As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Goals · October 21, 2016

October 2016 goals

Though my October 2016 goals are practically late, it’s better late than never. We are already passed the half way point for October meaning I have less time to complete my goals. As I am a practical person, I have decided to set practical goals.

Confession time, I don’t know what happened to September and where the first half of October went. I am so busy with work right now that I don’t even have time for my university which is bad. I have two assignments due soon and I have no motivation whatsoever to complete them. Someone help me out with a motivational plan to kick my butt into gear.

As is the order of business, once I am done complaining about the ended month and the new month. It is now time to share goals from last month and see how I did. I must confess (again), I did not once look at the goals I set for September. Looking at them now, they seem more like a check list than goals.

September Goals

Majority of my goals are geared towards the Post Grad program I will be starting at the end of the month.

  • Social media detox: FAIL – though not I am not exactly blogging, I am still spending 90% of my time online.
  • Decluttering: Home and Closet: PARTIAL SUCCESS – I decluttered my closet but not sorted out the pile to throw/give.
  • Post Grad School: SUCCESS – for the first module, this was done now time for the post assignment and new module.
  • Accommodation: SUCCESS – I managed to find a hotel and stay there for duration of my module days.
  • Driving Lessons: PARTIAL – I have managed to arrange them but not really saved up.
  • Allocate time for friends: SUCCESS – A friend came over and stayed a few days and another we had a lovely chat.
  • Relax and enjoy me: SUCCESS – this is something I have somehow excelled at and not really done anything else.

It seems for September 2016 goals, I did better than anticipated. Though my goals where more of a tick box exercise, I am glad I managed to tick this many.

October 2016 Goals

We’ve already passed the half-way mark for October, meaning I have less time to create and complete my goals. Since the tick box exercise type of goals seemed to work last month, I will be carrying on this new trend.

  • Assignments: I have two assignments to submit for university and I need to submit them before due date
  • Attend Classes: First week in November I have 2 classes to attend, I hope to make these.
  • Book weekend getaway: A friend and I are thinking of heading to Rome next month, this will only happen if I do my assignments.
  • Create a schedule: I am in need of a good foolproof schedule planner to plan rest of October until December 31st 2016.
  • Schedule posts: This goes well with the above, if I create a schedule I can add in blogging time where possible.
  • Schedule TV/shows time: Again having a schedule planner will really help me with this.
  • Saving for first car: Provided I pass my scheduled driving test, I am hoping to get a small car to get me around.
  • Restart Exercising: Last proper exercise was beginning of September before my holiday. Upon my return I have been busy with university and outside work training. I am hoping the rest of October I can pull up my socks and start again.

I do not want to overwhelm myself with unachievable goals so my list ends here. Foolproof scheduler/planner I believe is the best way forward for me as I can plan my life better in that. Everything I am using so far is not working so any suggestions are highly welcome.

Did you set any goals this month or have goals for this year? Wish me good luck on my October 2016 goals!!

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Comments

  1. Anosa says

    October 24, 2016 at 11:41 pm

    Thanks so much

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  2. Anosa says

    October 24, 2016 at 11:41 pm

    I find monthly more managed than yearly which I forget before January ends

    Reply
  3. sarah (theparentingtrials) says

    October 24, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    i love that you set yourself goals, it gives you something to aspire to do.
    A weekend get away sounds perfect 🙂 hope you manage to have one hun xx

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    • Anosa says

      October 24, 2016 at 11:42 pm

      I hope to manage it too

  4. Clairejustineo says

    October 21, 2016 at 10:56 am

    Good luck with your goals. I am trying to get myself from the computer more and always fail too. I think I will just reply to this email and them a hour has passed by some how, grr twitter again!! Good luck with passing your test. I have not drove for 14 years and really need to get back in the car 🙂

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    • Anosa says

      October 21, 2016 at 9:46 pm

      14 years is a long time madam lol
      I know how 1hr can easily turn into 4 when you’re not looking

  5. Yvonne says

    October 21, 2016 at 10:54 am

    Wow you are so busy, I dont know how you keep up. Good luck with your goals, i always find it helps to have these written down – easier to complete for some reason x

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    • Anosa says

      October 21, 2016 at 9:46 pm

      Thanks Yvonne, I might need to write them on a wall calendar

  6. Stella Kashmoney says

    October 21, 2016 at 9:09 am

    I hope you pass your test so you can get your car. Good luck with the goals.

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    • Anosa says

      October 21, 2016 at 9:45 pm

      Thank you Stella

  7. Lyndsey O'Halloran says

    October 20, 2016 at 7:51 pm

    That’s a really good set of goals. I keep meaning to do this every month

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 20, 2016 at 8:11 pm

      Thanks Lyndsey, I hope you do one day.

  8. Jayne says

    October 20, 2016 at 7:04 pm

    What a fab set of goals! I think I need to try and practice the ‘relax and enjoy me’ goal!
    Good luck with achieving this months goals too x

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    • Anosa says

      October 20, 2016 at 8:10 pm

      Thanks Jayne, I need to relax and enjoy too

  9. Little Steps says

    October 20, 2016 at 10:15 am

    Loving your goals, makes me want to do my own too! 😉 At the moment, I just want to get through half-term break without pulling my hair 😉 x

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 20, 2016 at 8:07 pm

      Awww bless you, I can only imagine

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