As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Money · December 6, 2021

The Eleventh Budget of the Year in Review

With only a couple weeks left until the year ends, its time to share the eleventh budget of the year in review to look at how I managed my personal finances in the month of November. I am excited that we are in the final month of the year but also anxious about how much I want to accomplish on a personal level. Whenever I share with personal budget updates people always tell me how they wished they could manage their budget as well as I do. So outright tell me that budgets are not ‘there thing’ and personally I don’t know what that means at all.

Budgeting to me is a tool that I use every single day in every aspect of my life because being on top on your money management is the best thing you can do for your today and future tomorrow. A lot of us want the time freedom, the ability to work a job we love but not be tied down by it, a home we love but not stress over whether we can afford the mortgage next month, we want to spend more time with the family but bills have to be paid first. This is why I budget, I want the time freedom to do and choose whatever I want in my life without stressing about money. What about you?

With only a couple weeks left until the year ends, its time to share the eleventh budget of the year in review to look at how I managed my personal finances in the month of November. I am excited that we are in the final month of the year but also anxious about how much I want to accomplish on a personal level. Whenever I share with personal budget updates people always tell me how they wished they could manage their budget as well as I do.

The Eleventh Budget of the Year in Review

The eleventh budget of the year in review started out with a bang, I was preparing for a trip to the Maldives, I got my travel requirements and a budget on hand. The trip was all inclusive meaning I would have been fine not spending any money on the trip but I knew I would so I made sure to budget for it. The next bang that I did not foresee coming was the rejection of my dental claim at work closely soon after followed by a surprise tax bill from the tax man. The month of November even with a promise of paradise all of a sudden started to look like it would be a tough monty-month after all but thankfully your girl had just said up £10k in the emergency fund only 4 weeks prior.

The month of November truly showed me the important on staying on top of your finances and ensuring you have a good enough emergency fund to fall back on should the unexpected happen. In the eleventh budget of the year in review, I intend to give you a walk through of how I budgeted all the funds that came into my life in the month of November. People might think me obsessive because I check my bank accounts daily, track my expenditures daily and record them daily as well. This is a system that I follow and allows me to stay on track and it takes me a mere 5-10 minutes every single day to do the checking, tracking and recording. It’s part of my daily routine and checklist and this is me to know exactly what’s happening with my personal finances.

To show you how this check list works daily, I will use the month of November as an example, a good one at that since I am sharing the eleventh budget of the year in review:

  • Income – I have a couple of sources of income and for my everyday spending I don’t include my rental income or income that I make from Etsy and this blog, these incomes I budget them separately. It is very important for me to know every single month how much money I am working with and giving every single penny a job they will perform in that month or the next.
  • Pay yourself first – the principle of paying yourself first is very simple, but it can only happen if you know how much you earn and what are your fixed expenses. By having this information you can then decide how much money you want to allocate towards saving in your bank account and saving through investing in the stock market etc. I have a rule, at least 20% of the income from my salary should be saved and invested since I know 30% goes to my 4-walls (keeping a roof over my head).
  • Expenses – we all have expenses whether its paying your mortgage, rent or buying your favourite snacks, these are all expenses that we need to monitor. I know people who budget the amount of month they wish to spend on things like shopping but will not track were they spend the money, all they care about is did they spend the entire amount or not. Personally I prefer to track one step further and see where I am spending my money the most so I can see if a pattern is developing and seeing if the habit is something I should kick or monitor or not a bother.
  • Tracking and Recording – everyone has a preference on how they track their incoming and outgoing and personally I love writing things down in my note books but using the trackers to have everything on one page and not scattered across pages. Whether you use pen and paper or use online trackers, it doesn’t matter, what matters its the mode you prefer and use works best for you. You might find excel trackers, Apple numbers and google sheets are not your thing and that is ok, maybe try printable’s instead and write it down.

Like I said, my daily routine only days 5-10 minutes but I needed to set it up first and that took a long time to find a structure that worked for me and later one became part of my everyday routine. Even though the month of November is a particularly interest one, I still stayed within budget even when I overspent in some categories I still had money left over in some categories which was interesting to see and now I can put the remainder money towards my financial goals that I have for the month of December.

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Comments

  1. Sally says

    March 7, 2022 at 11:15 am

    I think it’s really important to budget and (if you can) have an emergency fund. Like you say, you never know when you might get a surprise bill!

    Reply
  2. Thena Franssen says

    December 9, 2021 at 6:20 am

    Figuring out the budget is something that I try to do monthly. It’s a lot of work but so important to do.

    Reply
  3. A Nation of Moms says

    December 9, 2021 at 12:08 am

    Thanks for sharing this. I should be better about budgeting and keeping track of finances.

    Reply
  4. Dani Torr says

    December 8, 2021 at 8:39 am

    Budgeting at first sounds annoying but actually, I’ve learned that it is synonymous to freedom! The freedom to do whatever yuou want with your money, within carefully thought out boundaries. Once I shifted my perspective to this I was happy to budget and it’s paid off well. Organization and prioritizing is key!

    Reply
  5. Elizabeth O says

    December 8, 2021 at 12:01 am

    This is truly inspirational for us to work on our finances too. I need to budget and identify my categories. My goal for next year is to make sure that enough income is first saved or invested before monthly expenses Thanks for the help.

    Reply
    • Faith Stephenson says

      December 9, 2021 at 6:53 am

      What a great blog to read. Paying yourself first is such an important thing. Thanks for this!

  6. Claudia says

    December 7, 2021 at 11:59 pm

    I track and record my finances and expenses the traditional way. I love to use pen and paper instead of going digital or using apps.

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  7. Brianne says

    December 7, 2021 at 11:58 pm

    Paying yourself first is something I had to learn this year. This personal finance strategy is great when you want to achieve financial freedom.

    Reply
  8. Beth Pierce says

    December 7, 2021 at 11:57 pm

    Budgeting is also a tool I use everyday. We can`t stay on top of our finances without it.

    Reply
  9. Miss Farah Al Zadjaly says

    December 7, 2021 at 4:33 pm

    This is good to know, its helping me reorganize my mess which should be sorted by now. Thank you. I love the blog.

    Reply
  10. Manali Oza says

    December 7, 2021 at 12:43 pm

    You know I have excel sheets for my budget allocation and travel expense so that i stay intact with my money, I loved your budget review. You’re doing it in a different way. Thanks for sharing!

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  11. Dr. Elise Ho says

    December 7, 2021 at 3:04 am

    Having a process is very important. The worst is to get to the end of year and have to back track for the last 12 months.

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  12. S. Norman says

    December 6, 2021 at 11:26 pm

    “Pay yourself first” is an often confused phrase. My wife used to believe that it meant she should spend money on herself (i.e. “buy something”) before spending money on anyone else. I think this should be rephrased to say “Pay your FUTURE self first” so that people understand it’s about SAVING money, and NOT SPENDING it. 😉

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  13. Cristina Petrini says

    December 6, 2021 at 4:48 pm

    I am glad to see that I am not mistaken since my method follows yours!

    Reply

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