As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
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Guest Post, Lifestyle, Sponsor Roundup · August 20, 2016

True Health and Happiness Starts With You

There are times where it may seem like life is coming at you at such a fast pace that if you blink you might miss something. This is especially true if you happen to have a lot on your plate. With work, school, a family, and other obligations on the table, you may feel like you don’t have time for you anymore. As realistic as that may be, you need to keep this in mind. If you don’t make or take the time to take care of yourself, who will?


Don’t fool yourself into thinking that if you fall ill with a little cold that you are perfectly okay. That’s not the issue. If you don’t take care of your mind, body, and mental health now, when things do start to fall apart, you could find yourself facing some pretty distressing health news.

Swallow Your Pride

Suck it up and make an appointment to see your doctor. Even if it has been a long time since you’ve seen them or you feel quite fine, you still need to know the status of your health. Find out what your risks are for diabetes and heart disease. Have a heart to heart with your physician so they can provide you with important information that is pertinent to your health.
Take a Look at the Scale
It is possible for you to be overweight and still look like you are in shape. Even if you look and feel great now, the numbers on the scale don’t lie. Weigh yourself and use it to calculate your BMI. If it turns out that you can stand to lose a few pounds, join a Zumba, jazzercise, or aerobics class. If you are looking to achieve fast results, consider joining a CrossFit group if you are feeling really hardcore.

Assess Your Living Accommodations

If you are not home much and spend most of your time on the go, there is a good chance that you don’t have much time to keep your home clean and organized unless you hire a maid. On one of your off days, take a walk around your home and try to look at it from a fresh perspective. Take note of what items you have that don’t necessarily belong and write down the items you have that you no longer need or use. Even if you have an attic, basement, or personal storage unit to store these things in, there is no point in you holding onto useless things. Donate them or toss them out. If you are feeling pretty savvy and want to make some money, consider putting them up for sale on an online auction site like eBay or something.

Explore Your Options

There are many ways you can take charge of your health. One could diet but in order for you to do so, you’ll need to know which one is the most beneficial for you. You could also start a new fitness activity like yoga so you can learn how to meditate to relax your mind and improve your body’s flexibility. One could even join a motivation group or become a mentor to some youngsters. The options you have are endless. Although you may have a busy schedule, if it’s something that you really want to do, you’ll make time for it.

Reestablish Your Love Affair With Food

Just because you are turning over a new leaf and revamping your lifestyle for a better one doesn’t mean that you can’t still enjoy many of your favorite snacks like cookies. Hampton Creek has some tasty, yet nutritious cookie dough and cookies that you can enjoy at any time without feeling guilty about whatever diet you’re on.
While you are learning about foods you can purchase from the store, don’t forget to learn how to prepare your foods from scratch. You don’t need to have professional culinary skills or talents in order to prepare healthy meals that you’ll enjoy. Research different recipes and don’t be afraid to ask your friends, relatives, and peers for suggestions.
Once you get in the habit of paying a little extra attention to yourself, you‘ll find that you’ve missed it and want more of it. Feel free to explore the myriad of ways you can cater to yourself so you can become a better and more efficient person for everyone else. A well-cared for mind and body is happier and more productive than one that is overworked and neglected.

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Comments

  1. Georgia C says

    October 27, 2016 at 9:48 am

    This post has come at the righ time, I’m really doing a lot of self love at the moment as I kind of forgot to do that. I’ve actually just come down with the flu which I have been fighting for a couple of weeks but it just grabbed hold of me so I’m trying to take better care of myself. We can all take some small steps to look after ourselves better. Life is passes us by in a blink of an eye. Also the tip about clearing unused things from your house is possibly my favourite thing to do anyway. I love a good clear out!

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  2. Jemma Andrew-Adiamah says

    October 24, 2016 at 6:46 am

    So many great points made and they’re all so true. Love the one about food!

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  3. Ali says

    October 23, 2016 at 10:48 pm

    I agree with so much of this, we all need to take a step back every now and again to reposition where we are and where we want to be.

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  4. Baby Isabella says

    October 23, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    My folks have heard of CrossFit before….it’s brutal. I think maybe a bit of spring cleaning would help them!

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  5. Laura says

    October 23, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    I love tidying and getting rid of everything that I dont need. A cluttered space equals a cluttered mind! xxx

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  6. Tanya Brannan says

    October 23, 2016 at 4:10 pm

    You are so right! I think we all need to step back and re-evaluate every now and again. I will be biting the bullet and visiting my doctor in the next couple of weeks. x

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  7. La French Connection says

    October 23, 2016 at 10:06 am

    That’s a great post as they are simple advice that anyone can follow. As far as the love affair with food is going, I think I’m on top of it! At least that’s one thing I don’t need to think about 🙂

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  8. Nayna Kanabar says

    October 22, 2016 at 10:47 pm

    I really enjoy reading your posts as you always touch on simple things we can do in life to make it better for us.

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  9. Sarah Bear =] says

    October 22, 2016 at 8:28 pm

    This is a fantastic post. I feel like I am really bad at taking care of myself sometimes!

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  10. Kirstie Melville says

    October 22, 2016 at 8:06 pm

    Great advice, things that people wouldn’t usually have thought about. I know I haven’t and I’m just recovering from a cold! x

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  11. Charli B says

    October 22, 2016 at 7:16 pm

    This is such a great post! I think I am always last on my list of the people who need looking after when sometimes I am probably the person who needs it the most, self care is so important and I really should remember that more often than not xx

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  12. Beautyqueenuk says

    October 22, 2016 at 6:23 pm

    Some great advice and it is totally true. Whenever I have a cold on route, I do take a look at myself and see what I can change x

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  13. Rhian Westbury says

    October 22, 2016 at 5:00 pm

    Great tips, I think that people are usually too afraid to ask for help x

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  14. Tara | C&CO. says

    October 22, 2016 at 4:24 pm

    Some great advice here, thanks for posting.

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  15. Hungry_Healthy_Happy says

    October 22, 2016 at 7:59 am

    Lots of important points to remember here, especially the one about food.

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  16. Nicol Wong says

    October 22, 2016 at 12:26 am

    some great advice right there! i love the explore your options point

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:40 am

      Thanks Nicol

  17. Hannah Heartss ❄️⛄️ says

    October 21, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    It’s so important to remember this! A great post x

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:40 am

      Thanks Hannah

  18. Kathryn says

    October 21, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    What a lovely post! It is so important to take care of yourself xx

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:40 am

      Thanks and so true

  19. Sarah Bailey says

    October 21, 2016 at 8:38 pm

    This is such a great post – it can be hard to remember to think of yourself and look after yourself from time to time. x

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:39 am

      It can definitely

  20. Tamsin - Eco Fluffy Mama says

    October 21, 2016 at 3:52 pm

    It’s important to practice self love and remember to take time out for ourselves. People often forget that.

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:39 am

      We often forget this and think just helping others will be enough

  21. Christine Dodd says

    October 21, 2016 at 2:48 pm

    I couldn’t agree more – never forget that you only have one body and it has to last you a very long time.

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:39 am

      Exactly only one body

  22. Stephanie Merry says

    October 21, 2016 at 2:26 pm

    I’m a big believer that you need to take some take for yourself before things get too overwhelming x

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:39 am

      ABSOLUTELY

  23. Jo Wiggins says

    October 21, 2016 at 1:59 pm

    I quite often have a de clutter of clothes and items in my home, if I haven’t worn or used it for 3 months then I generally pack it off to the charity shop x

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:38 am

      That’s really awesome, I try every 6 weeks to do the same

  24. Sarah | Susty Meals says

    October 21, 2016 at 12:58 pm

    I’m definitely a huge advocate for taking some time for self-care as it is so easy to spend your time and energy on other people and things. If I’m feeling a bit off kilter, I like to have a bit of a clear out as it gives me a boost and a bit of cash too 🙂

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    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:38 am

      Yea it’s easy to get lost helping others and forget about ourselves

  25. Nikki Hamilton says

    October 21, 2016 at 9:40 am

    What a great post. Sometimes by taking some time to look at how all the little things are in our life we can actually improve our life in general!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      October 22, 2016 at 7:37 am

      That is very true

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