As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
:
:
:
:
:
 #hertripsabroad #solotravel #solotravelingisfun 
#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

#qatar #doha #qatarphotoinstagram  #solo travel #travelbug bestvacations igtravel travelpic travelblog beautifuldestinations tlpicks instatravel roamtheplanet traveldeeper travelgram travelinspo wanderlust instapassport exploretheworld travelpics travelmore passionpassport travelawesome lonelyplanet travelblogger travelphotography traveltheworld worldtraveler
Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the ye Happy New Year, happy 2026 #firstpicture of the year.
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me
  • Home
  • About
  • Lifestyle
    • Beauty
    • Fashion
    • Money
  • Goals
  • Travel
    • Africa
    • Americas
    • Asia
    • Europe
    • United Kingdom
  • Work with Me

A July Dreamer

A Travel & Lifestyle Blog

Beauty · December 1, 2018

Top 4 Tips for Developing a Positive Body Image

Having a negative body image can lead to anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts research has shown. This is can be a serious problem for your mental health. Building a positive body image is something you need to do in order to improve your life as a whole. And to do this, you’ll need to change your diet, use a variety of mental self-esteem boosting tricks, and remind yourself that beauty is much more than physical appearance.

4 Tips for Building a Positive Body Image and Boosting Your Self-Esteem

1.    Make a top 10 list of your best traits

Start changing your body image by focusing on your best and attractive traits. You should make a list of ten things that you like about yourself. And this list has to be not only about your looks but also your character traits and even habits that make you a better person.

If it’s hard to write ten things from the get-go, you should start with three and then add one more every day. Make it your personal rule to start your mornings with re-reading the list and adding to it. And take a look at it every time you feel down.

building positive body image

2.    Lose some weight

One of the easiest ways to give a quick boost to your body image and self-esteem is to lose a few pounds fast. Your goal is to make it so you can see the results within 1-2 weeks maximum and get a confidence boost from this.

And to make your weight loss program even more efficient for self-esteem boosting, you should choose a diet that improves the skin health as well. The ketogenic diet plan offers both of these benefits as well as many more. This diet also benefits your gastrointestinal health, which can also help fight depression induced by low self-esteem.

3.    Get away from toxic people

Being surrounded by toxic people is bad for your mental health by default. And it’s even worse for those who are already vulnerable because of their self-esteem issues. Therefore, it’s essential to remove yourself from such a negative environment.

Instead, you should look for a positive company where you can get support and encouragement. If you are too shy, make friends online. You can also look into various events and classes in your community. There you can be anonymous but also get a chance to meet new people without pressure.

building positive body image

4.    Wear comfy clothes

You might be surprised, but wearing outfits inspired by celebrities might actually harm your body image further. This happens because you will definitely compare yourself to the icon in question, which will hardly give you confidence.

Instead of trying to emulate someone to ‘borrow’ their confidence, you need to learn how to love your own body. And it’s much easier to do when you are wearing clothes you feel comfortable in. Draw confidence from this comfort and teach yourself how to feel good in your own skin.

However, you can use the ‘celebrity outfit’ trick for special occasions. It’s a proven fact that wearing an outfit which you perceive as ‘powerful’ will give you a boost of confidence.

Before you start working on your body image boosting, use the simple self-esteem test to see where you stand. If your result is very low, you might need more help to build yourself back up. Consider joining a support group or talking to a counsellor

In: Beauty

You’ll Also Love

Beauty Things I Suck At
{Beauty} Mirabella Lipsticks
5 Reasons to Switch Your Fragrance with The Seasons

Comments

  1. Elizabeth Williams says

    December 13, 2018 at 11:00 pm

    I’ve always struggled with being positive about my body. These tips are fantastic. Love the one about making a list of best traits, going to give this a go.

    Reply
  2. Kirsty says

    December 12, 2018 at 7:57 am

    I think the idea of listing all the things you like about your body and focusing on them is a great way of being positive.

    Reply
  3. Sarah says

    December 12, 2018 at 12:03 am

    I love most of these points, particularly making a list of your best qualities! It’s often something we all struggle to do as we automatically search for the bad things as opposed to the good though. I completely disagree about losing weight though.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      December 12, 2018 at 12:19 am

      I think losing weight to feel good about oneself is not a bad thing but again its not the only think that can boost ones own body confidence

  4. Laura Dove says

    December 11, 2018 at 9:50 pm

    Great tips here! I need to try these and see if it can make a difference to my mindset. I really struggle!

    Reply
  5. Jenni says

    December 11, 2018 at 9:24 pm

    Listing your good traits is a great idea and so is getting rid of the toxic people

    Reply
  6. Kelsey says

    December 11, 2018 at 4:27 pm

    I’m sorry but I have to totally disagree with losing some extra pounds. Sure it makes some people feel great but what if you are already super skinny? I think the idea of listing your top traits and getting rid of toxic people are fantastic ideas though.

    Reply
  7. Rhian Westbury says

    December 11, 2018 at 1:45 pm

    I don’t have a positive body image for myself, but I do have a list of some of the things I love about my life x

    Reply
  8. michelle twin mum says

    December 10, 2018 at 10:01 pm

    I’m going to give that test a go, I know there are areas I could improve on and I definietly like the idea of wearing a powerful outfit to help your mindset. Mich x

    Reply

Leave a ReplyCancel reply

Next Post >

Trending Makeup Colours and Styles for 2019

About Me
I'm Miranda. Travel-Addict. Blogger. Moscato Addict. Weekend Escapist. Homebody. Countryside dweller residng in Oxfordshire.

Search the archives

My 5 Year Plan to become a millionaire

https://youtu.be/rzpyQrO3BLY

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

The Categories

The Archives

  • Home
  • About
  • Privacy Policy

Copyright © 2026 A July Dreamer · Theme by 17th Avenue

This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish. Cookie settingsACCEPT
Privacy & Cookies Policy

Privacy Overview

This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are as essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience.
Necessary
Always Enabled
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
SAVE & ACCEPT

Loading Comments...