As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I s As I enter the final year of my 30s, I thought I share with you some pictures of mine at 9 months, 9 years, 19 years, 29 years  to today 39 years old of age. Looking back at each decade, I feel both ‘older’ and ‘younger’, I see the change in my features, the change in my way of life, the change in my personality and the experience itched on my face. I am grateful for the life I have lived thus far and excited for the life I am yet to live. 
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2026 - 39, (Home, England), I am ready for this final year before my 40s but also ready for this next decade. 
2016 - 29, (Oslo, Norway), this decade was about self discovery and building the life I dreamt about. The life that I am super proud of and truly grateful to be living. This decade, I built my financial life and in later years choose to heal from the trauma gained in the last decade and now I feel well equipped for the future. 
2006 - 19, (Glasgow, Scotland), I thought I was grown (look at the cheekbones 🤣🤣) and ready for the world, chiiiild was I wrong, let’s just say, I am still resolving the trauma the decade brought me but I am grateful because I met my best friends and made decisions for the future I wanted to have. (Spoiler alert - I did better than I dreamed). 
1996 - 9, (Home, Zambia) this was my birthday but my little sister insisted she had to be the one in the middle. The only way we knew whose birthday it was, was by standing in the middle but this year I remember baby sister crying her eyes out and refusing 🤨
1988 - 9 months, (Chililabombwe, Zambia) although my mother looks tired and traumatised😟, I know I was loved and happy. 
#happybirthday #happybirthday❤️ #newera #39
Attended #ascotraces for the second year running a Attended #ascotraces for the second year running and I am glad to have experienced the ‘Village enclosure’ this year, whilst I loved ‘Windsor enclosure’ last year, it’s not for me. Next year, I want Queen Anne’s enclosure. 💕 #girlsdayout #girlslikeus #ascotfashion
How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰 #hertripsabroad #bla How I missed you my love 🥰🥰🥰

#hertripsabroad #blackgirlstraveltoo #maldives #neverstopexploring #welltravelled
Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london Tried being a #touristforaday and we chose #london because why not. My feet still hurt from the thought of how much walking we did, the fact that we walked from #bigben to #buckinghampalace is still fresh on my mind. 

#neverstopexploring
🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 So much happened and 🖤🖤MARCH PHOTO/VIDEO DUMP🖤🖤 

So much happened and yet I can’t find the words.
It has been an amazing week here, definitely recom It has been an amazing week here, definitely recommend @iberostar in Agadir. 
#neverstopexploring #wanderlust #welltravelled #lifeofadventure #hertripsabroad
I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most rela I spent a week in #dohaqatar and had the most relaxing and fulfilling time of my life. Sometimes taking it slow and living in the moment is what the soul needs. 🥰🥰🥰
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#blackgirlstraveltoo
I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after no I had such an amazing week in Doha, Qatar after not visiting for almost 8years. 📍

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A July Dreamer

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Lifestyle · July 26, 2017

Happy {Belated} 4th Blogavesary {A July Dreamer}

July 8 2013, I woke up with the urge to start the blog after chatting with my sister a couple of nights before. I had just moved from Cambridge to Newbury after getting my first graduate job 3 days after university. Life all of a sudden become serious, strange and I was alone in an unfamiliar place. I left behind all my friends and family and knew no one in the new town. Quickly I become friends with my new housemate and new colleagues at work but still needed an outlet. The morning of July 8th after my birthday weekend I wrote my first ever post, a rant about today’s kids.

The intention was never to build this blog into a business but 4 years on I can say it’s slightly that. I went from ranting about life, sharing my passions to continuing to share my passions and make money from it. Was it a weird transition, someone paying me to do what I am already doing? Yes it was weird but extra income is always welcome everywhere. Whilst the fourth year blogavesary was over 2 weeks ago, I still wanted to share what the last four years have been.

First Product review { Taj ~ Aloe Vera Water – cost of item £1.25 each} 

After blogging for about 7 months Taj reached out to me and asked if I could review their aloe Vera water. Though I wasn’t familiar with the brand I knew all about the Aloe Vera water from a friend. I was super excited (till this day) my first company collaboration. The items might have been cheap but definitely amazing and an opening for many others. I spent almost all of 2014 reviewing different products from sonic face brushes to tripod stands. It was so overwhelming that I decided that year to always dedicate a post to sponsors. The first two in the series where in November and December of 2014.

Recent Product Review {Fuüm Mattress – cost of item £550}

Fast forward four wonderful and at times trying years and I am reviewing the likes of memory foam mattresses. This is the second time I reviewed a memory foam mattress, the first was a Leesa Mattress. To say I was gobmasked the first time round and even more so the second would be an understatement. Never in my life did I ever think I would be reviewing a £500+ mattress on the blog.

First Sponsored post {Weddingshe ~$40}

I remember the day I received my first Sponsored post offer, I couldn’t think of anything else. For me it was a total shock for a company to reach out to me and actually pay me to write an article. What I didn’t know was that opportunity would open a can of worms I didn’t think about like paying taxes. I don’t mind paying taxes but just didn’t think blog money was taxable 🙈🙈🙈.

Recent Sponsored post {Five ways to combat tired skin ~ £80}

Sponsored opportunities come in number of forms, PR or a brand can reach out and ask to collaborate. Collaboration could be content provision (they write) or request for blog feature (you write). I have a mixture of post every single month and it’s exciting. Fellow bloggers ask me how PRs and companies reach out to me, majority is {online} word of mouth. When companies reach out to me it’s because they already have an idea of what they want and either they google or use blogger databases. I have worked with some PR firms since 2015 and each month they reach out on behalf of their clients. It’s a great feeling being entrusted by the brand or company to feature their product on my website and share my honest opinion.

What has worked for me and what hasn’t!!

Blogging is different for everyone and we all attract different people and most have specific niches. What has worked for me has not worked for others and might not work for you or even me at different stage. An example of what hasn’t worked for me has been affiliate marketing and blog ads. I am sure you’ve read many bloggers share tips on how they make £££ from affiliate marketing. For me that’s flogging a dead horse because it well and truly not worked for me. I don’t feel as though my blog is a place that’s catered for encouraging people to buy whatever I advertise on the blog. For me I feel if readers buy items I talk about it’s because they were going to buy it anyway but needed the final push.

What has worked for me is being contacted for sponsored posts and product reviews sharing my honest opinions. As I mentioned above, {online} word of mouth changed many things for me. I worked with a couple PR couples who introduced me to a dozen of their friends. Then I have collaborations where the company or brand reaches out after googling for a blogger and it’s me. It’s truly empowering when companies and brands reach out for collaborations, but remember being cocky doesn’t help.

The last four years have been truly incredible and I am excited to see what the next four years hold for A July Dreamer.

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Comments

  1. Mhaan Arambulo-Delos Santos says

    July 31, 2017 at 4:00 pm

    Happy 4th blogaversary dear! I am blogging for 2 years now and same as you, I’m earning thru sponsored posts and brand collaborations. I find affiliate marketing too technical for me lols.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:13 pm

      Affiliate marketing is definitely not for everyone but kudos to those who make it work.

  2. Terri Ramsey Beavers says

    July 29, 2017 at 3:30 pm

    Thank you for this valuable information and I’m glad to know that things aren’t going to work as well for each of us. I can’t make affiliate marketing and blog ads work for me no matter how hard I try.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:41 pm

      Exactly, not all blogging methods will work for all

  3. Anam Anam says

    July 29, 2017 at 12:02 pm

    I am glad to see your progress. It is good to be honest and true to yourself and your blog. Stick to what brings you success and forget about the others (affiliate marketing)

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:42 pm

      Couldn’t have said it better myself, its important to stay true to yourself and your blog. There are so many temptations out there.

  4. Adaleta Avdic says

    July 29, 2017 at 6:43 am

    How awesome congratulations on 4 years, that is amazing!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:42 pm

      Thank you

  5. Blair Villanueva says

    July 29, 2017 at 4:01 am

    Happy anniversary for your 4th year in blogging, that’s awesome! You have many years to come and enjoy that moment. Cheers for more projects!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:43 pm

      Thanks Blair, can’t believe its been 4 years already

  6. Khushboo Motihar says

    July 28, 2017 at 5:35 am

    Hey my blog recently turned 4 too and I feel the same way you do. Reading about your collaboration with Taj reminded me of my first sponsored post. I was so excited and proud of myself 🙂

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:44 pm

      OOOH congratulations to you too luv!
      The first collaboration will always be memorable and reminds you on your humble beginnings

  7. Emily Crawford Morton says

    July 27, 2017 at 2:53 pm

    That’s awesome! Congratulations!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:44 pm

      Thank you

  8. Heather Whoneedsacape says

    July 27, 2017 at 2:06 pm

    Happy Blogaversary! 4 years is a long time – you should be so proud. I agree it takes a bit of time to figure out what works for you and your blog!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:44 pm

      Thank you and yes it sure does, it certainly took me a while to figure out that affiliate marketing was not for me

  9. Kachee || KacheeTee.com says

    July 27, 2017 at 11:11 am

    You’ve done so well babe, and that’s amazing! 4 years of consistency is no easy feat. Affiliate marketing does seem too rather tough – although I haven’t looked at it in detail. I’m pretty sure i’ll be more open to sponsored posts! Might shoot you an email for some advice if that’s okay, and perhaps an intro to some of the PR people you’ve worked with.

    Congrats again! and very best wishes for the future. Xx

    KacheeTee.com

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:46 pm

      Thanks Kachee, definitely welcome to send me an email and happy to introduce you to PRs that I have worked with and are looking for bloggers to work with too.

  10. Jasmine Eclipse says

    July 27, 2017 at 3:28 am

    Happy 4th Anniversary (Blogiversary) !!! That’s an amazing accomplishment, especially because you’ve created a business out of it! Congrats!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      July 30, 2017 at 7:46 pm

      Thank you Jasmine, I am so proud of where I am now! I didnt think I would reach this far

  11. Jen At Dapperhouse says

    July 27, 2017 at 3:00 am

    You are so awesome to share your tips and expert advice! Happy 4th anniversary and cheers to many more 🙂

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:14 pm

      Thank you so much Jen, that means a lot

  12. Heather Johnson says

    July 27, 2017 at 12:42 am

    Congratulations on reaching your fourth blogavesary. How exciting! I will be celebrating my sixth this September. Here’s to many more for both of us!

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:14 pm

      SIXTH!!! Oh wow, kudos to you and thank you

  13. Heather - Heartfully Heather says

    July 26, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    You and I have had the same experiences in blogging. I have had little to no success with Affiliate marketing. I’m hoping to educate myself more with it, but I’m also not a pushy sales person, so like you said I believe people have interest already or they don’t.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:15 pm

      I feel that those of us who are reluctant when it comes to pushing those sales wont find affiliate marketing our kind of cuppa tea. Thanks hun

  14. Sarah Bailey says

    July 26, 2017 at 6:43 pm

    Congratulations on your 4 year blogaversary and what a lovely look back on the things you started with and where you now are.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:15 pm

      Thank you, I feel its important to remember your roots but also look forward

  15. tara pittman says

    July 26, 2017 at 5:47 pm

    I know what you mean about taxes. Last year I had to pay them but I also made money so it is ok.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:15 pm

      Oh Taxes are the bane of blogging but if you make something decent they are not so bad

  16. Helene Bludman says

    July 26, 2017 at 3:11 pm

    Happy blogaversary! Wishing you continued success with your blog.

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:15 pm

      Thank you so much Helene

  17. Cassie Liz says

    July 26, 2017 at 10:33 am

    congratulations! 4 years of blogging is no easy feat and you have set up a wonderful community here! wishing you all the best for the next 4 years

    Reply
    • Anosa says

      August 1, 2017 at 9:16 pm

      Thank you so much Cassie, definitely not been easy but definitely worth it

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