one doesn’t draw up a clear, professionally executed will.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      March 4, 2016 at 2:53 pm

      That’s a sensible thing to do especially where children are involved

  9. Tiffany says

    March 4, 2016 at 7:43 am

    One thing that is a really good idea when writing a will is to MAKE SURE you say where you want your homestead to go. I was unable to keep my dads home when he passed because he was in so much debt that it had to be sold to pay the creditors. if he would have willed it to me it would have been considered a homestead and they wouldn’t have been able to touch it.

    Another thing I suggest is making sure you have an intelligent and trustworthy lawyer…. the lawyer my dad had was not good at all… quite frankly he was an idiot. My father passed away 3 years ago and his estate is still not done because of how complicated every thing was. I understand that this is an extreme case but just something to be aware of.

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    • Miranda says

      March 4, 2016 at 8:03 am

      I agree having a trustworthy lawyer goes a long way in such hard times and I didn’t home about homestead definitely something to think about. Thanks for the tip

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