Embrace the heels! Hmmm, really? Yes really and why because heels adds to your already existing sexiness. But not all of us like wearing heels so how can one learn to embrace the heels? Well simples, just wear block heels and you’re sorted. Honestly that’s it, because most of us think heels, stilettos to be exact are the only slim death contraptions that some man designed to screw us over.
No! those are not the only heels that can (1) stand out (2) make your look even more sexy and (3) the only ones that can be considered as heels.
When I was at university, a little over 3 years ago now, I never wore anything less than 4 inch heels when going out. I love(d) my heels and I wasn’t going to compromise. Fast forward to today and I feel like my death contraptions are plotting to kill me because even the thought of wearing heels make me mentally tired so I stopped wearing them. That’s until my mum reminded me stilettos heels are not the only heels one can wear. I went home, check my closet and found I have a few block heels that I never even worn.
Embrace the Heels.
There is no time like the present to start something new, so yesterday I decided to go to Swindon for church and thought what better way to start retraining myself to embrace the heels than to wear them to church and then to lunch/shopping in Oxford with my sister. I won’t lie and say they didn’t start to hurt after 4 hours because they did but if I think about it, I spent over 4 hours wearing heels. That’s an achievement on its own and I am glad I have started to slowly embrace the heels and hope to continue.
I paired my block heels with ripped jeans and simple top and had minimal jewellery as it’s summer and I don’t like to overdo it.
Ladies, how do you feel about wearing heels? Are you up to try and embrace the heels? When was the last time you wore heels?
Melissa Bernardo says
I loved heels when I was in my 20’s. Now, I like comfy shoes 🙂
Miranda says
I am in my late 20’s and loving it even more
Working mum Blog says
I have been clearing my wardrobe today and packed up a few stilettoes that I don’t enjoy wearing anymore. I love to wear heels and never thought about block heels before so will have to investigate. I have been looking for an excuse to go shopping for a while 🙂
Miranda says
Ask and you shall be answered lol, enjoy your shopping
Laura says
Block heels were the best invention! They’re so much more comfortable and way easier to walk in 🙂
Miranda says
So true, they are my new besties
Zoe IKIWN says
I love heels so much, block heels especially, but I can’t wear them any more (doctors orders) I still love window shopping for them though 🙂 x
Miranda says
Awww bless you hun, but you’ve got to obey the doctor 🙂
Hannah says
I love the look of heels but I never wear them – so used to flats and I am super tall as it is!
Miranda says
Aah bless, you’re never too tall for heels lol
Robin Rue says
I have not been much of a heels person even when I was younger. These look so cute though! If only I could convince myself.
Miranda says
Awww bless, I think you should start small then work your way up lol
Someone's Mum (Danielle) says
Eeek I don’t think you are ever going to convince me. Every pair I have ever put on have been excruciating within a few steps – like bleeding feet painful. I can’t walk in them, I fall over, I feel self-conscious. I really hate even a slight heel! I think the last time I wore a pair was bout 8 years ago before I was married and they were off my feet within minutes of getting where I was going! Some do look very pretty, but they’re just too painful for me!
Miranda says
Awww bless you Hun, I won’t even try to convince you lol if it is as painful as you say
Tanya Brannan says
I absolutely love high heels, but find as I have got older they just cripple me 🙁 I have to stick to my flats for now x
Miranda says
Awww bless you
Emily says
I hated heels for years because I found them so uncomfortable. Then I had to buy a pair for a formal event and bought a pair that was actually comfortable! I really didn’t realize that some are SIGNIFICANTLY more comfortable than others. I still only wear them for formal occasions but it was a really eye opening revelation.
Miranda says
I was like that too before where I thought they were all painful until I tried wedges and blocked heels and I realised I could still rock the heels
emy cooks says
Girl something comfortable is great nothing too high:). If it is dancing or walking heck no, I like to enjoy those momentos. NO pain no gain is gone.hehe
emy cooks says
Girl, I like wearing heels now and then to looks sexy. But if I am going to have a long walk or a bit of dancing I will wear something comfortable cause I love to walk and dance and I do overdo both. a nice comfortable high shoes does wonders.
Miranda says
oh i am with you on that, I am all about comfort and if my heels are not comfortable then no use wearing them but block heels are comfortable for me.
Mauie - The 24-Hour Mommy says
Oh gosh, the closest thing I get to wearing heels is when I wear my 4-inch high wedged sandals. I can’t stand for hours on heels as I get backaches and leg aches after. Good luck on your retraining.
Miranda says
Thank you, any heels you wear that makes you happy is enough
Nicole Escat says
I love wearing heels, the highest that I have is 5-inches heels. I think it is so important to choose comfortable heels.
Miranda says
I couldn’t agree more, it’s best to wear comfortable heels
Jemma @ Celery and Cupcakes says
Wow! Those heels are HIGH! I’m not sure I could walk in those.
Miranda says
Hahaha, with patience and practice you can Hun
Shaney Vijendranath (youbabyandi) says
I used to love wearing heels then I had kids…lol When I fell pregnant I became so comfortable in flats that now I have no idea how to walk in heels again. Need to practice at home.
Miranda says
I become comfortable at my point with flats that it took some time before I got back into heels
Harriet from Toby & Roo says
Love this – I am heels crazy but I just can’t keep up with the kids and wear them so I tend to stick to flats 🙁
Miranda says
Yeah it’s easier to wear flats where kids are involved
Kristy @ Mommy Hates Cooking says
I used to wear heels on a regular basis, I would have felt lost without them. But now as I get older and I don’t work outside of the home, I rarely wear them anymore. It is hard to get back in the saddle once you’ve not worn them for awhile!
Miranda says
It is so hard to get back wearing heels after a while hence why I started with medium size then moved to block heels
Emma @ Adventures of a London Kiwi says
Honestly, I’m the world’s laziest dresser, but sometimes the feeling when I slip on a pair of heels makes me reconsider my stance… Also, they say women in business often feel more confident in heels. Despite the bunions…
Miranda says
Aaah the bunions are something else lol
Bethany Naismith says
I love heels! I recently walked 7 hours in a pair of 6 inch heels because I thought I could handle it. Lol, I definitely couldn’t.
Miranda says
😂😂😂😂 feeling your pain girl, so far 4-5 is my longest then back to flats
Helen Clark says
I love heels and have an embarrassing large collection of them in my wardrobe. Since hip surgery I can’t wear them any more though *sobs*
Miranda says
Awww bless you, what a shame
Aly Mashrah says
I only ever wear heels if I’m going to a wedding and about mid-way through I just take them off LOL But I do agree that heels have that classiness to them to change any look into something with a little more pizzazz. Even if you’re wearing jeans and a tee with a necklace, you can dress it up with some heels and you have a really nice outfit together!
Miranda says
So true, you can definitely dress use some jeans and tee with a nice pair of heels
Kathy says
I actually don’t wear heels. I do love them though, I just don’t wear them. I’m not very good at walking around in them haha. I need to practice more with them.
Miranda says
Practice makes perfect
Melissa Dixon says
I have always loved the way I feel in a nice pair of heels but unfortunately they have gotten harder and harder for me to walk in. I just can’t seem to keep my balance but on those days when I can, I love rocking a high heeled boot.
Miranda says
I love a nice pair of heels
Tara says
Some of these heels are gorgeous, but I just can’t walk in them haha
Miranda says
Hahaha we can all try
LarabeeUK says
I very rarely wear heels these days, sometimes I’ll wear them for a night out but I soon regret it 😉 I’d rather stylish comfort than aching feet these days!
Miranda says
I know the feeling hence why I wear block heels that other painful heels
Jess says
I very rarely wear heels, my co-ordination isn’t good enough! But when I do it has to be a good chunky block heel like these 🙂
Miranda says
Chunky block heels are my saviours right now
Hannah says
I love heels and they love me! I get a real wiggle on when I wear them!
Miranda says
I can definitely understand and relate
Charli says
I used to wear heels all the time and then I broke my leg badly 6 years ago (not a heel related incident) it’s still dodgy to this day so I get really scared about them, even though I love the look of them and own so many pairs! I do wear wedges quite a lot though and own some lovely pairs as I feel more secure in them xx
Miranda says
Oh my goodness, sorry to heel that and glad you sticking to wedges. I wouldn’t risk it either
Jayne @ Sticky Mud and Belly Laughs says
I used to love heels, but since having the kiddies, i’m more of a ballerina pump kind of woman or my cons hehe!
Maybe I will try them out again soon 🙂
Miranda says
With kids it’s not always easy to embrace the heels but a date night or special event might call for some
Dannii @ Hungry Healthy Happy says
I would love the embrace the heels, but pregnancy is slowing me down. It’s bare feet for me at the moment.
Miranda says
Awe bless you, it’s better to during pregnancy I think
Nikki Wayne says
I like wearing heels and I find high-heeled wedges comfortable and stylish too! A good pair of heels is a must-have!
Miranda says
A good pair is a must indeed
Elizabeth O. says
I don’t wear heels often, but I do love wearing them whenever I can. It’s good to have a couple of pairs in case you’re in the mood to wear heels. Good job on embracing the heels, girl!
Miranda says
Thanks Elizabeth and I agree, it’s nice to have a couple around for when you feeling it
Dee says
I am totally in love with the idea of a straight leg jean and some sexy heels. I just can’t wear heels like I use to, but you can turn some major heads if you have a confident walk with it.
Miranda says
That you can do Dee, I am loving wearing heels again and turning heads is becoming fun once again
Tami Qualls says
I cannot wear stilettos. My ankles are too weak to support my body. It’s sad because I need the height being only five feet tall. However, I can wear some block heels. I hope these are ones I can wear!
Miranda says
You should definitely wear the block heels then if you like high heels but not sure what to wear
Jessica says
I do believe the confidence that heels can bring but I am not into it until now. I love looking at them but seems they don’t want me to wear them. Haha. I am more in wedges. 🙂
Miranda says
I think if wedges are your thing then stick to them and love them even more
Liz Mays says
There can definitely be a trade off between style and comfort when you go with heels. I like those block heels! Definitely a good alternative to stilettos.
Miranda says
Thanks Liz and so true they can be a happy medium
Rhian Westbury says
I am so bad with wearing heels they have to be super chunky for me and generally look more like boots, and even then I can’t wear them for long periods x
Miranda says
I used to be bad at them but I am getting back my strides
Sarah says
Honestly, this post couldnt have come at a better time!
I LOVE block heels, and am desperately trying to find some suitable for my wedding shoes! ^_^
Miranda says
I am glad to have made the perfect timing, good luck finding some lovely heels and enjoy the wedding
Cindy Ingalls says
It really depends where I’m going, but I do wear heels with my jeans sometimes. I like the way the make my legs look and how they add something extra special to my outfit. I’m loving those booties you selected.
Miranda says
Thanks Cindy and yes I love the extra hmmf heels add to an outfit
Audrey says
I love how thick those heels are!!! The purses are super cute but I am in love with those shades!! I love how summer time has allowed me to justify having so many different pairs of sunglasses, though my husband may not agree with me.
Miranda says
😂😂😂 I think you can never have too many lol
Thanks
Jenni says
Gone are the days of me wesring heels, much more comfy and practical is some nice dolly shoes x
Miranda says
That is true, I am building a collection of comfy flats but embracing the heels as well
Sam Jeffery says
Well done girl – four hours is pretty good going haha! I used to be able to party all night in heels but now I think I’m just too old for it haha!
Miranda says
Thanks Sam, I know the feeling I do feel old partying and wearing heels at night lol but now I am back at wearing heels partying maybe not yet
Ana De- Jesus says
I love heels and wear them everyday, block heels and platforms are pretty comfortable. I like the bag in the picture.
Miranda says
Thanks Ana and yes block heels are comfortable
Fashion and Style Police says
Yesterday. I wear heels almost every time I go out.
Miranda says
Oh how lovely
Newcastle Family Life says
Before I had my little two I always wore heels and had hundreds of pairs. I have found now that I am a mum and running around after little ones I just never wear them and find it hard to walk in them now, I do love them though so I am hoping when my children are older I can wear them again x
Miranda says
That’s tends to happen a lot and it’s a naturally progression my dear. Keep them for date nights out
Milly Youngman says
I am SO SUCKY at heels but I try ’em anyway, cause they give me a little extra sass (and height, which I am in severe need of!
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Miranda says
😂😂😂 don’t we all want some more sass 😊
Laura @ dearbearandbeany says
Before I had children I lived in heels and had trouble wearing them all da and night. Now I just don’t get the chance to wear them and my feet are not used to it anymore.
Miranda says
I think once you give them up its harder to go back into them that when you’re first trying them out
DannyUK.com says
Heels always look great, but as a guy I don’t know how anyone can walk in them!
Miranda says
😂😂😂 with great difficulty but with a passion for them
Rachel says
I am like an elephant on rollerskates in heels, I just cannot walk in them x
Miranda says
😂😂😂 Rachel I try picturing that and it just made me chuckle I am sure you can manage some heels lol
Claire says
I am so bad in heels, but I can rock a wedge heel, thank heavens.
Miranda says
Hahahaha glad you can
Joanna says
I don’t usually wear heels that often but when I do I love to wear wedges or block heels as they much easier to walk in.
Miranda says
I know right, block heels and wedges are easier to walk in
Mellissa Williams says
I love heels, but wear wedges the most as I always seem to fall over in kitten heels!
Miranda says
Aww bless, I love wedges too but they always seem to be too high for me compared to block heels
LaaLaa says
I love heels, block, platform, stilettos. I feel I need a heel for everything, from the car to the chair heels aka sitting pretty, dancing shoes etc LOL but block heels are a God send x
Miranda says
Hahahaha, I love that. Heels for everything
Block heels are God sent indeed
Nikki says
I love heels but sadly they dont love me lol. I walk like bambi in them so usually i end up wearing flats when i go out. 🙂
Miranda says
😂😂😂 girl you cracked me up. I remember bambi lol I was like that too but wearing block heels is helping change that