As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both โ€˜olderโ€™ and โ€˜youngerโ€™, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, letโ€™s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing ๐Ÿคจ
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised๐Ÿ˜Ÿ, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthdayโค๏ธ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the โ€˜Village enclosureโ€™ this year, whilst I loved โ€˜Windsor enclosureโ€™ last year, itโ€™s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anneโ€™s enclosure. ๐Ÿ’• #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
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So much happened and yet I canโ€™t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. ๐Ÿ“

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Take 12 Trips, Travel Guides · July 19, 2016

{Travel} #Take12Trips Travel Challenge ~ Month Eight

“I travel not to escape life but for life not to escape me”

As I share month eight of the travel challenge #take12trips, I am drawn again to the quote above. These days when people (including my family) call me, the first thing they ask is which country I am in. For others they even go as far as asking which timezone I am currently gracing. It has now become the norm, my mum always used to say my child seat your back side down. I recently learned that she is actually proud of my travels and is living through me. All of her friends know I am always on the move and every time I speak to them or they hear me speaking to mum they will ask her again which time zone.

take12trips month eight

Seating here sharing month eight of my travel challenge, it got me thinking of how much travel has changed me as a person and how much it had opened my eyes. I have always been culturally forward and love learning & embracing other cultures but it is not until you get to experience another culture that you realise just how similar most cultures are and yet very distinctive too.

Month Eight

Since sharing month seven of the travel challenge, I have been to three countries: Paris, France; Primostek, Slovenia and Dublin, Ireland. To say June was a totally busy month for me would be an understatement. I spent 3 of the 4 weekends in June abroad and for July have been once with another trip planned for last weekend of the month.

explore slovenia

Please do not take this post as bragging (though I do want to brag sometimes) but this has been as a result of me making a huge change in my life. After university I was stricken with so much debt I could barely see the end of the tunnel. I was living paycheck to paycheck trying to pay off my debt, that somehow I forgot how to live and enjoy life.

Paris

I made a decision to live as if tomorrow was my last, I am by no means living recklessly but I am putting me first and doing the #take12trips travel challenge has been my way of living by my decision. The fact that I am sharing month eight of this challenge tells me I made the right decision.

Positive Change

I did not abandon paying of my debt and being responsible, I abandon living for the future instead embraced what I can see today and not what is not promised me. I took positive steps towards my own happiness instead of waiting on people to do that for me. I chose the present me and not the me that I will be in the future. I chose to live with no regrets and whilst I can, I choose to travel and see the world.

eiffel tower

Do not let the ‘uncertain’ future be a handicap instead embrace today, live for today and love the you today.

And that is month eight of the #take12trips travel challenge, 4 more to go.

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Comments

  1. Jenni says

    July 22, 2016 at 11:36 am

    Wow what an incredible month, this is a great challenge x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 11:42 am

      It has been an awesome month, thanks Jenni

  2. laura dove says

    July 21, 2016 at 2:30 pm

    Wow you have an amazing life with your travels. France is still one of my favourite countries in the world, Paris inparticular, but I have definitely been put off by recent events. You are right though, we cant let them win, we should still travel just as we used to, I think maybe next year we will pay a visit.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 21, 2016 at 4:46 pm

      Thank you Laura, live your life how you want it is the advice I was given and I am sharing with you

  3. Anca says

    July 21, 2016 at 10:37 am

    I love this idea. My husband and I bought a caravan 3 months ago and we’ve decided to have a holiday each month, even if it’s only a couple of nights away.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 21, 2016 at 5:06 pm

      oooh how lovely, I would love to sleep in a caravan for a couple of nights each month

  4. Kara Guppy says

    July 21, 2016 at 9:08 am

    Such an exciting adventure to do, are you working as you travel?

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 21, 2016 at 5:16 pm

      It is and no, since I usualy travel on weekends I do not have to take time off my 9-5 and if it is during the week then I just take half day

  5. Ana De- Jesus says

    July 21, 2016 at 12:06 am

    Well said, I am in a lot of debt myself and I am finding it hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I need to live in the moment.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 21, 2016 at 5:25 pm

      Sorry to hear that hun, make a plan and then live in the moment

  6. Nazrin Miah says

    July 20, 2016 at 4:40 pm

    Like they say, if travelling was free, you’d never see me again! I’m happy you have that chance! You keep living life to the fullest and explore every corner of this world!

    http://www.shewillneverlose.com

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 9:56 am

      If it was free some would still find an excuse but for us lovers of traveling definitely wouldn’t see me again lol

  7. Rachel says

    July 20, 2016 at 2:24 pm

    Dublin is definitely somewhere I want to visit at some point, it looks so beautiful x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 9:53 am

      It’s so beautiful and I loved it

  8. Zena's Suitcase says

    July 20, 2016 at 1:02 pm

    I agree with you entirely. Embracing the moment is crucial as you don’t know what’s around the corner

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 9:33 am

      Exactly and thanks Zena

  9. Jess says

    July 20, 2016 at 10:47 am

    I’d love to travel more! Looks like you’ve been to some amazing places <3

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 8:42 am

      I have indeed and thanks Jess, wish you more travels too

  10. Fi Ni Neachtain says

    July 20, 2016 at 8:52 am

    You have such a great life. I would love to be able to travel as much as you do and yay for you visiting Ireland ๐Ÿ™‚

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 8:41 am

      Yay indeed, I can not wait to come back and visit Dublin properly and Cork too

  11. DannyUK.com says

    July 20, 2016 at 7:53 am

    Sounds like a lot of fun. Paris is on my list of places to visit.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 8:41 am

      It is so much fun doing this challenge and seeing the world at the same time

  12. Fashion and Style Police says

    July 20, 2016 at 7:41 am

    Wow I am so jealous. Enjoy seeing the world.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 8:41 am

      Awww bless

  13. Jordanne says

    July 19, 2016 at 10:42 pm

    That’s fantastic that you’re doing this, what a wonderful way to fill your life with amazing experiences!! No wonder your mum’s proud, it’s such an amazing thing you are doing.

    Jordanne || Thelifeofaglasgowgirl.co.uk

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 22, 2016 at 8:36 am

      Thanks Jordanne, I figured I do this whilst I am young and free

  14. Hannah says

    July 19, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    I love that your friends have to ask which country you’re in when they speak to you – you really do travel loads!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 21, 2016 at 7:59 pm

      Hahahah I do it’s funny when they do ask and I love it lol

  15. Laura @dearbearandbeany says

    July 19, 2016 at 8:47 pm

    Its great that you are living life to its fullest and what a great time you’ve had! You enjoy it x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 3:17 pm

      Thanks Laura

  16. Tooting Mama says

    July 19, 2016 at 8:37 pm

    OOOh amazing! Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy. With two kids and a dog, holidays are now confined to school holidays and are decidedly family friendly. But at 29, have the time of your life!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 3:16 pm

      Aww thanks hun, I am making the most of it now

  17. Talya says

    July 19, 2016 at 8:11 pm

    What an incredible challenge! A brilliant way of getting out to explore the world.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 3:16 pm

      It sure is and I am loving it

  18. Keely says

    July 19, 2016 at 7:16 pm

    I’m finding this really inspiring and I’m planning some trips of my own soon!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 3:13 pm

      Good luck with your trips and join in the challenge

  19. Jessica says

    July 19, 2016 at 3:22 pm

    Loving this series/travel challenge. No matter how busy we are, take time to travel and everything seems to be easy and rewarding. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 2:53 pm

      Absolutely, I am making the time

  20. Vai Chin @Rambling Through Parenthood says

    July 19, 2016 at 3:07 pm

    Well done to you for taking on and persevering with the challenge. That quote at the beginning is so inspiring.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 2:50 pm

      Thank you so much Vai

  21. Rhian Westbury says

    July 19, 2016 at 2:46 pm

    Wow 3 out of 4 weekends abroad, that is impressive! x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 2:49 pm

      Thanks Rhian

  22. Jacqui Paterson (@Jax2000) says

    July 19, 2016 at 2:25 pm

    I’m not sure if I want to read anymore, as you’re living my dream life and I’m getting far too envious!!!! ๐Ÿ˜‰ But seriously, continue to have an AMAZING time – nothing feeds the soul better than travelling the world. x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 2:47 pm

      Aww hahaha thanks Jacqui

  23. Sarah says

    July 19, 2016 at 2:04 pm

    What an amazing adventure for you. And what an achievement if you complete your challenge!
    Good luck!

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 2:46 pm

      Thanks it has been fun so far

  24. Dean of Little Steps says

    July 19, 2016 at 10:23 am

    How lovely that you are living life to the fullest and can understand why your mum is so proud of you! I’m in my 40s now and find you inspiring ๐Ÿ™‚ x

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 20, 2016 at 2:28 pm

      Awww thanks so much Dean, I want to do as much as I can now

  25. Lyndsey O'Halloran says

    July 19, 2016 at 8:41 am

    Wow, what an amazing month for you! Must also be tiring doing all of this travelling.

    Reply
    • Miranda says

      July 19, 2016 at 9:06 am

      It can get tireless but I love it so much can’t stop lol

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