As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

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So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
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I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Tips and Tricks · May 17, 2019

Travelling As A Group | 13 Lessons Learned

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

I quickly realised that travelling as a group is/was not for me, I am far too independent and have a different style of travel. As a solo traveller, I am an advocate for encouraging people to travel solo and often shy away from group travel. Recently, however, I swallowed the bullet and went on another group trip to Prague.

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

13 Lessons Learned From Travelling As A Group

As a travel addict, I am a great believer in trying new experiences, new things that I wouldn’t normally do. Group travel is an experience that often leaves a bitter taste in my mouth because my experiences have been awful. The recent day trip travelling as a group to Prague was remarkably better thanks to our host.

Even though I can honestly say travelling as a group is still not for me, there are some lessons that I learned and wanted to share. Everyone’s experience on group trips will be different that’s why I would encourage people to give it a try and see if its something you can get onboard with.

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

You will make new friends

One thing that has always been constant when I have travelled as part of a group is that I have made life long friends. When I have travelled solo, whilst it has been much harder to make friends, I still prefer it. Once you’ve travelled in a group, you will learn what kind of people you want to make friends with.

You will meet different kinds of people

This is a given and not only the locals that you will come in contact with but the people on your trip. I have always thought of myself as an open-minded person but travelling in a group definitely tests you to the limit.

Travelling as a group

Gives you a new perspective

Everyone sees things differently and understand them differently, travelling as part of a group gives you a new perspective. Though I have been to Prague many times, I saw it in a new light travelling with others and exploring places I have never considered.

You can save money

This is a given if your group trip is overnight, day trips are slightly different in that you pay for your own things. You will still have the buying power being part of a group and utilize the group discounts.

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

You’ll practice patience

This is something that all my group trips have taught me, I actually have more patience than I thought. I don’t give two hoots but I am more ‘understanding’ when I travel in groups than alone. You will notice behaviours that teaches you great patience.

All details are taken care of

Unless you’re a group leader, almost all details are already taken care of and you just have to turn up. You would have already agreed on things you want to do and see.

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

You can have as much free time as needed

This is a double-edged sword in that, you can have too much free time and lose out on exploring and not enough depending on the kind of travellers you’re travelling with. I am personally a fast traveller and often allocate free time to the end of the day.

You have someone to explore with

I have been a solo traveller for over 5 years and one thing I miss on solo trips is companionship. With group travels, you have this in abundance, especially when travelling with like-minded people.

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

People to take pictures of you

Travelling solo, I find it awkward taking my own pictures and often leave destinations without a picture with me in it. In a group, you have people you can help you take pictures and even suggest great posses. You also learn new tips and tricks on taking the best pictures when travelling.

You’re more confident

Travelling in a group always boosts your confidence levels, you have like-minded people and travelling somewhere you love. You will be encouraged to try new things and live out new experiences. I have found myself to be more daring when I travel with others and more open to try things I wouldn’t other do as a solo traveller.

A memorable experience

Whether good or bad, it is always a memorable experience when you travel with a group. I have missed memories about my recent group trip but it was definitely memorable and very educational.

Pushes you out of your comfort zone

Travelling alone is already out of your comfort zone but group travel takes a whole new level. When you’re with a group, you’re more inclined to step outside your everyday norm. Its even more encouraging to see others doing things that are not in their comfort zone.

You appreciate solo travel more

As a solo traveller, one learns group travel always teaches me is that I love solo travel more. I won’t give up group travel but maybe in small doses and few people. The consraints of group travel are not there when travelling solo, I have my own timetable and only worry about my feelings.

Travelling in a group is an experience that should be hard to experience the other side of travel especially for solo travellers. Group travel is different from hopping on a group guided tour, it’s more than meeting like-minded people. Its forming new relations, learning about your own travel preferences and teaches you patience you didn’t know you had.

Travelling as a group is thought to be something that only inexperienced, lazy and frighted people do. As a solo traveller, group travel is something that has never appealed to me in the slightest. A few years ago, I went on a group trip and it was the worst trip in all my years of travelling, I vowed never to ever embark on a group trip again.

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Comments

  1. MissPond says

    June 16, 2019 at 9:40 pm

    I love going away with friends, but it can get a bit tiring sorting a group out!

    Reply
  2. Hayley Warren says

    June 16, 2019 at 9:05 pm

    I don’t know if I could go away with some strangers, I’d be too worried! I love travelling solo because I can do what I want.

    Reply
  3. Steph @ Renovation Bay-Bee says

    May 20, 2019 at 9:55 pm

    We go away with a group of friends each year and we love it as we get to stay in a fab place but half the cost!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      May 21, 2019 at 6:53 am

      Cost is definitely one of the major benefits of travelling in a group

  4. mightymamabear2017 says

    May 20, 2019 at 11:43 am

    I can see why people opt for group travel but it isn’t for me. I’d much rather just go with my own little family x

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  5. Jenni says

    May 19, 2019 at 11:20 pm

    I’m not a big fan of group travel either. I prefer to make my own itinerary and move at my own pace. Not sure I’d try it again.

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  6. Elizabeth Williams says

    May 19, 2019 at 10:00 pm

    Never traveled in a group only solo, as a couple or with the kids but interesting to read about the advantages of doing so. Like the idea of it being cheaper and having a team leader taking care of everything instead of having to do it myself.

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  7. dearmummyblog says

    May 19, 2019 at 8:23 pm

    My mummy has been on a group trip once and hated it, due to the constraints on the timetable and the host leading the party. She’s very much a family/solo traveller now and even though she likes meeting new people, it has to be on her terms not thrust together.

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  8. rhianwestbury says

    May 18, 2019 at 3:02 pm

    I agree with almost all of these. When you’re in a group it is certainly cheaper, and you have people to dine with which I find is usually the hardest x

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  9. Kelly says

    May 18, 2019 at 2:56 pm

    I see the advantages of traveling in a group, although I have my kiddos, but I think it’s something I will certainly try in a few years

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  10. Lisa says

    May 18, 2019 at 2:35 pm

    You really learn a lot traveling in a group. This was a fun post to read!

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  11. MummytoDex says

    May 18, 2019 at 2:14 pm

    I’ve always been a solo traveller and I agree that the rubbish part of that is a serious lack of photos with me in them. I’m glad you had a slighter better experience this time around with your group travel. The money saving aspect means it’s definitely worth considering!

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  12. kacielmorgan says

    May 18, 2019 at 10:28 am

    There are certainly advantages associated with travelling in a group. I love travelling on my own but sometimes you just do long for some company.

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  13. Michelle Twin Mum says

    May 17, 2019 at 11:42 pm

    I can see the benefits but liek you, I’d rather go my own way. Great hou had a good host on this one. Mich x

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