As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Take 12 Trips, Travel Guides · October 18, 2016

{Travel} #Take12Trips Travel Challenge ~ month eleven

Month eleven of the #take12trips travel challenge was an awesome month. I had gone to Johannesburg, of course I shared a few pictures on my Instagram . It is a trip that I won’t be forgetting anytime soon but one that I want to repeat.

Whenever I travel somewhere new, I try to do 50/50 of the expected and unexpected. By this I mean, you do the touristy stuff and also go off the bitten path. Because I have family in Johannesburg, it made this travel even more amazing. I knew the experience would be nothing like I have had before and it was that and more. I mentioned in an Instagram post that an assumption is made that you visit to South Africa is always going to involve safaris. Granted South Africa is known for its wonderful safari parks, I still get slightly annoyed at the assumption.

I had decided before I embarked on the holiday that I would be avoiding the stereotypical expectations. Instead I would focus on just relaxing and appreciating my family whom I had not seen for 10+ years. For some this would be considered a wasted opportunity but for me it was the perfect getaway.

Ever since I took to this travel challenge, I can count on one hand how many of the destinations were purely relaxing. In all the places I have visited, I spent a lot of time exploring the land. Don’t get me wrong, there is no regret here but reflection on how to do it better the next time. I realised it is just as important to explore a new place as is to get comfortable and relax in it.

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#Take12Trips ~ Month Eleven

How many of us have gone on a holiday only to come back and want a holiday from a holiday? We obviously go to get away from the daily routines but somehow end up more exhausted than before we left. I saw enough of Johannesburg that I was happy with and had enough time catching up with the family.

Did I get holiday blues after? Of course who doesn’t but mine were different in that I was not longing to be there again but glad I had the opportunity to be there. I am sure I will be going back sometime next year and I look forward to it but still happy to be home.

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challenges and Changes

Month eleven has really taught me a lot about myself and my capabilities. Not only about travel which has been a huge player but about myself and what I am capable of. Month eleven (aka September) saw me make so many changes, the biggest being stepping back from blogging. It was not easy to step away from this baby but for the greater good it had to be done. In case you’re not aware, I went back to university last month to do a masters in pharmacovigilance. I work full-time (40+ hours) 9-5, I only have weekends which for the next 3 months are booked. No I am not traveling again (except for one getaway next month and holiday in December).


All my weekends I am doing driving lessons in readiness for my test in  a few weeks time, I am traveling for work and got university assignments. Drowning is what I am right now but being a wanderlust soul I still want to go somewhere.

The #take12trips travel challenge has really opened my eyes to my love of traveling and finding new places. I am thankful for the amazing opportunities that have come my way since I started blogging. I have learned so much and this year’s travel record is proof.

Have you travelled anywhere this year?

Do you find on longer trips you come back more tired than when you went?

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Comments

  1. Chrissy Hme says

    October 27, 2016 at 12:36 am

    It’s great that you got to reconnect with family. That’s better than seeing any tourist attraction I can think of.

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  2. Anosa says

    October 25, 2016 at 7:03 pm

    I am so glad to hear that. It’s been like that for me too

    Reply
  3. Elizabeth says

    October 25, 2016 at 7:02 am

    What a fantastic year you’ve had! I’ve travelled too this year – bikepacking through the highlands of Scotland and down the Great Glen Way and climbing Ben Nevis, a press trip to Brussels and then a week’s solo camping in Bergen, Norway. I’ve had a fab year too. 🙂

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    • Anosa says

      October 25, 2016 at 12:50 pm

      Oh wow, you truly have had a best way of travel

  4. Anamika Ojha says

    October 25, 2016 at 6:17 am

    This year I did solo traveling to many places and just loved all the experiences. But I hated the travel blues after coming from my few trips!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 25, 2016 at 6:45 am

      I totally know the feeling, its the worst because now you need another holiday to get over the holiday blues

  5. Anosa says

    October 24, 2016 at 11:49 pm

    Hope you manage to

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  6. Leslie Hernandez says

    October 24, 2016 at 8:45 pm

    Sounds like this was a great challenge!! I love planing my trips but always leave room for some spontaneous fun ;-).

    Great Post!! xoxo

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:49 pm

      Thanks, I love my trips because 90% are spontaneous

  7. Mai C. says

    October 24, 2016 at 5:59 pm

    I love that you decided to just slow down and enjoy time with your family! That’s the best kind of vacation. I can’t believe it’s month 11 of your challenge!

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:53 pm

      I can’t believe it either but I am so happy 😁. I am gonna start again if I can

  8. Karlyn Flores says

    October 24, 2016 at 11:35 am

    What a good challenge and a great trip. Thanks for sharing this with us

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:52 pm

      Thanks for stopping by

  9. Beth Shankle Anderson says

    October 24, 2016 at 4:07 am

    Great challenge! I love the concept and execution. Keep us posted as it’s very interesting!!

    Beth || http://www.TheStyleBouquet.com

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:52 pm

      Thanks Beth will do

  10. Pooja Kawatra Gupta says

    October 24, 2016 at 2:57 am

    That 50/50 idea is quite cool and will definitely going to try it out.

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:52 pm

      You should it has served me right the last 11 months

  11. Janine Good says

    October 24, 2016 at 2:29 am

    This sounds like the perfect challenge for me! The expected unexpected is marvelous. I do love spontaneity on my trips, but also well thought out itineraries.

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:51 pm

      I am the same and I think that’s half the fun of going away

  12. Courtney CJ says

    October 24, 2016 at 1:41 am

    I definitely take the time to recharge after a trip. When I went to Europe instead of going straight to DFW, I went home to NJ to visit mom and get back on American time. I’m also truly envious of you going to South Africa!! Ahhh. One day.

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:50 pm

      It’s important to take some time to recharge.

  13. Anosa says

    October 23, 2016 at 10:41 pm

    Thanks, I made it a point tp travel more this year because I am not sure if I will be able to afford it moving forward

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  14. Ickle Pickle says

    October 23, 2016 at 9:38 pm

    How awesome – I love your 50/50 idea, I must try it. I am a little cautious when I go on holiday, this would be great for me. Kaz x

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 5:00 am

      I too am cautious since I am a solo traveler. I do a bit of research and also ask the locals if I can

  15. Erin Sellers Mauldin says

    October 23, 2016 at 7:56 pm

    I really like how you do 50/50 of expected and unexpected. What a great way to learn about a new place!

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 5:00 am

      Thanks Erin, it’s nice to see the famous areas about that place but even more fun to visit the not so known places

  16. HollyAllie Noah says

    October 23, 2016 at 7:17 pm

    Love this challenge! I need to plan a trip soon.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 4:47 am

      That’s exactly what I am thinking

  17. Jojo Vito says

    October 23, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    being caught in between work and the desire to travel is really a challenge. It happened to me many times. I am working as a graduate school professor, doing some consultancy on the side and writing 3 blogs. It’s all about strict time management and prioritizing 🙂

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 4:46 am

      Vito I definitely bow to you on that amazing time managment and knowing how to prioritise

  18. JamieSplendry says

    October 23, 2016 at 2:53 am

    Looks like a great trip! I like every this idea of taking a trip every month, I need to try it!

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    • Anosa says

      October 23, 2016 at 10:42 pm

      You should if you can its awesome

  19. Amber says

    October 22, 2016 at 3:51 pm

    How fun! I wish I could travel more but we don’t have the extra funds, plus we have kids in school.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 23, 2016 at 10:41 pm

      It definitely is fun and I can understand your position at the moment

  20. Hannah Heartss ❄️⛄️ says

    October 22, 2016 at 2:18 pm

    What a cool challenge! I haven’t traveled at all this year x

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    • Anosa says

      October 23, 2016 at 10:40 pm

      Its a lovely challenge and hope you manage to travel next year

  21. Clara Myers says

    October 22, 2016 at 7:15 am

    Glad you were able to enjoy your time there the way you wanted to.

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:43 am

      Thank you Clara

  22. tara pittman says

    October 22, 2016 at 5:53 am

    I do need to take more trips. Now to just find the time.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:43 am

      Hahaha, go search using skyscanner

  23. Melanie Smith says

    October 22, 2016 at 1:34 am

    It is a fantastic idea! Thank you for sharing this post!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:42 am

      Thanks Melanie

  24. Jodie Whitham says

    October 21, 2016 at 11:19 pm

    Love the idea of the #take12trips challenge! Thoroughly enjoying reading about it! Unfortunately I’ve not been abroad this year, but loved reading through your experiences lol x

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:42 am

      Thanks Jodie, hoping next year you will go somewhere abroad

  25. Sarah Bailey says

    October 21, 2016 at 11:13 pm

    This is such an amazing challenge – I would love to have the ability to take 12 trips in 12 months (sadly my health wouldn’t allow it). Blogging can be something that does take up so much time I don’t think people realise how much work we do in the background. x

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:42 am

      I don’t think many do realise the sacrifices that come with blogging but then again 90% of the time we only share the good parts

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