As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

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So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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Goals · October 16, 2014

2014: October Goals

 

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Hi there and welcome! Its that time again when we need to set new monthly goals and review old goals. This month I wanted to do something different in that not only will I share last month’s goals but I will also share my October 2013 goals. I like to look back and see if I am growing or still in the same rant.

***The rules are as follows and note I took these straight from the hosts blog page.***
How it works:
The linky goes live on the first Wednesday of each month.
  1. Follow all three hosts: My So-Called Chaos, A Peek at Karen’s World, & Jenee Thompson
  2. Write up a post recapping previous goals & setting goals for the next month. The post needs to include the Monthly Goals button!
  3. Link-up your Monthly Goals post in the linky below! See host’s page
  4. Visit other blogs in the linky to show support!

Monthly Goals

September Goals
  • Go to the cinema – I will not give up on this goal just yet. SUCCESS – went alone and watched LUCY
  • Visit as many family members as possible whilst in Zambia/Malawi. SUCCESS – though I didn’t got to Malawi due to funeral I did go to Zambia and had a wonderful time.
  • Continue to eat healthy – I have improved greatly with my vegetarian foods but I am not going all vegetarian. SUCCESS – whilst in the motherland I most had good meals and less on the sweets except for the freezits, ice creams (my excuse it was 45+ degrees I needed to cool down somehow.
  • Do all my product reviews before I go on holiday. Partial Success – in the end I did what I could manage with my busy schedule.
2013 October Goals:
  1. Schedule posts more regularly when busy at work – This was a big success for me until 2 months ago when I lost my mojo.
  2. Start saving for driving lessons and car. FAIL – I mean I saved up did 20 hours worth of lessons and then I just stopped, a couple business trips here and there kinda left me drained.
  3. Meet up with my German Friends. SUCCESS – I went and met my friend and his daughter, you can read more HERE.
  4. Attend more Wedding Fares. FAIL – after the first two we attened kinda lost interest and don’t see it coming anytime soon.
  5. Keep trying with citizenship money (savings). FAIL – saved up then used up for family emergencies. It’s been a year and I am still singing the same tune.
  6. Search for new US dramas to watch. SUCCESS – Scandal and The Blacklist covered that spot.
  7. Promote my blog more. Partial Success – this is an ongoing battle, one minute I want more for my blog(s) next I just don’t feel like blogging.
  8. Start and Finish the Great South Run. FAIL – never trained then thought I would stupidly go and be fine. I am glad G stopped me from doing it because a girl fainted and died from doing the run (different one) without training and preparation.
  9. Attend BBN workshop in London. SUCCESS – I attended my first ever blogger event which was hosted by NEXT and I loved it, see more HERE.
  10. Live life. SUCCESS – still doing this till this day.
2014 October Goals:

I am setting these kinda late (its the 16th today) but better late than never.

  • Finish off all the reviews I need to do and didn’t do last month
  • Join the gym here my new place – I have got to work out so I can have more room to eat junk over Christmas
  • Start cooking again – I cooked a full meal yesterday (Chilli beef on avocado) very proud.
  • Get more organised at work and home
  • Socialize more, this one man journey is getting old.
  • Go to the cinema before monthends.

What are your goals this month, remember just because you have not achieved your set goals for that month is does not mean the end of the world as we all human and slip up now and again. Give yourself a part on the back if you even achieved just one.

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Comments

  1. Ayana Pitterson says

    October 22, 2014 at 12:01 am

    Scandal Gladiator in the house!!!!! Love that show and love anyone who loves it. llol. Very cool post. It was especially great reading your 2013 goals and the goals you have one year later. You definitely seemed to accomplish a lot of these goals that you set for yourself. You go girl! Wishing you luck on this year’s goals though.

    Thrifting Diva
    http://www.thriftingdiva.com

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 24, 2014 at 10:26 pm

      Gladiator in a suit here sister hahaha. Thank you so much x

  2. Weekends With Winter says

    October 20, 2014 at 11:30 pm

    I love that you had success in watching Scandal LOL That’s like my FAV show! I see so many more successes then failures yuou should be proud of yourself

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 24, 2014 at 10:27 pm

      Thanks winter x

  3. corisbigmouth says

    October 18, 2014 at 3:02 am

    Good for you setting goals, I’m awful at it but it’s something id love to do more of!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 18, 2014 at 2:15 pm

      Thank you hun, I wasn’t always good but practice has helped x

  4. Miranda (Myrabev) says

    October 17, 2014 at 8:25 pm

    Thanks and Good luck with changing up your house.

    Reply
  5. Jessica at Team Wiking says

    October 17, 2014 at 7:03 pm

    Great list, good luck this month! I am in the middle of changing the house up, so I hope to finish it all up this month and feel more settled.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:26 pm

      Thanks and Good luck with the changing up the house

  6. Lyssadawson says

    October 17, 2014 at 5:45 pm

    I need to start cooking, I think my husband would appreciate this whole house wife thing much more! haha! I also need to get organized…. I better get to it!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:27 pm

      I think we all at some point in our lives need to get organised and cooking I am just rediscovery my love for it.

  7. Annie Montgomery says

    October 17, 2014 at 5:26 pm

    your goal list looks eerily close to mine and I’m NOT checking things off like this! ha 😉

    Reply
  8. songbirdsandbuttons says

    October 17, 2014 at 4:34 pm

    Good work completing your september goals! It looks like you’re making great progress on your october ones too!

    Reply
  9. Brenda Lawrence says

    October 17, 2014 at 3:44 pm

    Scandal is amazing! I can never seem to get enough!

    Reply
  10. Jenna Brussee says

    October 17, 2014 at 2:40 pm

    You did awesome with your September goals! I just started going to the gym again and I feel so much better! Good luck with your other October goals, too.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:27 pm

      Thanks so much, I hope you continue with the gym x

  11. Jen @ gracious luck says

    October 17, 2014 at 2:21 pm

    I love your comment about the gym and Christmas! The holidays always get me too!! The food is too tempting to me! 🙂

    Reply
  12. Candace says

    October 17, 2014 at 6:23 am

    Don’t worry about Wedding Fares.. they are BS. go your own way. Trust your gut. It’ll be the best day of your life regardless.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:43 am

      Thank you Candace, I must admit some of it was BS.

  13. Lindsay says

    October 17, 2014 at 4:20 am

    Lol I love that you want to join a gym so that you have more room to eat for the holidays 🙂

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:42 am

      Hun I always join the gym for that reason only lol.

  14. Karissa Ancell says

    October 17, 2014 at 2:05 am

    I recently saw Gone Girl and it was great.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:42 am

      Not scary at all?

  15. Heather says

    October 17, 2014 at 2:00 am

    I recently saw Gone Girl and This Is Where I Leave You if you’re looking for good movies. This is a great idea and also great to host a link up so that everyone can be inspired by each other’s goals as well! 🙂

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:42 am

      I am yet to see this is where I leave you so thanks for the sug.

  16. Lauren says

    October 16, 2014 at 11:50 pm

    What movies did you want to see before the end of the month? I am dying to see Gone Girl!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:41 am

      Expendables 3, not so much gone girl because the ad intrigued me but scared me too much too lol (I am chicken in everything)

  17. Andi Fisher says

    October 16, 2014 at 10:42 pm

    My one big goal is to finish my travel posts from last big trip in May before the end of October!

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:40 am

      Good luck hun! I need to get on with my travel posts too.

  18. Shipra Taneja says

    October 16, 2014 at 9:31 pm

    You are a busy, busy lady! Good luck with all your goals! May you succeed! <3 🙂

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:40 am

      Busy is my new middle name lol. Thanks

  19. Erica says

    October 16, 2014 at 8:49 pm

    I’ve never seen a link up for goals posts, I may have to finally join in! And good luck to you on all your goals, you can do it !:)

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:40 am

      Thank you, I think this link-up has been around for 3 years now

  20. Chelsea says

    October 16, 2014 at 6:36 pm

    Good luck with your goals! I need to get better at scheduling posts too.. I suck haha.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:39 am

      Thanks, I have to get back on the scheduling horse.

  21. Fiona Naughton says

    October 16, 2014 at 6:08 pm

    Good luck with all your goals for this month, I hope you get to tick them all off.

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:39 am

      Thanks Fi

  22. Angelic @ SimplySinova.com says

    October 16, 2014 at 5:53 pm

    I really love The Blacklist!!! Great goals, I also need to start cooking again! I recently bought a lot of cookbooks so I can get back into the swing of things <3

    Reply
    • Mia Myrabev says

      October 17, 2014 at 8:39 am

      I just love the blacklist can not wait to watch season 2. Cooking I need to get doing more since I have been lazy for 5 years lol

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