As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
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Goals · April 1, 2018

{Monthly Series} April 2018 Goals

Why do we set goals? What’s the purpose of me putting together the April 2018 Goals? Does setting goals even work or is it just for show, as I am too busy to work on goals as well as deal with life. These are statements and questions I have heard only too often, it’s like people associate goals with resolutions. Those who know me know I am anti-resolutions but always set my monthly goals. I am also that person that can’t do weekly goals because well no week is the same as before. For me setting monthly goals have truly been something that has worked and I continue to set them to add focus to my life.

April 2018 Goals

Speaking of focus, the March 2018 Goals were focused goals broken in various sections of my life. I like that I was able to set goals that not only gave me direction but supported my purpose. Setting goals is not about restricting yourself but it’s about having something to support your chosen path. I set goals to allocate some sort of control for my life, it gives me direction when I am struggling with my purpose. April 2018 Goals are one’s I am excited to set but petrified too due to how busy the month will be. I can’t control every aspect of my life but I can certainly put measures in place to help me navigate accordingly. But before then, let’s review how I did with the March 2018 Goals.

March 2018 Goals

Setting Goals is a personal activity which only you can achieve by assessing your own life and what direction you want it go. Last month’s goals focused on my health both physical and mental, I made simple but effective life choices. Let’s see just how I did last month;

Work Goals

  • Stick to a work schedule – no working after 6pm unless attending a meeting. ✅
  • No waking up at midnight to answer an email I forgot, leave it for the morning. ✅
  • Learn to say no, your health is more important ✅
  • Ask for help when you need it. ✅

Post Grad Goals

  • Review previous course notes ✅
  • Write and submit assignment ✅
  • Prepare for next course STARTED.

Personal Goals

  • Make time for ‘me-time’ ✅
  • Social media detox for an hour daily ✅
  • Plan slow holidays for both Luxembourg and Athens ✅

Blogging Goals

  • Start scheduling posts a week in advance FAILED
  • Update ‘work with me‘ page and fees, STARTED
  • Commit to reviewing products received, STARTED
  • Start new posting schedule, FAILED
  • Resume Saturday and Sunday as rest days, FAILED.

March 2018 was such a mix bag of emotions but I am happy with what I managed to achieve so far. As per my motto, if at once you don’t succeed, move it to the next month and try again. I will be moving all goals that I didn’t accomplish into my April 2018 Goals list. Failing to achieve some goals is not the end of the world but an opportunity to try a different approach.

April 2018 Goals

April 2018 Goals

As mentioned in the 2018 Travel Bucketlist Review, April is looking to be a busy month of travels. I am very much excited but also know there is so much to be done to achieve anything. With that I need to set goals that will help or support me along the way. Goals that are more focused and smart, are aligned with my purpose and vision. Here are some of the April 2018 Goals that I want to accomplish in the next 30 days;

  • Review the vendor contracts  to understand the requirements and if they are being adhered to.
  • Prepare for the audit adequately, ask questions or prepare in advance
  • Stick to work schedule 9-6 and no more
  • Schedule posts – this has been tough but with a busy month ahead, need to restart.
  • Prepare for next course.
  • Start scheduling posts a week in advance
  • Start new posting schedule
  • Resume Saturday and Sunday as rest days

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Comments

  1. Hungry_Healthy_Happy says

    April 11, 2018 at 7:59 pm

    Learning to ask for help is so hard isn’t it. I don’t know why we struggle so much as adults.

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  2. Melanie Williams says

    April 11, 2018 at 2:01 pm

    Loving your goals, I need to to do this. Me time – I need more of and no working after 6pm would be great x

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  3. fritha strickland says

    April 11, 2018 at 1:20 pm

    I set myself similar work goals and now give my self the evening off once the kids are in bed (7ish) it has made the world of difference! x

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  4. Jenni Grainger says

    April 11, 2018 at 12:42 pm

    I always think to myself I will schedule posts for the next week and never do x

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  5. Charli B says

    April 11, 2018 at 8:51 am

    I have just decided to start goal setting as I feel like if I write them down then I will be able to achieve them better x

    Reply
  6. Jinzo_2400 says

    April 11, 2018 at 12:43 am

    I’m just now starting to focus on my goal setting,I have been out of practice for far too long that I have forgotten how to do it.

    Reply
  7. Young, Sick and Invisible says

    April 10, 2018 at 9:16 pm

    ‘Me time’ really is so important, it’s the only time you get to relax, take everything in and just breather, I hope that you pursue all these goals 🙏🏼

    Reply
  8. Melanie Edjourian says

    April 10, 2018 at 8:53 pm

    You managed to achieve quite a few goals last month. Ha if you’re blogging the weekend never becomes a rest day lol x

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  9. Laura Dove says

    April 10, 2018 at 8:36 pm

    You know I never set goals, although I really should. I am far too laid back for my own good and just assume I can wing my way through life! I need to buckle up!

    Reply
  10. Joanna says

    April 10, 2018 at 4:23 pm

    I have a full time job besides my blog and I also find it difficult to manage sometimes. Sometimes I am too tired after I finished the daily work and my blog has to suffer. I need to sort out a plan for it as well.

    Reply
  11. Rhian Westbury says

    April 10, 2018 at 1:46 pm

    When you do so many things it can be quite hard to balance things. I started a new job a few weeks ago so I know how you feel and I’m still trying to find the right balance of things x

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  12. lisa prince says

    April 10, 2018 at 9:51 am

    im really struggling t stick to the health side of things i promised myself i would eat better but having so much bad news lately means im comfort eating

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      April 10, 2018 at 10:46 am

      Aww bless you poor thing, bad news has a way of making more of us comfort eat, I hope things improve for you.

  13. Sarah Bailey says

    April 9, 2018 at 11:32 pm

    It looks like you have done really well with your goals, you got a lot of them done, many more started and you can’t do it all at once.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      April 10, 2018 at 10:51 am

      Thanks Sarah, I am always happier when I achieve my goals but also motivated when I do not.

  14. Ali says

    April 9, 2018 at 8:50 pm

    I think you did really well with your goals! Monthly goals are a great idea, I have sort of the same, but I think I need to be more specific with them – you have inspired me!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      April 10, 2018 at 10:51 am

      Aww thanks Ali, I am glad to hear I have inspired you. Good luck with your goals

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