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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
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I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Lifestyle · June 8, 2018

Ultimate Period Survival Guide

Periods, the bane of mine and most women’s existence and at times a nuisance to most of us. Every girl understands why we have periods but none of us agreed to suffer from it for days on end. I know for someone especially men this topic is gross, but guess what! We live it every month and have to deal with it constantly. With that I thought I put together my ultimate period survival guide. I am one of those unlucky sods who have it for 7 days and its painful throughout. But over the years I have learned ways to manage it and continue with my life.

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The Ultimate Period Survival Guide

Why do some women suffer bad cramps whilst others barely notice it? No one said life was fair not even in menstrual cycle or anything period related. All women release prostaglandins, this is a chemical that causes cramps. Scientifically speaking it makes the muscles of the uterus contract, the contraction is what pushes the icky out. There is lots of advice on how girls can manage menstruation, here is the ultimate period survival guide.

Medication or Herbal

We are all different, whilst others don’t want to use pharmaceutical meds and prefer herbal concoctions. It is best to speak to a qualified herbal doctor on what you can try for pain relief. If you’re on other medication it is best to consult on your GP first before taking herbals. Some medications what contraindications when combined with herbal medications. Personally I only have two options that I often use during that time of the month;

  • Paramol – used for acute pain and taken only for 3 days and no more. You can get this medication over the counter at our local pharmacy but again check with your doctor.
  • Camomile or Ginger – these are my choice of herbal products that I use to treat cramps. I don’t take them together, camomile before bed and ginger during the day.

Tampons, Pads or Period Underwear {mini-review}

It is often the case that whatever you start with at the beginning of your PMS is what you will often prefer. I started with large maternity pads because mum was a midwife and that’s what she had on hand. To this day, I prefer bulky long pads especially for sleeping in as I have a heavy flow. The only alteration over the years has been during the day I prefer long pads with wings.

ultimate period survival guide

Recently I was sent a period underwear from modibodi, something I never considered until recently. I had been reading about period pants on social media but did not pay much attention. But curiosity got the better of me and I applied for an opportunity to try the modibodi period pants. I was not sure when I wanted to start using it but as my period started on the flight back from Korea. There was no better time to try the modibodi period pant than sitting on a plane for 17 hours.

I was über sceptical about the pants and if they would hold my heavy flow but ready to try. As we left Seoul, I put them on, they were super comfortable and light material. I thought they would be heavy to be able to absorb the period, to my surprise they functioned just fine. There was no icky feeling, the underwear contained the blood and there was no leaking either.

ultimate period survival guide

Snacks or Yoga moves

What is your favourite items to snack on before or during that time of the month? Often I start eating lots of sweat things 2 weeks before then during I find myself enjoying salty foods. What I didn’t realise is salt retains water therefore I often bloated and have bad cramps because of it. The best foods recommendation {tried & tested} to enjoy during that time are;

  • Bananas
  • Baked potatoes
  • whole meal bread
  • yoghurt
  • Oats
  • Salmon

When it comes to keeping active during my periods, it is next to impossible as the pain is crippling. What I have found works very well for me is doing some yoga moves in bed. I always have my legs up in the air or leaning against the wall, this ease pain. Other moves that seem to work for me are bow pose and fish pose. There are many other yoga moves you can try to help relieve some of the menstrual pain most women experience.

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR TIPS, ARE ANY ON MY ULTIMATE PERIOD SURVIVAL GUIDE?

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Comments

  1. Sara Welch says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    Nothing is worse than being caught off guard by your period. You are saving people a lot of trouble!

    Reply
  2. Bradley C Finnearty says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    This is great information for the ladies in the family. I will share it with them.

    Reply
  3. Terri says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    I am so glad to have left that part behind me. I get your struggle though.

    Reply
  4. Joanna @ Everyday Made Fresh says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    I was lucky growing up and didn’t have any major problems when it came to my monthly period. After kids, my cycle was out of whack and the cramps awful. I have seen these panties around, and have thought about trying them out. I think I’ll pick up a few pair.

    Reply
  5. Brit Strawbridge says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    I have always wanted to know how those period underwear work!! I am completely amazed by them! This is definitely an essential list!

    Reply
  6. Liz says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    Interesting re: the period panties, I’ve heard of those but never tried them. I have mine this week so perhaps I should investigate, lol. I’m lucky in that I usually don’t get cramps at least.

    Reply
  7. candy says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    Getting up and moving always helped. All of your suggestions are helpful and very useful to get through each month.

    Reply
  8. Tasheena says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    Great tips! Love you’re snack ideas… I’ve recently looked into the period pants. I think they’re a great investment.

    Reply
  9. Melissa Chapman says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    I always like to hear about ways to get through this time of the month. I feel like it gets harder not easier and those underwear seem like a great invention to make it better.

    Reply
  10. Jeanette says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    I am definitely going to be pinning this one. There are many things that I do use when I have PMS or on my period, but you have a few more here that I have not tried.

    Reply
  11. Marysa says

    October 8, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    I’m pretty miserable during my period, and I’ll have to try some of these. Thanks for the tips – making it through the work day is a challenge.

    Reply
  12. Rachel says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    I no longer deal with periods, but my daughter is going to start hers any time now. I am debating what to keep on hand.

    Reply
  13. Emily says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    I struggle with period cramps, I have never tried yoga before to minimize them. I will have to try it out! I do notice that moving, going on a walk or something like that does help a lot. Also a warm bath helps me too.

    Reply
  14. brianne says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    These are such great tips. I am in hell for a week when mine comes!

    Reply
  15. Chubskulit Rose says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    I have one period underwear that I usually use during cycle . I would like to add some period pants if I can find it here because I love being active even in those times.

    Reply
  16. Sarah Bailey says

    October 8, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    This is such a great guide, I haven’t had periods for a long time now but when I did they were awful really made me feel ill.

    Reply
  17. Ricci says

    June 11, 2018 at 4:27 am

    I have been wanting to try some period panties! I think they are such a greta idea!!

    Reply
  18. Ricci says

    October 8, 2018 at 4:28 pm

    I have been wanting to try some period panties! I think they are such a greta idea!!

    Reply
  19. brianne says

    June 10, 2018 at 7:40 pm

    These are such great tips. I am in hell for a week when mine comes!

    Reply
  20. Heather says

    June 10, 2018 at 2:29 am

    I keep seeing the ads for period pants and like you, I’ve been skeptical. I definitely think I may try them though.

    Reply
  21. Heather says

    October 8, 2018 at 4:28 pm

    I keep seeing the ads for period pants and like you, I’ve been skeptical. I definitely think I may try them though.

    Reply
  22. Sarah Bailey says

    June 9, 2018 at 9:15 pm

    This is such a great guide, I haven’t had periods for a long time now but when I did they were awful really made me feel ill.

    Reply
  23. Sara Welch says

    June 9, 2018 at 7:26 pm

    Nothing is worse than being caught off guard by your period. You are saving people a lot of trouble!

    Reply
  24. Chubskulit Rose says

    June 9, 2018 at 4:11 pm

    I have one period underwear that I usually use during cycle . I would like to add some period pants if I can find it here because I love being active even in those times.

    Reply
  25. Bradley C Finnearty says

    June 9, 2018 at 3:33 pm

    This is great information for the ladies in the family. I will share it with them.

    Reply
  26. Rachel says

    June 9, 2018 at 3:59 am

    I no longer deal with periods, but my daughter is going to start hers any time now. I am debating what to keep on hand.

    Reply
  27. Emily says

    June 9, 2018 at 2:54 am

    I struggle with period cramps, I have never tried yoga before to minimize them. I will have to try it out! I do notice that moving, going on a walk or something like that does help a lot. Also a warm bath helps me too.

    Reply
  28. Terri says

    June 9, 2018 at 2:39 am

    I am so glad to have left that part behind me. I get your struggle though.

    Reply
  29. Marysa says

    June 9, 2018 at 2:29 am

    I’m pretty miserable during my period, and I’ll have to try some of these. Thanks for the tips – making it through the work day is a challenge.

    Reply
  30. Joanna @ Everyday Made Fresh says

    June 8, 2018 at 7:41 pm

    I was lucky growing up and didn’t have any major problems when it came to my monthly period. After kids, my cycle was out of whack and the cramps awful. I have seen these panties around, and have thought about trying them out. I think I’ll pick up a few pair.

    Reply
  31. Liz says

    June 8, 2018 at 3:10 pm

    Interesting re: the period panties, I’ve heard of those but never tried them. I have mine this week so perhaps I should investigate, lol. I’m lucky in that I usually don’t get cramps at least.

    Reply
  32. Jeanette says

    June 8, 2018 at 3:09 pm

    I am definitely going to be pinning this one. There are many things that I do use when I have PMS or on my period, but you have a few more here that I have not tried.

    Reply
  33. Melissa Chapman says

    June 8, 2018 at 2:55 pm

    I always like to hear about ways to get through this time of the month. I feel like it gets harder not easier and those underwear seem like a great invention to make it better.

    Reply
  34. Tasheena says

    June 8, 2018 at 1:39 pm

    Great tips! Love you’re snack ideas… I’ve recently looked into the period pants. I think they’re a great investment.

    Reply
  35. Brit Strawbridge says

    June 8, 2018 at 1:36 pm

    I have always wanted to know how those period underwear work!! I am completely amazed by them! This is definitely an essential list!

    Reply
  36. candy says

    June 8, 2018 at 11:48 am

    Getting up and moving always helped. All of your suggestions are helpful and very useful to get through each month.

    Reply

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